Actually, she is different from Lixuan. Lixuan is a girl who has been in love, but she is not.
People who have been hurt in love or have never been in love are more afraid of love. You will be surprised to find a fact that the latter are probably more afraid than the former.
The former has tasted sweetness and has a sweetness file in his brain that can resolve the crisis, while the latter has not, and the only memory of love in his brain may be pain.
Why do people who have never been in love only feel pain when they perceive love? It must be due to the influence of the surrounding environment.
It’s like the men in the Cao family don’t know how to pursue girls, they only know how to be pursued, because there are almost full of couples like this in the family.
For Xie Wanying, the idea she was instilled with since childhood was not that there is no love in the world, but that there is definitely love in the world, but this kind of love is shameful.
Thinking back to the time when her parents went to the countryside and fell in love, the wedding photos from those days have long since turned yellow and old, but are still wrapped up by her mother and treasured in a drawer. Whenever she thinks of the love back then, Sun Rongfang cries and sighs that youth is so good.
After getting married, her father's career went downhill and her family fell into hell. Her love was shattered and destroyed by the cruelty of reality.
The thinking of female engineers is to acknowledge the above facts.
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Old people often say that a couple quarrels at the head of the bed and makes up at the foot of the bed. They say that conflicts among married couples are too common and that young people are being too calculative.
The older generation is willing to let things take their course and succumb to tradition, while the young people who have received higher education have new ideas and are absolutely unwilling to succumb to such unreasonable things.
If love and marriage are such a bastard thing that makes you uncomfortable for the rest of your life, why do you want them? The reason why Xie Wanying didn't get married before her rebirth was complicated. For her, being a doctor was a simple and happy thing with a sense of achievement, while love and marriage were only seen in horror movies. Besides, she didn't have the conditions at the moment.
Whether it is love or marriage, men and women have equal demands. If one party does not meet the ideal state of the other, it will inevitably lead to endless conflicts.
To say whether two people are a good match is not enough just to consider their social status.
To have a beautiful and stable relationship, the real prerequisite is whether both parties are willing to give equally to each other.
You love me, so I must love you too. You have given a lot for me, so I also need to give a lot for you.
It has nothing to do with moral demands and kidnapping, it only matters whether the input and output are proportional. Because ordinary people are not stupid enough to give without asking for anything in return.
Her mother told her not to care about the mess at home. It was her mother and her family, how could she ignore her mother and grandfather? For this reason, she was afraid that someone around her would be implicated by her.
"I see."
The voice from the other side suddenly pulled her memory back to the scene more than four years ago. He appeared in the small courtyard of her cousin's hospital, and the two looked at each other for the first time in the same darkness. It was such a coincidence that her senior brother saw her and her mother's difficult life.
Did senior brother see her embarrassment and dilemma from his words?
Suddenly, a warm touch touched the corner of her lips, causing her heart to beat faster and faster. She raised her head and saw the handsome black eyes that were so close to her were filled with a smile, a brightness that could not be covered by darkness.
Brother, what is this?
I like you, no need to say more.
He reached out his hand and touched her hair as usual: It’s okay, I know you’re worried and I’ll wait until you graduate.
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