Tang Jinnan heard it without being told, thinking that the mistress had a strong opinion of the teacher.
Qi Wu asked hurriedly, "What happened later?"
Since he had pursued her, how did it end up being that the two of them are still single? Dean Bai has a lot of opinions about Cang Lao? If he had pursued her, wouldn't that mean something in that regard?
Ms. Tu said, "Later..."
"In the following years, the women around Cang Yu changed one after another, but I heard that they were all fine. The turning point was in 1955 or 1960, when Dean Bai was 36 years old. In that era, women who were not married at the age of 36 almost did not exist. Even if they did, they would be criticized because of social concepts. And didn't I tell you before that Dean Bai had a blind date boy?..."
"The other party waited for nearly a dozen years and still didn't get married..."
"In the same year, she traveled thousands of miles to come here because she saw her in the newspaper. Unfortunately, Dean Bai was a woman with her own ideas and she completely rejected this man who didn't like her. But Bai's uncle was a conservative feudalist. It was actually a misfortune for an outstanding girl to be born in a traditional family, and Dean Bai encountered this misfortune."
For Bai Yimeng's father, Bai Changshan, it was an extremely shameful thing to have an unmarried daughter of 36 years old in the family. So when Bai Yimeng clearly rejected the blind date, the old father was furious and traveled thousands of miles. Bai Yimeng's brothers also came with her. They all hoped that Bai Yimeng could go back and find someone to marry, and they even knelt down in public to Dean Bai.
When Ms. Tu said this, her mood became even calmer.
Qi Wu opened his mouth in shock, "He really knelt down."
Ms. Tu said, "Yes, he really knelt down."
Shou couldn't help but say, "He was trying to coerce you."
Tang Jinnan turned around and said, "What's more terrifying is that even if they knew they wanted to coerce you, they couldn't. In that era..." In the eyes of a bunch of callous people who hold on to benevolence, righteousness, and filial piety and don't know how to use their thoughts tactfully, a father was forced to kneel down to his daughter. It was definitely not the father's fault for being stubborn and biased, but the daughter's fault. Marriage is natural and natural, but you were born a woman and didn't marry. Not to mention in that era, even in this era - it's something that parents can't understand.
"Dean Bai must have been in great pain at that time."
"It was very painful." Ms. Tu said, "But she is a person with a strong will, and she had someone she loved, so she did not go back and bought tickets to send her father and brother back. But who would have thought that the riots happened at that time..." "
During the riots, Cang Yu was on the front line. After hearing the news, Bai Yimeng also hurried over in a hurry, but fortunately, there were no catastrophic injuries in the riots... Cang Yu was also fine, and even played a hero to save a beautiful girl, a young lady from a landlord's family, a pretty lady. He had a new companion by his side. This time, Cang Yu was beaten up by Qin Zhengfeng at that time..."
"Qin Zhengfeng..." The first person couldn't help but turn his head.
"He is a relative of the Qin family, the grandpa who was selected for training." Tang Jinnan heard Qin Yan mention him several times.
He knew the grandpa. At that time, he didn't know about Uncle Qin Jiangke. The fact that the Qin family was tested was also related to this old man.
"Not only did Qin Zhengfeng beat him, but his reputation at that time can be said to have caused public outrage." Ms. Tu said, "Bai Yimeng traveled thousands of miles to find him. He didn't eat or drink much for nearly half a month. He was always busy. After finding him, this man was holding a beautiful woman. You can imagine how angry he was." Qi Wu
wanted to say something but stopped. He wanted to ask, but didn't dare to ask.
Ms. Tu glanced at him, "Boys should stop being so fussy."
Qi Wu said immediately, "Then Cang Lao had been surrounded by many women before, why did he do it this time?"
Ms. Tu looked at them puzzledly, and soon, as if she understood something, she pointed her finger and smiled, "Forget it, you guys. You had been surrounded by many women before, that can be called a casual affair, but when he was found that time, Cang Yu was sleeping in the girl's bed, do you understand? You guys are all living in the research institute, not in the mortal world, this is not a good thing, Ah Shou... but you often go out to cheat, you should understand."
Shou thought to himself why should I understand, but still said, "Dean Bai traveled thousands of miles to save Cang Lao, and finally found him but he was in bed..."
Think about it yourself.
That's probably really fucked up!
I don't need to describe my feelings.
You thought he was suffering, hovering between life and death, while he was enjoying himself in a woman's bed.
Your teacher is really a piece of shit!
Tang Jinnan received such a silent message and said nothing, because he also felt that if the teacher really did this, it would be really a piece of shit.
"Everyone at that time stood up for Dean Bai." Ms. Tu turned her wrist, "Because they were bystanders, they knew very well how Dean Bai had been looking for him, how he had been staying up all night, not eating or drinking..."
"So when they saw Cang Yu sleeping in a woman's bed, haha, let alone Bai Yimeng's mood, the others were angry."
"The biggest turning point after this incident was after we returned, when the Bai family received news that the train that Bai's father and brother were taking back had an accident and was robbed, and that Bai's father and brother died on that train..."
In an era when it was considered a great rebellion for a woman not to marry, your father and brother traveled thousands of miles to find you but died on the way back. The result can be imagined - the pointing and cursing of those relatives behind your back almost broke Bai Yimeng's spine.
It's not just the Bai family.
Public opinion is a pressure and harm to women.
No one will take Bai Yimeng's great achievements seriously. They only see how she rebelled and killed her father and brother.
"Society calls for gender equality, but in reality, I think that unless society can accommodate women in professions, more and more women participate in various social basics, and reach a certain balance, otherwise, the so-called equality will not come for a long time."
Because if Bai Yimeng was a man! Under the circumstances at that time, if he did not get married, he would only be praised and held high. What a great man, who did not get married for the sake of national cause.
But, Bai Yimeng is a woman.
Dark public opinion, coupled with constant reports in newspapers and the Bai family's announcement of severing ties, verbal and written condemnation.
At that time, Bai Yimeng rushed back day and night but could not even offer incense to her father and brother. She was scolded and kicked out.