Chapter 606: Never Being Beaten
Gu Ming: "I heard her say that when you got married, you chose to change your career and she didn't go to graduate school."
Fu Shanzhan nodded. After so many years, hearing this decision again, it did seem a bit naive. But if they could turn back time and go back again, they would probably still make the same choice.
In the words of others, the two love-brains collided.
"After getting married, she took the exam again and she was very good." Fu Shanzhan never forgot to praise Qiao Yunxue.
When Gu Ming saw the admiration and pride in Fu Shanzhan's eyes, she couldn't help but laugh. She was 35 years old and due to her job, she had come into contact with all kinds of people of all ages. She had only seen an expression like Fu Shanzhan's current one on the faces of middle school students.
But Fu Shanzhan is already in his thirties - when Qiao Yunxue used the word "simple" to describe Fu Shanzhan before, Gu Ming felt that there was some filter in it, but after meeting him today, she couldn't help but sigh at Fu Shanzhan's simplicity.
This kind of simplicity is probably because I have never worked much.
Once he met Fu Shanzhan, Gu Ming could better understand why Qiao Yunxue avoided getting back together with him.
Qiao Yunxue has been studying and working for these years, and has come into contact with many people and experienced many things. These will affect her mood and attitude towards love. People need to grow up, and no one's views on love will remain in their student days, except Fu Shanzhan.
His love was too intense and too sincere. The more nakedly he displayed his love, the more ashamed Qiao Yunxue felt - because she was originally the same as him, and Fu Shanzhan's existence was telling her how much she had changed.
Not everyone can accept the changes in themselves. Qiao Yunxue has a very twisted personality. She has never been able to accept herself, whether in the past or the present.
As a counselor, Gu Ming is famous for couples counseling and family counseling, so she has always suggested that Qiao Yunxue contact Fu Shanzhan for consultation together, so that there can be new breakthroughs.
The current situation proves that her judgment is correct.
The first time Fu Shanzhan came here, she discovered several key problems.
Gu Ming took a long time to think this time, and didn't speak for nearly five minutes. Fu Shanzhan sat opposite him waiting, inexplicably getting nervous. Finally, unable to contain himself, he tentatively called out, "Doctor Gu?"
"Yes." Gu Ming responded immediately and asked the next question: "If you hadn't married Ms. Qiao, what would your career and life plans be like?"
Fu Shanzhan thought for a moment and said, "I guess he will stay in the army forever."
Gu Ming: "What if I leave the army?"
Fu Shanzhan couldn't think of anything else. "I really don't have any other hobbies."
He has been a simple person since he was a child. He dreamed of becoming a soldier when he watched the military parade as a child. During the college entrance examination, he applied for a military academy despite Fu Qingyun's opposition. Others said that dreams will change, but what he wanted to do has never changed.
It was just that later, I met someone more important.
Being in the army meant they were rarely together, so when they got married, he decisively gave up the opportunity to continue the relationship.
Gu Ming rubbed his temples. It was quite difficult for him to talk to Fu Shanzhan. He was different from those visitors who were good at disguising themselves and never told the truth.
This person is too direct. He says whatever he wants and exudes the feeling that he has never been beaten by society.
Not to mention Qiao Yunxue, even she felt a little "jealous" when she saw it.
Gu Ming took a deep breath and continued to ask him: "Have you made any plans for your future life? You are only 28 years old."
Fu Shanzhan: "I don't have any plans. I just plan to take good care of my child and let her grow up happily."
Gu Ming: "...What about when the child grows up?"
Fu Shanzhan shook his head. "I haven't thought about it yet. We'll talk about it when the time comes."
Gu Ming couldn't help but point it out directly: "This is the problem."
Fu Shanzhan: "What's the problem?"
He didn't understand. He raised Qiao Qiao with such care, how could this still be a problem?
Gu Ming: "You two each gave up an opportunity back then. Later, she retook the exam and completed the path she was supposed to take, but you didn't."
"Although you are divorced, your life in recent years still revolves around your previous marriage."
Fu Shanzhan: "Is there anything wrong with this?"
Gu Ming: "What you did is very great in my opinion. I respect anyone who sacrifices their career for their family and children."
Fu Shanzhan: "You haven't finished what you said, have you?"
According to his observation, there should be a second half to the sentence.
Gu Ming was amused by him, "Indeed."
"But your situation is different. You're a divorced couple. Without you to take care of the children, she won't be able to do the things she wants to do. Even if you don't ask her to, she'll still feel indebted to you. The more sacrifices you make, the more she'll blame herself."
"I record every visitor's video and count the most frequently used phrases. In her records, the phrase that appears most frequently is 'I delayed him,' appearing almost 700 times. Do you understand what that means?"
Fu Shanzhan choked for a long time, his expression somewhat dull: "I don't think..."
"I know you don't think so, and you love her very much, but she just can't change her mind. So our focus now is not to discuss whether there was a delay, but to get her to change her mind."
Fu Shanzhan nodded, what Gu Ming said made sense.
only--
"How can we change it?" Fu Shanzhan couldn't think of a solution. "She's quite stubborn. Once she makes up her mind, it's hard to change."
"So change must start with you." Gu Ming looked at him.
Fu Shanzhan: "Me?"
Gu Ming: "Don't revolve around the child every day. Find something to do and develop your career. This way, her guilt will be alleviated."
Fu Shanzhan looked a little embarrassed.
Gu Ming immediately saw through his concerns and continued, "This business doesn't have to be grand, and it doesn't conflict with taking care of your children. Since you don't have financial pressure, it should be easier to handle."
Fu Shanzhan nodded thoughtfully, "Okay, I think I understand."
Gu Ming glanced at the timer next to him and said, "It's exactly two hours. Does that mean our consultation ends here today?"
Fu Shanzhan: "Okay."
He took out his phone to pay, but was stopped by Gu Ming: "Go to the reception desk to settle the bill. It's not for me alone."
"Okay, I'll go over then." Fu Shanzhan stood up. "When should I come over next time?"
Gu Ming: "Wait until you have thought clearly about your career development."
Fu Shanzhan said "hmm". Before leaving, he solemnly thanked Gu Ming again: "I gained a lot from chatting with you today. Thank you very much."
"I'm glad I can help you. This is my job and it's what I should do." Gu Ming also replied politely.
Fu Shanzhan said goodbye to Gu Ming, took the bill to pay, and walked out of the consultation center.
After getting in the car, Fu Shanzhan was still thinking about what Gu Ming had said.
As expected of a professional, he focuses on issues that he normally doesn't pay attention to.
However, career...
Fu Shanzhan pinched his eyebrows. What career was he pursuing?
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