Chapter 619 Extra 11
In Zhou Min's eyes, women like them who have enjoyed all the blessings of their family since childhood should appropriately repay their family's kindness in bringing them up after getting married. Even if they do not have the ability to repay, they should not cause trouble to their parents' home again and again.
Moreover, their families have already made the best arrangements for them and given them generous dowries. Under such circumstances, they still let themselves suffer all kinds of grievances. Not only are they doing themselves wrong, but they are also unfilial.
Tang Quan'er didn't know why her nose was sore and her eyes turned red. Zhou Min didn't comfort her. She shook her head helplessly. Today was someone else's wedding day. You came to congratulate her with such an expression. It's not appropriate for a sister to show it, let alone she is just your cousin.
"Are you reluctant to part with your ex-husband or do you not trust your family?"
"Or maybe you don't have confidence that you can live a good life?"
Xin An didn't say anything. He just wanted to see how Zhou Min would advise Tang Quan'er. When Tang Quan'er was a girl, she was lively and even though she didn't have many ideas, she didn't have any obvious problems. Who would have thought that she would be such a pushover after getting married.
Tang Quan'er was about to speak but stopped herself, her heart was in turmoil. Zhou Min said, "We are all extremely lucky girls. We were born into wealthy families. The greatest hardship we have ever experienced is probably the medicine soup. However, the premise of this wealth and safety is the support of our father, brothers and mother. When we get married, we step out of the protection of our parents' home, stand in front, and hold up the umbrella of our husband's family together with our husbands to provide protection for our children. We can no longer rely on others at will."
"If you want to live well in your husband's house, you must have your own rules"
If Tang Quan'er had been tough, people in her husband's family wouldn't have dared to act rashly, and her husband wouldn't have dared to bully her at will. It was because she didn't stand up for herself, or didn't abide by the rules, which made people think she was weak and could be bullied, and that's how things have turned out.
It was unknown how much Tang Quaner had taken in. Xin An smiled and comforted her, "You have to live your life on your own. You can't expect your partner to give in to you. Husbands and wives will go through a long period of testing, bargaining, and concessions before they find a way to get along. If you make a mistake in the first step, then every step you take for the rest of your life will be wrong. It is very likely that you will be stuck in a quagmire, unable to extricate yourself, and suffer a lot, with a dilemma."
"Luckily your family members felt sorry for you and brought you back in time. It's not terrible to make mistakes, but you have to know where you made mistakes. You have to be brave enough to recall the past, find out the reasons and correct them. You have to know that this divorce is the first and last time."
"You are a smart girl. You were protected too well by your family before. You have never experienced any hardships. You are too soft-tempered and suffered a great loss. I believe you will not make the same mistake again."
Seeing that it was almost time, Zhou Min smiled and changed the subject, "You should learn from your cousin's wife when it comes to harem skills. You will definitely not go wrong. By the way, you have been free recently, why don't we go to the powder shop tomorrow to have a look? I heard that there is a new powder that is extremely delicate and has the effect of nourishing the skin. There is also a new lip balm that is bright and soft in color. I want to try it."
Tang Quan'er shook her head. She had just gotten divorced and didn't want to go out shopping. Zhou Min didn't make things difficult for her and said that she would ask her Zhang's sisters-in-law to go together. As she was talking, her two sisters-in-law from the Zhang family arrived. She hurried forward to greet them and took the initiative to introduce them. The yard immediately became lively.
It became even more lively when Lin Yao, Madam Liao and others arrived. The laughter of little kids and the chatter of female relatives could be heard all over the house. The ladies who treated every banquet as a marriage-seeking banquet were even busier. When they got together, your sons were outstanding and your daughters were beautiful. If you were lucky, you might be able to marry each other on the spot.
Jiao Wei also came to give gifts and took the initiative to help Tang Mo run around. He was very considerate. Yan Shimao approached Tang Mo and asked, "Why, this guy wants to marry your divorced cousin?"
Tang Mo nodded. As soon as he mentioned Jiao Wei, people started to flock to him like butterflies. Yan Shimao said, "It's just that his status is a little off, but it's not without merit. If I can get your help, it will be completely fine."
Tang Mo thought it was pretty good. Tang Quan'er's previous husband had also come to the Marquis' Mansion for a banquet. As soon as he arrived, he used the identity of the Marquis' Mansion's son-in-law to curry favor with others. He looked down on him. How could he compare to Jiao Wei who knew his limits and when to advance and retreat?
Tang Yu and his family were also silently sizing up Jiao Wei. If it was before, they would definitely have looked down on him, but now with the comparison, they were becoming more and more satisfied.
Liao Xiaolang was a big boy now. He followed Liao Zhi to greet several elders. Tang Mo glanced at him from time to time. After finishing his work, Liao Zhi stepped forward with one hand on his waist and asked, "Do you have any problem with my son?"
Tang Mo
"What do I have against a kid?"
"You have."
Liao Zhi's perception was quite sharp. "Why, you think my son is better than your son, are you jealous?"
"Or do you think you have a daughter and despise every boy equally?"
"Don't forget, you still have two sons. I don't know how many families with daughters are looking down on you right now."
When he said this, he looked at Yan Shimao meaningfully. Yan Shimao turned his head away. He would not admit it verbally.
Tang Mo snorted twice. Liao Zhi said that he had a bad attitude. Tang Mo retorted, "You will know if you have a daughter."
Liao Zhi didn't believe it and said that he would never be like this if he had a daughter. But he didn't know that after he really had a daughter as beautiful as a flower, she hated every boy brought home by Liao Xiaolang and felt that no one was worthy of her daughter.
Wang Shi, smiling, supported the pregnant Yan Yunxiang into the house. Madam Wang, the mother-in-law, smiled and greeted the people around her. Seeing that Yan Yunxiang's face was obviously rounder, Yan Shimao said twice, "My sister has finally met a good family."
Tang Mo joked, "My aunt and my mother are both good mothers-in-law. My wife said so herself."
Yan Shimao nodded in agreement. His aunt said the same thing and thanked her wife for helping her find a good son-in-law like Wang Shi.
When little Zhenzhen was half a year old, Tang Yu arranged another marriage for Tang Quaner. Jiao Wei also renovated his two-story courtyard in the previous few months. He also bought a lot of cheap flowers and plants at the flower and bird market and took them home to trim, cultivate and maintain them carefully.
His uncle even went out of town to the mountains and dug up a few good-looking trees for him to plant. The whole family worked hard for several months and managed to make the ordinary yard very elegant. They did not look down on Tang Quan'er just because she had been married.
"I've watched him for a few months and he's really good. That boy is also very interested in Quan'er. After Quan'er gets married, she won't have a mother-in-law to serve. And I think the uncle is a polite family. Let's just settle it."
Zhao was very satisfied with Jiao Wei and felt that Tang Mo's vision of people was indeed better than Tang Gang's. It was not easy for a woman who had divorced and returned home to remarry, and most of them chose men who had lost their wives or had some problems. It was also luck that she could choose Jiao Wei.
Wang also thought it was a good idea. Zhao went back with a smile and decided on the marriage. They got married half a month later.
(End of this chapter)
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