This is clearly another dose of PDA, ugh!
I initially thought this guy was a complete novice when it came to relationships, but it turns out he's a seasoned player!
Gu Yaping felt deceived.
[Dude, tell me honestly, is this a bait post? No, a dog-baiting post, the kind that lures all the dogs in and then kills them all?]
Gu Yuheng: "What bait post? What dog-slaughtering?"
He didn't have a hobby of fishing, nor was he interested in slaughtering dogs.
After confirming repeatedly that Gu Yuheng's post was not a phishing post, Gu Yaping was speechless.
"Dude, you're supposed to have really high emotional intelligence, so how did you end up like this? Tell me a few more things you've done that upset your girlfriend, and I'll analyze it for you."
Gu Yaping's gossip instincts were immediately ignited, and he had already pulled up a small stool, ready to watch the drama unfold.
Gu Yuheng thought for a moment, then sent her a few things he disliked about Lin Chuxia that had angered her.
Gu Yaping: Wait, you just said that you don't like your girlfriend wearing a sundress when she goes out, so you said a few words to her. Do you remember what you said?
How could I not remember? His memory has always been excellent. Without thinking, Gu Yuheng typed back: I said she's so ugly it's an eyesore!
Gu Yaping: ...So what you just said, you were unhappy because you saw her chatting and laughing happily with other boys, and you said something to her, and then you started arguing again, what was the exact wording?
Gu Yuheng: Shameless!
Gu Yaping: ...
He was wrong; he took back what he had just said.
This isn't just low emotional intelligence, it's downright stupidity!
Dude, I understand the problem between you and your girlfriend. Your main issue isn't a lack of emotional intelligence, but rather that sometimes the things you say are unpleasant and can lead to misunderstandings.
[For example, regarding the issue of your girlfriend wearing a sundress, you're just saying you don't like her wearing revealing clothing that other men can see, right? It's just possessiveness, I understand! That's not wrong, but saying the girl is ugly is wrong of you!]
Girls care a lot about their appearance, so saying that directly is practically asking to start a fight.
If you don't like her doing that, just tell her directly what you think. Tell her you don't like her dressing that way, tell her you're jealous, upset, and unhappy. Wouldn't that solve everything?
【But why did you have to be so recklessly sarcastic? Now look what's happened; you've gone from being in the right to being in the wrong in an instant.】
[Regarding this matter again, just tell her what you just said to me: 'I fell in love with you because I love you.' Just clearly convey this thought to her, and I guarantee she'll immediately and happily throw herself into your arms!]
Some men can separate their body from their heart; in matters of the flesh, they're driven by lust, not emotion. Even if they don't like a woman, they're perfectly capable of sleeping with her. Your girlfriend probably misunderstands and thinks you're that kind of man too.
Gu Yuheng expressed his incomprehension: How can you have desires if you don't like someone?
He had no interest in even glancing at any woman other than her, so how could he possibly have such thoughts?
Even now, just thinking about it makes his scalp tingle and makes him feel extremely disgusted.
He simply cannot accept any woman other than her.
[Yeah! How can you have desires if you don't like someone? Dude, seriously, I think your emotional intelligence is actually quite high, really!]
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