As soon as Wen Sihe saw her expression, he understood what commemoration meant.
She sighed and said meaningfully: “If I remember correctly, your family would send you money every few months.
This means that your father has you in his heart, and the biggest conflict between you and your father comes from your stepmother.
The more you argue with your father, the happier your stepmother will be. You should know this better than me.
When your relationship cannot be eased, who will be the beneficiary? "
A gloomy look flashed across Jin Nian’s face: “But I just can’t get over this hurdle in my heart.
Since my stepmother married into our family, I have to share my room equally with the children she brought with her.
Even if it was my own things, as long as she asked for them, my father would ask me to give them to her on the grounds that she was my younger sister.
Although they will buy the same thing to compensate me in the end, that is no longer what I want.
Do you know why I went to the countryside?
Wen Sihe made a cup of sugar water and put it in her hand.
The hot touch came through the enamel cup, which also brought a bit of warmth to JIAN JIAN's heart.
“The child that woman and I brought with us both graduated from high school, and she has been transferred to my father’s household registration.
According to the policy, one of our three children needs to go to the countryside.
My father said that my brother was the eldest and should take on the responsibility of the family and let her go to the countryside.
He gave me the job, and then he bought a job for my stepsister.
I don’t know how such words came out of his mouth.”
When talking about this incident, Jinian burst into tears.
Maybe I've kept it in my heart for too long, or maybe I've found someone to talk to.
At this moment, she desperately vented her resentment: "My brother already has a girlfriend, and just because of my stepmother's interference, he has to go to the countryside?
He obviously has a stable job, so why should he have to bear such consequences in the end?
I had a big fight with my father at that time, and went to sign up to go to the countryside with my household registration booklet.
I will never forget the ugly faces of my stepmother and stepsister. I watched my brother run away from home and pay the price for what they did. "
Since their mother passed away, Ji's father has been busy with work, and Ji Nian has basically been raised by his brother!
She still remembered the shock and disbelief in her brother's eyes when he first learned the news.
Yes, who would have thought that my father would make such a decision?
The expression of his brother who was forcing a smile at that time was deeply engraved in Jinian's mind.
Ji Qing reached out and rubbed his sister's head, and said comfortingly: "Brother is a grown man, after going to the countryside, he can work hard and endure hardships.
If you girls went to the countryside, how much hardship would you have to endure?
Don't worry, Nian Nian, I've taken care of all the work, and when you get there, someone will teach you step by step."
These words made Ji Nian burst into tears. It was obvious that the one who should be blamed and hated the most was Ji Qing.
But for the sake of his sister, he still chose to pave the way for her future.
So at that time, Jinian had an argument with his father in the government compound.
This attracted a lot of onlookers. Perhaps it was because she challenged Ji's father's authority, or perhaps it was because Ji's father lost face in front of so many people.
In front of everyone, Ji's father reached out and slapped Jian Ji.
From that moment on, JIAN Ji decided to go to the countryside by herself so that her brother could keep his job and she would no longer have to look at the ugly faces of these people.
Wen Sihe also played many melodramas in later generations. She could infer Ji's father's psychology at that time from the words of commemoration.
Especially those who work in government agencies, no matter which era, whether they were high-ranking officials in ancient times or those in the system in later generations, they have planned their children's future paths since the moment they were born.
The children basically grew up under their noses in an orderly manner.
They live their lives according to a routine, and once you escape from their control and challenge their authority, they will do everything they can to keep you under their control.
Wen Sihe took some toilet paper from the kang cabinet and gently wiped the tears from Ji Nian's face.
"Then have you ever thought that the relationship between you and your father is getting worse and worse, and the one who benefits is your stepsister, right?
Your brother will also have conflicts with his father because of your affairs.
The relationship between the two will definitely not be very good if your stepsister is a little sweeter and your stepmother whispers some words in her ear.
How should you two siblings cope with this?
Even if you don't think about yourself, think about your brother.
If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't have such a bad relationship with my father.
You should be obedient when you should be obedient. At least when you have no ability of your own, you can use his power to rise to the top.
Rather than giving these benefits away for nothing.”
Wen Sihe picked up the enamel cup and drank some water, moistened his lips, and continued, "When you are able to live better than them and no longer need to rely on the power of those in power, that will be the time for them to regret.
You can prove that you can live better without your father.
But this is not something you should have to endure. If you ease the relationship a little, your father will transfer some of the resources he has poured into your stepsister to you.
That’s what makes your stepmother gnash her teeth.”
After all, Ji Nian is just a young man in his twenties.
When she first went to the countryside, she was not even 17 years old.
Of course, we cannot use adults' thinking to speculate, young people have their own passion and pride.
But after six or seven years of settling down, it’s time to give in, ease the relationship, let him see your growth, and only by lying low can you get back everything that belongs to you.
After all, what the superiors want to see is that you develop into someone who is almost the same as what they imagined you to be.
Ji Nian's eyes were blurred with tears. She had never heard anyone say these words before.
Others only know that she is quiet, but they don’t know how sad she is in her heart when she wakes up from her dreams countless times in the middle of the night.
Now, after listening to Wen Sihe's words, the sad thoughts that had been shrouded in fog suddenly became clear.
Yes, when loved ones are in pain, enemies are happy...
Jin Yi wiped the tears from her face vigorously, and a smile appeared on her bright face: "Thank you, He He."
"You're welcome. You can figure out the next step yourself."
Ji Nian nodded heavily: “I have never thought about these things before.
You are obviously younger than me, but you know much more about life than I do."
Wen Sihe pursed her lips and smiled, jokingly, she had memories of another world, and for her, that was her wonderful previous life.
If she were still like a young girl, wouldn't she be eaten till not even a trace of her would be left in this era?
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