The experience summarized by clinicians is that emotions may be important, but patients without emotional support can still live a good life as long as they can be strong themselves.
Clinicians are actually very scared of patients who rely solely on relationships to get by. What if something happens to the person the patient depends on, and if the person dies in an accident, what will the patient do?
"Your daughter is a smart person. She has thought about these issues very clearly," said Section Chief Yang.
Lin Jiayin knew that if she couldn't do it, it would be useless to rely on anything. Otherwise, she wouldn't have said such pessimistic words to her attending physician: I would rather die than become a useless person.
As family members, Lin's father and mother thought that as long as their daughter's life was saved after the operation, everything would be fine. Now, after listening to the doctor, they understand that the real "cure" may begin after the operation.
Mother Lin leaned her head on the sofa, her face turned pale and she couldn't cry anymore.
Mr. Lin was patting his wife on the back with tears in his eyes.
Their daughter, a proud and outstanding girl since childhood, an internationally renowned star, but now her life is over.
No wonder Lin Jiayin said that she had to finish the performance first, because there would never be such an opportunity in her life again.
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"Doctor Tao, has Doctor Cao talked to you?" Director Wu did not ask Cao Yong, but simply asked Tao Zhijie. Presumably, Tao Zhijie had asked the attending physician about the situation.
"The tumor is big." Tao Zhijie relayed Cao Yong's half-concealed words.
The implication is that sequelae are inevitable. This problem was diagnosed by many famous overseas doctors when Lin Jiayin was seeking medical treatment overseas. Cao Yong told his classmates and patients at the beginning that what the overseas doctors said was basically the truth. No matter how great he is, he can't ignore the facts.
The larger the tumor is and the more it invades nearby tissue, the more parts that will have to be removed during surgery, which is bound to cause problems.
As a doctor but not a neurosurgeon, to be honest, he can't help the patient more than Cao Yong. It's okay to ask him to encourage the patient to accept treatment like a friend. But what the patient needs most when he is sick is a professional doctor, not love. Only medical solutions can relieve the patient's worries, nothing else.
When a patient is sick, she is in a low mood and wants to seek some comfort. Section Chief Yang said: "Don't mention Doctor Tao. I can lend her my shoulder to cry on. Doctor Tao will definitely be willing to lend a hand."
In the clinic, most medical staff, regardless of gender, will give a hug to comfort the patients and their families if they need it.
Lin's father and mother's thinking was corrected and returned to the right track. If their daughter was busy with her career and temporarily escaped, they should help her inquire about and seek various treatment options and conduct a comprehensive analysis. As parents, they need to take on these tasks and provide logistical support for their daughter.
When the patient is pessimistic, the family members should be more optimistic instead of following suit.
After the family members left, Director Wu came over to have a cup of tea and chat with his subordinates. While drinking, he asked, "What's going on with you?"
It's not that the patient takes the initiative to care about you, but that he is a friend and is so close to you that you go to watch other people's performances. It's hard to hide your associations.
Tao Zhijie told the hospital leaders the truth: "I didn't expect it."
Mr. Charm never thought that he would be obsessed with a woman. The reason is that he is a hepatobiliary surgeon, and his department is related to infectious diseases, which most people would be afraid of. Lin Jiayin wanted to be obsessed with a doctor, but as a big star, she could be obsessed with any doctor, but being obsessed with a doctor related to infectious diseases was unbelievable to Tao Zhijie.
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