My daughter is not interested in obstetrics and gynecology.
This sentence reminded Sun Rongfang of what happened a few years ago. At that time, her daughter told her cousin at her house what department of surgeon she wanted to be, and it didn't seem to be obstetrics and gynecology, which made Zhou Ruomei furious.
"She has a good learning ability. It's not a technical problem or an ability problem." Cao Zhao followed up and explained the meaning of his words to Xie's mother. "For medical students to choose a department to work in, it is more important to see which department their personality is suitable for. Each department faces different types of specialized diseases and different groups of patients. For example, after Yingying went to the obstetrics and gynecology department, she should have experienced some special requirements for doctors in this department."
What Brother Cao said should be referring to the situation that she had heard from her senior sisters before she went to the obstetrics and gynecology department. When it comes to obstetricians, they should take care of the patient's psychology like the patient's father or mother. After arriving at Beidu No. 3 Hospital, she indeed saw with her own eyes that the teachers comforted the psychologically fragile mothers like parents.
"What's the mentality?" Sun Rongfang asked.
"The teacher she follows, Mr. Du, is called the obstetrics dad." As expected, Cao Zhao said so.
"You mean she has the mentality of her parents? That's it. She's like a child." Sun Rongfang decisively slapped her thigh, admitting that her daughter didn't meet this standard.
The others were shocked by what Mother Xie said.
"The ancients said that people are like children before they start a family and a career." Sun Rongfang said that her daughter has not started a family and is not married.
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"That's not true." Cao Zhao couldn't help but laugh, and continued to tell Mother Xie, "It doesn't mean that you have to be married and have children to be an obstetrician and gynecologist. In our country, there are obstetricians and gynecologists who never get married. They devote themselves to the medical profession until their death and make great contributions to academia."
"So, what do you mean?"
"It refers to people who have a mother or father complex."
Even if they are not married, such obstetricians and gynecologists have both maternal and paternal love in their hearts. People who have maternal and paternal love do not necessarily need to get married and have children. The simplest example is that Dr. Zheng has a boyfriend and is not married yet, but she is fantasizing about having children after getting married. No matter how people criticize Shen Xifei, Dr. Hu can see that her dream is simply to work, get married and have children, and she has long wanted to become a mother. Although Dr. Peng is young, she is already the mother of a two-year-old child.
In sharp contrast, Geng Yongzhe was only thinking about how to treat his brother's leg. Student Xie is pursuing a career beyond his heart. There are more than just two such medical students, there are many, and they are not very suitable for obstetrics and gynecology. Being an obstetrician and gynecologist is very tiring, as you have to be a good parent to your female patients. There are many diseases in obstetrics and gynecology. To put it bluntly, it requires a parent's heart to be understanding, tolerant, caring and disciplined.
Du Haiwei is a famous doctor and teacher who has high expectations for his students. Most units do not require this level. These all need to be expressed clearly.
Anyone who hears this will inevitably have a question. Obstetricians and gynecologists are like parents, what about pediatricians? Aren’t children in pediatrics more looking for a doctor who is like a parent?
uncertain. You can refer to the performance of the two children at the scene. Are they pursuing the doctor brother like they are pursuing their parents?
Sun Rongfang realized, "My son is in his rebellious period and doesn't like to listen to me."
Herein lies the complexity of pediatrics. Children are developing, and their physical and mental health undergo unpredictable individual changes every year as they age. Maybe you were still attached to your parents at your age last year, but suddenly you don’t want them anymore next year.
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