When ordinary people go to the hospital for treatment, it is usually because they feel something is wrong with their own body or their family members. It is normal for the doctor to determine that the patient is not sick after examination, but it does not mean that the patient and his family can return home with complete peace of mind.
As long as the symptoms are not relieved, the patient and his family will always feel uneasy.
This will form a paradox. Why do we say that there is no disease, but there are abnormal symptoms? Some abnormal signs are that patients and their families see that their bodies are different from others and think they are abnormal, but in fact, they are not as knowledgeable as doctors. Doctors have seen all kinds of patients in clinical practice and know that such "abnormal" symptoms are not abnormal, but are relatively rare signs in the population. In theory, after such a formal medical explanation, patients and their families should be able to understand and accept that "abnormal" is actually normal.
The above is too simple. To accept "abnormal" as normal and to coexist with "abnormal" is a huge test for people's psychology. Psychologists say that only time can heal everything, and this is not inconsistent with this point.
"Mom, if you're worried, you and my brother and sister-in-law can take the child to another hospital for examination. Do you want to come to Shouer for examination?"
"It doesn't seem necessary. It's just, you know, it's uncomfortable to watch."
What was the abnormality of this child? It turned out to be a birthmark that is commonly seen on children.
"Mom, the doctor said, let's observe it first, and then we'll do something if it grows bigger or has other abnormalities. The birthmark will gradually disappear. You've raised two sons, don't you know that?"
"I don't remember you and your brother having birthmarks this big."
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"You must have remembered it wrongly." Wei Shangquan said that after his clinical internship, he now has a certain understanding of the exaggerated words of patients' families. What do you mean by a large birthmark? Have you never seen it before? Impossible. If this was the case, the doctor would have said something was wrong when the child went for a checkup.
Bang! Mother Wei smashed her youngest son's phone: How dare this youngest son say that she, as a mother, remembered it wrongly.
Wei Shangquan looked at the interrupted phone call in confusion, and suddenly realized that the most difficult people to communicate with might not be strangers but family members.
Families hope their children can study medicine, usually with the goal of making it easier for them to take care of their own health. Unexpectedly, after seeing more clinical cases, the children become as "cold and heartless" as the doctors in the hospital.
What are you talking about? What they want is your comfort, and what they want is for you to tell me that you take the patient's condition seriously. But you just told me that it was normal, and even accused me of misremembering it. You ignored my request more than the doctors in the hospital. - Mother Wei was probably so angry that she couldn't speak.
Student Wei scratched the back of his head and walked back. He stopped in the kitchen and his eyes lit up. "Yingying, are you making flowers?"
Hmm. There happened to be some ribbons on the table, so I could make a small bouquet for Senior Brother Cao. Xie Wanying thought. I could also attach a thank you card to Senior Brother Cao. Thinking back on the many cares Senior Brother had given me over the past year, I felt that, as my mother had said, I should remember to be grateful.
Student Wei was very happy: the hard work of several classmates today was worthwhile.
I was in a hurry to deliver the cake to Brother Cao's house, but it was already dark outside.
Winter has not yet passed and the wind and cold outside have not subsided.
The driver was not there, so Wei, who had a driver's license, ran to the garage to drive his own car to prevent Xie from getting cold.
Xie Wanying was standing on the steps at the door waiting for the bus, with her hands in the pockets of her cotton-padded jacket, looking around casually.
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