Chapter 70 Neptune Theory
Mr. Qiu is not completely stupid. Although he is not good at reading, he is quite knowledgeable about the ways of the world.
Ever since Xiao Yuan brought him over and told him about his private affairs, he knew that he could not stay out of this matter.
Knowing other people's secrets is the easiest way to get into trouble. Fortunately, what this gentleman said was not something life-threatening.
Although it was quite shameful that the governor of Dongchang couldn't handle his own wife, Qiu Er felt that as long as he could help, Governor Xiao would not kill people to silence them.
As for not being able to help, Qiu Er had never thought about it. He was the best at dealing with women, and this was completely outside of his professional field.
It's just that the aura of King Xiao Yan is too terrifying. Qiu Er feels like he will collapse if the test paper is filled with questions and he won't have time to answer them.
Xiao Yuan looked at the nervous and stuttering Qiu Er and tried to suppress his temper.
"If you have anything to say, feel free to speak up. I will not attack you within half an hour.
But if what you say is nonsense..."
Qiu Er rubbed his neck and waved his hands quickly, "No, no, what I told you is from the bottom of my heart, but this technique of picking up girls...
Ah, no.
This woman's heart is like a needle in the sea. It's not easy to explain it to her. You have to be patient."
Xiao Yuan snorted coldly as a sign of acquiescence, and Qiu Er sat on the ground and moved away.
"Then let's talk about the issue of cognition and prejudice first.
From your tone, I can tell that you like your wife very much. So why do you insist on taming her to be virtuous?
In the final analysis, you are still not confident, and you always want your wife to show that she cares about you very much so that you can feel at ease. "
Hearing this, Xiao Yuan gave Qiu Er another cold look, scaring him so much that he shrank back unconsciously.
Unfortunately, he was now in a difficult situation, and even though he was unsure, he had no choice but to continue talking.
"Since you just want a docile wife, I have a ready-made plan here.
Don't worry, the quality is guaranteed after ten years of verification. If it doesn't work, I'll give you my last name."
After taking a quick glance at Xiao Yuan's expression, Qiu Er continued,
"Please forgive me for being blunt, Lord Governor, but there is definitely something wrong with your perception.
People have different temperaments. A woman like your wife who is opinionated and strong-willed needs to be coaxed.
You'd better... show weakness.
As for your lack of confidence, there is absolutely no need for me to explain it.
Your wife knows your situation very well. Since she takes the initiative to get close to you, it means she likes you.
Of course, this love is not yet solid.
You are right to be afraid that she will feel disgusted after getting to know you more deeply, but your way of rejecting her is wrong.
For any woman, being rejected by a man is a very humiliating behavior, which is no less than pointing at their noses and scolding them for being promiscuous and shameless.
No matter how much a woman likes a man, she will become disheartened after being humiliated like this a few times.
So when your lady gets close to you, you must respond. Since she is the person you like, wouldn't you be happy if she kisses and hugs you?
But you must stop at the critical moment. You cannot care about your face at this time. You should show weakness when necessary and express all your grievances and concerns.
Generally, at this time, most women will be filled with sympathy and love, and will not only not make things difficult for you, but will also be obedient to you for the next few days."
Speaking of this, Qiu Er said with great pride, "This move is called retreat in order to advance.
Women are the most emotional. Once they feel sympathy for you, she will not want you to be sad, and it will be easy for you to ask her for anything.
I used this trick to win my wife over. Even Qi He, the famous and talented man in the Qi family, couldn't compete with me."
Seeing his boastful look, Xiao Yuan snorted coldly and knocked on the table.
"Stop talking nonsense and continue."
Qiu Er was so scared that he quickly shrank his neck, "Yes, yes, you are getting to the key point right away.
This love born out of compassion is only the first step in controlling a woman, and your attitude must be good at this time.
Show that you really like and care about each other, and try to create as many memories as possible between the two of you.
For example, help her draw her eyebrows and take a walk together, or just plant a flower for her and give her a bird.
In short, let her life be filled with your shadow, and then you can start the second stage.
The second stage is pulling.
You know fishing, right? If the fish is too big, the line will definitely break if you pull it hard. In this case, you have to loosen and tighten the line back and forth until the fish is exhausted and gives up resistance, then you can pull it ashore.
The same goes for women.
At this time, you can't just be nice to her all the time. You have to lose your temper from time to time to make her feel cold for a few days and let her fall into self-doubt. Then you can coax her gently and tenderly.
You can't coax her too much and make her arrogant, but you can't leave her alone for too long and make her lose her popularity.
After a while, it entered the third stage, which made her feel a sense of crisis.
You can let her know through other channels that there are women around you and make up some plausible rumors to make her anxious.
Those shared memories that you laid down earlier when you were giving her the cold shoulder came into play.
A woman has nothing to do at home, so when she sees the flowers, plants, and trees that are the memories you two have shared, she will automatically think of your affectionate look.
At this point, she has already invested a lot of affection in you, and it has lasted for quite some time.
If I wasn't really heartbroken and there was no hope, I would never be willing to give up.
That's basically it, we're almost there.
Her joys and sorrows are all about you. As long as you show her what you like, she will naturally learn it. "
After listening to his explosive speech, Xiao Yuan pondered for a while, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that it made sense.
It turns out that understanding the worldly affairs is knowledge and understanding of human nature is writing. It turns out that love is not just about mutual affection, there are so many things involved.
But why does this routine feel so familiar?
In the bridal chamber, she told him that her parents' family and her fiancé had teamed up to plot against her and begged him to give her a way out.
After that, she showed her love for him by doing some intimate things, which confused his heart.
Then he continued to push the envelope and test his bottom line step by step.
Although he wanted to cut off their connection this time and leave her alone, the woman was not leaving herself alone.
It's just that I'm a loser because of her making me feel uneasy and worried.
Thinking of this, Xiao Yuan slammed the table hard.
Although the little girl is young, she is an expert in love affairs. He was actually tricked by her step by step.
It's not surprising that Qiu Er, a playboy, knows all this, but how could Jiang Xinyu, a girl from a noble family, have such profound knowledge?
Who did she learn this from or on whom did she test it?
Does she really like me?
Or, she just used him as a springboard for revenge and a trophy.
If she has a better choice in the future, will she abandon me?
At this moment, Xiao Yuan was stuck in a dilemma again. The more he thought about it, the more he felt that Jiang Xinyu and Qiu Er's tactics were coincidental.
Xiao Yuan even put himself into the role of Mrs. Qiu.
Mrs. Yuan, the wife of Qiu Er, married Qiu Er as a woman of lower status. If she had not been willing, Qiu Er would not have been able to marry anyone given his family background.
I didn't expect it was full of calculations. No wonder Qiu Er still lingered around with women after getting married.
Haha, there is no emotion, it’s all skill.
At this moment, Xiao Yuan really hated these love veterans. They actually played with other people's true feelings like this. They deserved to die.
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