What is the most miserable part about being sick? Not only is one’s life threatened by the disease, but one is also deprived of some or all of the right to happiness, which is reflected in the fact that one is easily disliked by others.
Li Ya turned around and saw the shadow of the person in front of her. She was stunned. She didn't expect to meet someone here. Her mood was up and down. The first thing that came to her mind was Dai Ronghong's face.
Aunt Dai doesn't like her. She could act crazy and stupid before, at least she had some confidence in herself. But it's different now, she is a cancer patient, how can she have the right to act arrogant?
With just one glance, her eyes wandered over Dai Nanhui's face, pretending that she hadn't seen him so that he wouldn't have to greet her. Then, she walked towards Xie Wanying with a smile on her face: "Doctor Xie, have you had dinner?"
"I have eaten. Have you eaten?" Xie Wanying educated the patient, "I think you haven't eaten. Go eat quickly."
"Yes." Li Yaxi smoothed her bangs embarrassedly.
This morning, the patient seemed to want to talk to her as a doctor. Xie Wanying walked side by side with him and worked together to persuade the patient.
"Sister Wu is very nice and encourages me to be positive," said Li Yaxi.
My childhood friend did his best to save a life.
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As a doctor, Xie Wanying would nag her patients: "It's good to love learning and life, but your health is your capital. You should put taking care of your health first. Otherwise, someone will be sad for you."
Hearing that someone would be sad for her, Li Yaxi was immediately moved, tears welled up in her eyes, and she responded with a "hmm" in a low voice.
In other words, this patient has been discharged from the hospital and is fit to return to society. He needs to learn to return to normal study and life. Xie Wanying could see something from the patient's actions just now, and said tactfully: "You don't need to discriminate against yourself. Being sick does not mean you are wrong or guilty."
Seeing through Dr. Xie's mentality, Li Yaxi perked up and asked seriously: "Dr. Xie, can I ask you some questions?"
"you say."
"Today is my first day walking around the pediatric ward and interacting with the patients and their families. It gave me a lot of feelings," Li Yaxi said about her experience.
When she was hospitalized before, she was flustered and in a bad mood. She only paid attention to herself and did not pay attention to her fellow patients. Therefore, she did not know what kind of psychological state she and her family members were in, whether it was common or individual. When choosing a supervisor and research direction for graduate school this time, she decided to study this issue carefully, hoping that no one would repeat her mistakes.
When she actually started doing clinical research, she discovered: Hey, some things might not be as she expected.
Only scientific data does not lie.
"The literature I looked up in the school database showed that anxiety ranks first among several psychological characteristics of patients' families," said Li Yaxi.
Family members are definitely anxious. When a family member is sick, not only is their life in danger, but the family needs to spend money, effort and manpower, which seriously affects the normal operation of the entire family. The most terrible thing is that it will greatly reduce the expectations of all family members for this family. A disease can bring a devastating blow to the patient, and it can have a bomb-like aftermath on the patient's family. The impact can be large or small, and some of the impacts can last for a lifetime.
"According to statistical analysis, the degree of anxiety of patients' families is related to the family's economic situation, family members' educational level, age and gender," said Li Yaxi, pointing to the data.
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