Du Haiwei turned around and asked the patient: "Tell me yourself, do you want to have another operation?"
Another surgery may be meaningless. The doctor will make it clear to you. Therefore, for a terminally ill patient, he/she must understand what choice he/she will make in his/her heart, whether to fight the disease to death or accept the natural law of birth, aging, illness and death.
Don't think that the doctor is cold-blooded when he repeatedly asks this question. In fact, he hopes that you can find the path that suits you and give you the most freedom instead of living in deception and ultimately regretting choosing the wrong path before you die.
Fighting the disease to death may make you live longer than accepting the natural law of birth, aging, illness and death. Fighting the disease to death may add a lot of side effects to the medicine and treatment, and may also make the last days of life more difficult and unable to leave the world comfortably.
The doctor's words undoubtedly made the patient confused.
"It's okay. Take your time to think about it. I'll give you some time to fully consider it. Come back next week and give me the answer. You don't need to make an appointment. If you want to have surgery, I'll arrange hospitalization for you." Du Haiwei said in a slow tone, "If you have any questions during this period, you can come to the hospital to ask us at any time."
Why do most old doctors speak in such a slow rhythm? Today, the medical students studying opposite me have learned a little truth. Only this slow rhythm can calm the patient's anxious mood and allow the patient to have a relatively stable mentality to make the most comfortable choice for himself.
There is only one thing patients need to do when they come to see a doctor: cooperate with the doctor and treat the disease well. It is best not to worry about yourself, as anxiety is not helpful for treatment. If you have any questions, leave them to professionals.
Since the doctor promised that he could get an appointment and be hospitalized next time, the patient and his family left with their medical records and went home to discuss the matter.
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To make patients not anxious, doctors should not be anxious themselves. Only experienced doctors have this kind of technical confidence. They will not rush to cut or hospitalize patients as soon as they see that the indicators are not good. Instead, they have technical judgment in their hearts and know when it is more important to give patients choices rather than rushing to cut.
Young cancer patients are always regrettable and heartbreaking, but fortunately there are not many young patients. Cancer has always favored older patients. However, in China, due to various factors such as low economic level and low public health awareness, the main age range of cancer patients is relatively low. The second patient, who is in his fifties, cannot be considered an old person.
This time it was just the opposite, it was the daughter who accompanied her mother to see the doctor.
The patient was initially diagnosed with uterine fibroids at another hospital. The CT scan showed a 12-centimeter tumor, which was very large. It was discovered too late because the patient was usually fat and thought she had gained weight in her stomach, but she didn't realize that something had grown in her stomach. When her stomach grew bigger and bigger and something was wrong, she went to the hospital for a check-up. It was a bit too late.
For uterine tumors like this that grow rapidly in size in a short period of time, the possibility of becoming malignant is very high.
The patient and his family thought about it and went straight to see an authoritative expert.
In fact, many hospitals can perform tumor surgery. Seeking an expert is to hope that the expert can provide a more complete professional plan to help the patient in addition to performing the surgery. These are the goals sought by some patients and their families who are more informed.
The reason why experts are called experts is not simply because they can perform surgery well.
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