In Cao Yudong's opinion, this kind of thing is not surprising because he has seen it so many times.
There is no shortage of such people in other circles, not to mention the medical field. In the end, it is all due to human nature.
There are many examples of children hating their parents to death when their parents don't protect them. So for parents, the biggest fear is not that their children are unfilial but that they will be resented by their children for the rest of their lives. Children's resentment towards their parents for the rest of their lives also means that their children will fall into a trap of misfortune for the rest of their lives.
This is why Chinese people are increasingly talking about the importance of education.
It’s just that education is Schrodinger’s cat. Medicine has not thoroughly studied the human brain, and without medicine as a perfect foundation, the effect of education can only be the same as that of brain science, which is Schrodinger’s cat.
This is also why many parents, after reading many books on education, feel that they are following scientific concepts in teaching their children, but the children they teach turn out to be like that.
More parents have come to terms with it. Their children should live their own lives. Whether they complain or not is their own business. In the future, they will just lie in their coffins and it is not their business.
Those who can never let go of the idea will either accumulate enough wealth for their children so that they can at least live a worry-free life, or, like Dr. Shao and Zhou Ruomei, will go to great lengths to pave the way for their children's careers.
Do you think Dr. Shao and her cousin Zhou Ruomei really want their children to bring honor to the family? They know very well how much their children are born with.
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Cao Yong wanted to criticize his father: You are a gentleman and you have a Buddhist nature, but please don't ignore the unfair things that happened to my girlfriend, your student.
The third child in the family dared to criticize everyone, so his grandfather, a neurosurgeon, saw through him and changed his name to "Yong". Cao Yudong smiled and accepted his son's criticism completely. He turned to the student and said, "Do you know what his previous name was?"
Teacher Cao knew Senior Brother Cao's former name? Xie Wanying was surprised by this. This should be something that happened when Senior Brother Cao was a child, which means that Teacher Cao and Senior Brother Cao are really familiar with each other?
"I don't know." Xie Wanying answered honestly.
"His previous name was Heng."
The names of the Cao family's sons, for example, the names of the eldest and second sons are all refined and literary, but the third son's name is changed directly to Yong? It is indeed impossible.
After the third child was named Cao Heng, according to information revealed by Senior Brother Tao earlier, the Cao family found that the word Heng was completely inconsistent with the child's personality. Grandpa Cao, a neurosurgeon who studies the human brain, changed his grandson's name to Yong, believing that the child was straightforward and brave, and the word Yong suited the child.
As a medical family, the Cao family really understands how to raise children: it doesn't matter if the child's future is Schrodinger's cat, the essence of parenting is to seize the present, and everything parents do at the moment should be in line with the child, and the child's freedom should not be restricted by their own wishes. Grandpa Cao decisively gave his grandson a Yong, and he was not afraid of being criticized by anyone, which is the embodiment of a neurosurgeon master.
You should know that if the name does not match the child's personality, it will cause many problems.
For example, if this child has a very straightforward personality, do you want him to be obedient by using the Golden Mean?
A forced melon is not sweet. From childhood to adulthood, there will definitely be many people who attack children for this reason, saying that you have such a name, why do you do such things.
After changing it to Yong, everyone will think: Wow, what this kid does really lives up to his name.
"Teacher Cao, you must have watched our senior brother grow up." Xie Wanying said with some realization, otherwise it would be impossible to explain why Teacher Cao knew so much about our senior brother's childhood.
Cao Yudong: ... This stubborn student, you may say she is silly, but she is actually quite smart. You may say she is actually quite smart, but she is also a little silly.
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