Chapter 586 Extra (VII)
At the beginning, he was very curious about everything in this world. He could recognize his father, mother, and even other servants. Just by seeing them once, he could know that they were different people. Then, by listening to their conversations, he could match their names and identities.
He didn't know why he could be like this, but he just could be like this. He thought everyone was like this and didn't think there was anything strange about it.
But as he grew up, he realized that not everyone was like this, at least not all people of his age were like this.
Many people thought he was scary because of this, but his mother was the only one who was not afraid of him. She was so gentle and would play with him, tell him stories, sing to him, and talk to him.
Even though he couldn't speak, she knew he could understand, so she would still talk to him and teach him in detail.
He doesn't like his father because he can feel that his father doesn't like him either. Every time they meet, they stare at each other. Although they look similar, they dislike each other.
When he grew up a little bit, he began to explore the world, looking here and there, and he also started to read books. The world in the books was much larger than the world he moved in, so even though his range of activities was not large at the time, he had already learned a lot about the world.
He can also understand what the adults say. Ai Yun loves Huo Yun very much. When Huo Yun is sleeping, he will be responsible for taking care of Huo Jiusi. He will also take Huo Jiusi to meetings with the elders and to negotiate with other people.
Huo Jiusi didn't understand at first, but he would remember the words. After reading more books, he gradually understood the words. Not long after that, he could understand what those people said.
By the time Yaya met Huo Jiusi, his mental state was already that of a teenager or even a person in his twenties. Naturally, he had become very calm since then. Of course, witnessing his mother's death was also a blow to him.
Being mentally mature does not mean that one can accept the death of his mother in his heart, just like many adults cannot accept it, especially since Huo Yun's death was due to an accident and not due to illness.
Fortunately, at that time, Huo Jiusi met Yaya, who brought a ray of sunshine into his gloomy life.
People will have a second or even a third awakening of self-awareness, and the second and third times refer to becoming aware of their own subjectivity.
As they grow up, both men and women will inevitably be subject to social discipline, especially women.
The education that women receive from childhood is to be quiet, well-behaved and sensible.
Of course, men also receive similar education, such as being brave, responsible, and capable.
These disciplines put women in a disadvantaged position. Although the different body structures of men and women mean that men are destined to be stronger than women, women can also achieve great strength after training.
Another reason is that in the past, productivity was low, and more manpower was indeed needed. However, as productivity increased, some things that required manpower could be replaced by machines, while machines require intelligence to operate.
In terms of intelligence, the brain structures of men and women are different, but they are equally capable.
It doesn't mean that men are better at science and women are better at liberal arts. Many writers are men, and many scientists are women.
But women have been disciplined to be just beautiful reproductive tools. When people talk about girls, they will not say that this girl is brave, that this girl is responsible, or that this girl is excellent and capable. Instead, for girls, good adjectives are beautiful and cute, virtuous and family-oriented.
These adjectives will subtly trap women in this circle. Many women have heard a lot of words since childhood that it is enough for girls to be pretty, and it seems that being pretty can get them everything.
Then they will also learn the stories of concubines who were favored because of their beauty.
Beauty is the icing on the cake. No matter whether men or women, good-looking people will definitely have an advantage. After all, who doesn’t like good-looking people?
But beauty is not everything. If it only looks good but has no brains, it will only become a vase, and a vase for others to play with. They may find it boring after playing with it for a few days and then throw it away.
This is true for objects and even more so for people.
Women don’t need to pay attention to politics, economy, or how the world is changing. Women just need to be pretty, know how to do housework, and take care of the home.
Over time, women are trapped at home and unable to see the vast world.
Therefore, the second awakening of self-awareness is to know that you are important and that you are an independent individual. Women can be the head of the household, women can enter all fields that men enter, women can see the vast world, and women can do many things.
Women don’t have to be beautiful, women don’t have to know how to do housework, women don’t have to be trapped at home, and women don’t have to get married and have children.
Love is not something that women must experience, and women do not have to become blood bags for their brothers.
It’s just that no one talks about these things, because even if someone is an expert in a certain field, her standard of success must be getting married and having children.
If a woman does not get married and have children, she is not a complete woman. She will be looked at strangely and many people will talk about her behind her back.
However, with the development of society, more and more women are beginning to awaken their self-awareness. First of all, they realize that they cannot be trapped at home all their lives and they need to have a job.
If you have money in your hands, you will have a say and autonomy.
Yaya has been praised for being beautiful and cute since she was a child, and her family members have said this many times, but they also praise her for being brave, smart and confident.
Her grandfather and father both told her that she should think of herself as a country and let her get involved in politics and economics.
Even though she didn't understand when she was a child, they would tell her these things just to make her understand how important she was and how she should get along with others.
As a country, independence is the most important thing. Anyone who wants to establish a relationship with it must be equal.
If the other person is stronger than her and wants to dominate her, then she needs to resist.
But if she is weak and cannot fight against the other party, then make herself stronger.
To become strong, one needs not only financial resources but also military force, and other aspects cannot be weak either. This is what is called comprehensive strength.
When Yaya was a child, she never felt it was hard to learn these things, because she knew that being weak was the real hardship.
She became strong not to bully others, but to avoid being beaten.
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