Chapter 189 Emotional Topics
"I don't have any requirements for appearance, you know." Tracy took a sip of coffee.
Zhang Wei said, "People who say this tend to have higher expectations in other areas."
Hayat said proudly: "Then I am different. I not only have high standards for appearance, but also for other aspects!"
"Oh? Then tell me about it." Zhang Wei smiled. Hayat looked like a real young girl.
"My lover must first have a handsome face and a strong body,"
When she said this, she nodded at Zhang Wei and said, "Your brother looks a little thinner!"
"And he has to be an absolute gentleman, preferably one with a family background that matches mine. I won't let those poor boys get away with it!"
Zhang Wei immediately gave her a thumbs up, and Tracy, who was not in a particularly good mood, was also amused by her.
"Don't laugh at me, I really think so. I don't think I will give up my favorite afternoon tea and private show performances because of love."
Hearing Hayat say this, Zhang Wei straightened his expression and said:
"You're right. I'm not agreeing with you on purpose. It might be hormones that make two people fall in love at first sight, but for two people in love to stay together for a long time, there needs to be a psychological resonance."
"People grow up in different environments and receive different educations, so they have different perspectives on the same thing. This can easily lead to conflicts and disagreements, so even if two people fall in love at first, it won't last."
"So Hayat, this way you can avoid these problems affecting your relationship."
Tracy listened thoughtfully and said, "What you said seems to make sense. How do you know all this?"
"Are you secretly dating behind our backs?" Hayat was so excited as if he had caught something on her.
Zhang Wei was rarely able to speak. These were all summaries of shining experiences that were popular in various emotional issue comment sections in her previous life. Even though she had never eaten pork, she had seen pigs run, not to mention that she had indeed had a very short emotional experience before.
Although Zhang Wei couldn't even remember the man's face now, she still remembered their first official date. They were chatting happily when he asked to see her earlobes.
Zhang Wei had her hair loose at the time, and when she heard this, her hand couldn't help but touch her ear.
At that time, she wondered if she had heard it wrong. She looked at him doubtfully, but when he repeated it again, his eyes were full of seriousness.
It turned out that his family believed in ancient numerology very much, and he was also influenced by it. His grandfather told him that he must look at the shape of the earlobes when looking for a partner, so although he had a good impression of Zhang Wei, he still had to follow his grandfather's instructions.
Zhang Wei's head, which had been a little dizzy from the conversation, immediately became clear. Although she and the boy had met on the same subway for a week in a row, which made her feel a bit of fate, and the boy took the initiative to invite her out, they had a very pleasant conversation.
But when I heard him say he wanted to see my earlobes, my first feeling was surprise, and second was disgust. Although there was no frivolous look in his eyes, he obviously took this as a very important matter.
Zhang Wei felt a sense of absurdity in her heart. She had never believed these things before. When she thought about the other party talking about the interesting traditions of her family, she seemed to be able to smell a rotten smell immediately.
In the end, Zhang Wei did not let the person she had a first date see her earlobes, and the matter ended in nothing. However, she did not regret it.
Zhang Wei didn't know whether her earlobes met his family's standards, but she knew that if she went to his house, there would be many standards to follow. At that time, she felt that he should find a girl of equal status and someone with similar ideas and concepts to live with.
Seeing Zhang Wei stunned, Hayat immediately said in surprise, "Is it true I was right? You have a boyfriend?"
Zhang Wei immediately denied it, then concealed the protagonist and told them the incident as a story.
After listening to this, Hayat asked, "Why can't we look at the earlobes? I think I would agree."
Tracy: "What Vera meant, maybe respect?"
Zhang Wei nodded: "Yes, it is respect."
Tracy explained to Hayat: "When the boy asked to see the girl's earlobes, he didn't express his attitude first, as if he would only accept the girl as his lover if the girl's earlobes met his standards."
"So the girl feels that the boy's affection for her is not worth mentioning in the face of this objective standard, and she is not respected."
"Oh—then I understand. So the boy just wanted to find a special ear. Why doesn't he become an ENT doctor? That way he can see the most ears in the world!"
Hayat didn't understand what special connection there was between earlobes and finding a partner, she just thought the boy had some quirks.
However, Zhang Wei felt that her suggestions were good and could indeed help him find a suitable partner as quickly as possible.
Zhang Wei originally wanted to say that the two people had different concepts because they received different family education, which would lead to conflicts in ideas, but it is more difficult for foreigners to understand Chinese metaphysics.
However, after experiencing rebirth, Zhang Wei also developed a sense of awe for these things. Maybe if someone tells her fortune in the future, Zhang Wei will accept it.
Zhang Wei then used another example to support Hayat's argument:
"Can the Princess and the Pea be with the wandering painter? I'm afraid the Princess and the Pea will die suddenly from sleeplessness."
"In Titanic, Rose was with a gangster because they were still on a luxury cruise ship. Rose did not experience other conflicts brought about by different statuses, and Jack died when she loved him the most."
The reason why she worked so hard was because she noticed that Tracy was not very interested in Prince Mideo and was worried that Tracy would go in the opposite direction, so she reminded him in advance as a friend.
Although Tracy looks quite stable, she is only fourteen or fifteen years old, and her family will definitely bring her pressure, which is inevitable. If she can become more mature in her thoughts on love, her future path will probably be smoother.
"You know so much, what do you think about your future partner?" Hayat still did not let go of the topic.
“You’ll know when you encounter it, I don’t know it now.”
Zhang Wei answered very straightforwardly. At least so far she had no idea. Perhaps the boys around her were too immature and could not shake Zhang Wei's overly mature heart for the time being.
"Then why don't you try it? I heard that you hardly ever read the letters you receive."
Hearing this, Zhang Wei thought of the colorful letters she had stuffed under the bed, and felt a chill in her heart.
The letters were all written by students from the boys' school. She was a little curious when she received them for the first time. After opening one and reading it, the hairs on her body trembled.
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