Doctor Tong straightened his back, and a sense of foreboding told him: Oh no.
He guessed wrong again.
In clinical practice, especially in domestic top three hospitals, the number of patients visiting is large, and doctors have limited time to treat each patient. Under the condition of insufficient communication time, doctors have become domestic parents over time, habitually helping patients with their decisions, under the euphemism of thinking for the patients.
Not to mention a great doctor like Dr. Tong. When patients come to see him, they are almost all respectful, as if they will do whatever the doctor says. One or two exceptions are easily ignored by Dr. Tong.
Doctors' concept and habit are probably the same as those of parents: good intentions do not necessarily bring good rewards.
Every person is an individual, every child has different ideas, and every patient's demands are bound to vary from subtle to huge.
Some of the patient's thoughts may simply exceed the doctor's imagination.
For example, the aunt who loved dancing in the general surgery department, her biggest concern was not how long she would live but that she did not want to have a fistula and wanted to preserve her anus.
Teacher Tan, like most doctors with a kind heart, never thought of this and ended up running into a wall with his patients.
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The reason why Xie has a sensitive sense of smell for these patients is because they are also women.
There are gender differences in the demands of male and female patients, which stems from the different social requirements for men and women.
For example, society is more critical of women's appearance than men, and more critical of men's height than women. This social atmosphere has led to gender-differentiated demands in the medical field, with men demanding height-enhancing surgery more than women, and women demanding cosmetic surgery more.
The constraints society places on individual patients sometimes even become a stigma, deeply engraved in the bones of some patients. If you ask her/him to change, she/he would rather die.
The dancing aunt may have been deeply influenced by the surrounding environment and developed a habit of loving beauty. She cannot go out with a fistula and be laughed at in private. Rather than endure such humiliation that is so different from the first half of her life, it is better to die. Anyway, cancer will not last long.
You really can't say whether the patient is wrong or not. As Xie said to Teacher Tao before, don't forget that the patient's right to choose his life is not in the hands of the doctor.
Men are more accepting of ostomy than women, and are more accepting of the sequelae that affect appearance after surgery. This has led to a saying that male patients are more rational than female patients.
Can we blame female patients for not having good brains? Take breast cancer surgery for example: breast-conserving or breast-conserving surgery.
Young female patients choose not to have breast-conserving surgery in order to live longer. Whether their husbands or boyfriends stay together for a short period of time, divorce and breakup are common in a few years. Even a female breast surgeon at the top three hospitals in China said that as women, they generally advise young women to keep their breasts if possible. Reality is cruel, and love does not disappear with the "breasts" of young lovers, which has become an exception.
Young people have more opportunities to choose, so why should they hang themselves on a tree? Not only women think this way, men too.
After hearing what Xie said, Dr. Tong finally realized that the patient’s concern was not on vision but on endocrine system.
He told the patient a lot of things about how to maintain vision and avoid scarring after surgery, but the patient didn't seem to care.
Blind musicians have it, vision is not the most important thing for musicians. On the contrary, as a star who often performs on stage, if you change from a beautiful woman to a fat woman, it will be absolutely terrible.
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