"Then what do you think Song Xin should do at his age? Of course, let's put your two affairs aside for now."
Ling Yong immediately understood what Ling Ju meant. "You mean, Song Xin thinks that what's going on between us will affect her future? Or her development in the army?"
"This is my personal opinion, not necessarily Song Xin's. I think my mother-in-law was too harsh last time. Song Xin is afraid that after confirming your relationship, you will get engaged, and she will feel trapped."
Ling Yong was puzzled. "But doesn't she have feelings for me? Getting engaged first without getting married won't affect her!"
"No, brother, it's different. From your men's perspective and from our women's perspective, the same thing will give different feelings and different results.
Some things are very simple for men, and marriage will not affect your career development, but for women, the results will be completely different. Once a woman gets married, her career path will inevitably be limited.
Look at our mother and Song Qi's aunt, they are good examples. Do you think if Song Qi's aunt hadn't gotten married, would she have made a difference in the army now? Instead of working in an office for the sake of her family."
Ling Yong seemed to understand a little, "I understand a little bit, so what should I do now?"
"Brother, do you think you can accept waiting for three to five years?"
Ling Yong didn't answer in a hurry, but sat on the sofa and rubbed his hands, "I can wait. Three to five years won't be too bad."
"Brother, if you can't wait, go on a blind date, or look for other female soldiers in the army who are older than Song Xin. With your qualifications, it will be easy for you to find a good partner. But if you can wait, I believe that Song Xin will only be yours."
Ling Yong shook his head, "I don't want anyone else. I'd rather be without than with someone who doesn't have what I want. I can wait. Song Wei has been waiting for Ye Qin for so many years. I'm no worse than Song Wei."
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