I can only say that all parents in the world are pitiful.
The doctors looked at each other in bewilderment after hearing this.
Section Chief Yang, who used to be a surgeon, has always maintained his humorous style after transferring from surgery to the logistics department. He put his hand on Tao Zhijie's shoulder, patted him, and said earnestly: You are good, you are a popular person, why don't you show it usually?
Tao Zhijie maintained a calm and smiling face in front of his leaders.
Section Chief Yang turned around and pointed at him to the patient's family members: "We all want to introduce him to a girlfriend so that he can get out of being single sooner. I think Dean Wu wants to do the same."
Mother Lin was crying like a tearful child, but she was stunned when she heard what the doctor said, which was beyond her expectation. You can imagine that she was full of maternal love and was ready to go through fire and water for her daughter, ready to be scolded, and ready to beg after being scolded. But she didn't expect the doctor to scold her at all.
Father Lin was anxious to explain to his wife: "Doctor, we know our request is excessive. But there is really no way, no one can convince her. Don't worry, Doctor Tao. We will never pester you. After she finishes the operation, we will explain the truth to her immediately. No matter what, let her leave you and not cause you any trouble."
"You didn't hear clearly what Section Chief Yang meant." Dean Wu, who was sitting behind the desk, criticized Section Chief Yang for speaking half-sentences, which led to misunderstandings.
Section Chief Yang accepted Dean Wu's advice and said to the family, "If you really want to do this, just match them up. There's no point in lying. They are both single, and being together doesn't involve any moral issues. If they can really get married, it will be a good thing."
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“But——” Mr. and Mrs. Lin hesitated.
"See, you all think this is not an appropriate thing to do, right?" said Section Chief Yang.
Leaders' speeches are very artistic. So Gang Tao Zhijie kept silent all the way, without having to appear on stage himself, and let the leader take care of it.
Dean Wu and Section Chief Yang are not only cunning hospital leaders, but also experienced doctors with many years of medical experience. They have a very reliable philosophy of life on how to deal with clinical interpersonal relationships. It is enough to say one thing to one person and another to another. There is no need to get angry and confront them.
You said that the request that Mr. and Mrs. Lin made for their daughter seemed unrealistic and excessive at first. But doctors are doctors, and professionalism requires them to have a compassionate heart. The essence of a compassionate heart is to clearly recognize that getting sick is a tragedy.
Lin's father and mother are very pitiful, and the patient Lin Jiayin is very pitiful. As a doctor, you should have basic sympathy for the patient and the patient's family. As for the other party's unrealistic demands, the appropriate approach is to take care of the family's temporary emotions and then slowly explain the medical issues involved.
Section Chief Yang started by making a joke, and then Dean Wu joined in the fun to defuse the other party's emotions.
Every great doctor is also a great psychologist, otherwise he can't be a good doctor and may get into trouble first. There are many patients' families who make more excessive demands than this.
"Why do you think it's inappropriate? Do you think your daughter is not worthy of Dr. Tao? Your mentality is incorrect," said Section Chief Yang.
Father Lin sighed, and Mother Lin seemed to calm down.
The problem with this family is that it is understandable that the patient himself is pessimistic, but the family members follow suit and are even more pessimistic than the patient himself. This is a serious problem.
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