Just because your husband has no feelings for you and wants a divorce doesn't mean you won't meet a compatible man after ending your marriage.
Sister, a marriage without love is like stagnant water. If it continues like this, a perfectly healthy person might suffocate. Even if they don't,
Her temperament would likely change drastically. Think about it, could you really live like that with a man who has no feelings for you?
At this moment, Song Lan felt an extreme disgust for Zhou Zhiyuan, not because he wanted to divorce his wife, but because he despised his character.
If you have no feelings for your wife, why did you have a child?
Even if there is no love between the two, if they can enter into marriage, they should take on the responsibilities of being a husband and a father, instead of opening their mouths and asking their wives for a divorce after meeting so-called true love.
"But I have feelings for my husband..."
Xia Wei tearfully recounted, "Although we got together through a blind date, I already liked him before the blind date..."
"Sister, feelings are mutual. A marriage won't be happy if only one person likes the other."
Song Lan said, "On the other hand, even if a man and a woman who have feelings for each other get together, if one of them gives first, he or she is the one who is most easily hurt. If the other party's feelings change, their marriage will also end in divorce!"
Do you understand what I mean after saying all this?
After waiting for Xia Wei to speak, Song Lan's voice rang out again: "Married couples don't necessarily have feelings for each other. Of course, it's best if they do, but in marriage..."
Both parties must first and foremost have a sense of responsibility—responsibility to their family, their spouse, and their children. If one party loses their sense of responsibility, what else can you expect from them?
After a pause, Song Lan continued, "Sister, your husband has clearly lost his sense of responsibility towards the marriage. Otherwise, he wouldn't have brought up divorce with you. What's the point of keeping someone like that around?"
There's a saying that goes, "Take a step back and the sea and sky will broaden." Applying this to you, sister, you've not only gotten rid of an irresponsible man, but you might also soon meet someone responsible, dependable, and who truly cares for you and wants to spend your life with you.
"Is it really possible for me to meet someone like that? Even if it is, what will happen to my feelings for my husband?"
Xia Wei's eyes were filled with tears and pain.
Song Lan: "Sister, forgetting a relationship is simple, just start a new one."
"You're suggesting I get a divorce? And that I...find another man after the divorce?"
Xia Wei asked Song Lan.
"Sister, I'm not suggesting you get a divorce, nor am I telling you to find another man to marry after your divorce. I'm just analyzing your current marital situation for you. As for whether to separate, and whether you should remarry after separating from your husband, that depends on your own wishes."
However, if I were you, I would choose divorce to avoid being treated coldly by my partner for a long time. It's really easy to make yourself sick from being so repressed, and you might even go crazy.
After the divorce, I will live my life well. If one day I meet a gay man who shares my values, likes me, and whom I like in return, then I will choose to remarry.
At this point, Song Lan asked Xia Wei, "Sister, do you have a job?"
Upon hearing this, Xia Wei nodded: "I work at the post office."
Song Lan: "You have a job, so even if you get divorced, you definitely won't have any problems making a living."
"What if I don't have a job?"
Xia Wei suddenly asked this question.
"National policies have been adjusted. If you're unemployed, you can look for work in private companies or do some small business."
In short, our country is so good now. As long as we work hard, and don't do anything illegal like murder, arson, or break the law, surviving shouldn't be a problem at all.
Seeing Xia Wei's thoughtful expression, Song Lan continued, "Where do you live? I'll give you a ride."
"No need to trouble Comrade Song, my home is nearby."
Xia Wei responded.
Song Lan laughed and said, "It's okay, my husband's car is parked across the street, it won't take long to get you home."
"Really, you don't need to."
Shaking her head, Xia Wei took a step to leave.
"Sister, it's quite a coincidence that we've met twice in such a short time. Come on, let's get in the car."
Pulling Xia Wei back, Song Lan led her back to the other side of the road. When they arrived at the car, she picked up Erbao and sat down next to Dabao. Then she invited Xia Wei to sit down next to her.
The reason Song Lan wanted to take Xia Wei home was because she was worried that something might happen to her on her way home. After all, it was Qin Yaxin who was dating Xia Wei's husband, which led to the couple's divorce...
Even if the blame cannot be entirely placed on Qin Yaxin, or even if it has little to do with her, the fact that the woman beside her attempted suicide is related to her husband's desire for a divorce, and Qin Yaxin is inextricably linked to her husband's decision to file for divorce.
Anyway, she can't be wrong to get the person home safely.
"Sis, you won't do *that* again, will you?"
As the car moved forward, Song Lan asked Xia Wei with a smile.
"No, I won't do anything foolish again!"
She has a job and shouldn't have trouble supporting herself and her daughter. Since Zhou Zhiyuan is determined to divorce her, then she... she will do as he wishes...
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Zhou Zhiyuan walked out of the courtyard gate. He didn't go far, but just looked around the neighborhood. When he didn't see his wife Xia Wei, he was filled with rage.
Yes, he wasn't worried about his wife Xia Wei's safety; he was simply resentful that she was so inconsiderate as to disappear on New Year's Eve, forcing him to go out in the cold wind to search for her.
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