Chapter 103 Rational Thinking

"You don't understand marriage, and neither does he. When I was with your father, I actually didn't like him at all. I thought he was dull and not humorous at all. At the beginning, I was even afraid of him. No one in the village was as tall as him. He stood there like a mountain. But later, we started to get along, and your father's thoughtfulness and care were all reflected. Then I developed feelings for him."

"You two are not familiar with each other at the beginning, so communication is the most important thing. As long as the couple is of one mind and talk about their ideas with each other, if they are suitable and can get along well, then life can still go on. After all, this is not playing house, and you can't think about divorce just because you are a little dissatisfied, not to mention that Lan Xu has a job like this, and he has his own difficulties. As for love, I have talked to your grandmother about it."

These words were spoken.

Zhu Suisui never expected that his mother's views would be so insightful.

No one has ever told her these words.

In my previous life, I was immersed in my own love and did some self-touching things. After all, I was also responsible for the current state of their marriage.

Now listening to Xu Hui's words, I naturally couldn't help but think deeply about it.

Old Lady Zhu sighed and said, "Sui Sui, I don't understand what you are talking about love, but I think that in life, we can't always think about love or not. As long as you think about him when you do things, and he thinks about you when he does things, that's enough. Living a good life together is better than anything else. When I married you to the Lu family, I didn't consider whether I loved you or not. What I valued was Lu Lanxu's character and his sense of responsibility."

"He remembers your grandfather's kindness, so your life there will be fine. As for the rest, why should we think so much? But if you really can't live like this, grandma won't say anything. Anyway, this will always be your home."

The elderly’s ideas are more realistic.

To put it bluntly.

The Lu family has good conditions and is grateful to them, so they will never treat Zhu Suisui harshly.

Marriage is not so much about wishing Zhu Suisui a sweet life, but actually hoping that she can live a peaceful and smooth life.

Now listen.

Zhu Suisui then realized that he had really misunderstood.

yes.

Why do we have to cling to love?

She had been obsessed with love in her previous life, and ended up messing up her good life.

Could it be that all the problems are the Lu family's and I have no problems at all?

Actually, it is not.

Zhu Suisui thought rationally and realized that she had more problems.

She has low self-esteem, thinks too much, dares not speak or ask about many things, has little knowledge and likes to daydream. These are her problems.

To be fair.

Since his rebirth, he had a frank talk with Lu Lanxu.

Originally, she wanted to end her marriage with him, but it is difficult to divorce a military marriage. If she really wants to force Lu Lanxu to file for a divorce, she will have to burn her boats, break off relations with the Lu family, and go straight to her death.

But many things happened in the previous life and have not yet happened in this life.

She actually had no reason to divorce.

Lu Lanxu was also very nice to her. Except for some weird ones, everyone in the Lu family had never treated her harshly in terms of food, clothing and shelter.

Now Lu Lanxu has apparently started to make changes for this marriage. She didn't ask about many things, but that doesn't mean she doesn't know.

Lu Lanxu was so busy in her previous life, she would definitely not lie, but she has slowed down her pace in this life. Not only is it for her own benefit, she herself feels that she has no conscience.

Her mentality after rebirth was still not right, and she still put herself in the position of a victim.

In fact, these were all things that happened in the previous life. Nothing has happened in this life. She originally thought that moving out would be a difficult thing, but didn’t Lu Lanxu agree?

In fact, without love, or caring less, such a marriage is almost too perfect for her.

Just like when she is about to take the college entrance examination, Lu Lanxu can help her find information and help her review. After all, the Lu family has a wide network of contacts. She wants to enter the antique industry. She has not told Lu Lanxu about the troubles she has encountered yet, but if he knew, Zhu Suisui felt that Lu Lanxu would definitely help.

Even when riding the train, Lu Lanxu was able to use her connections to make her life more comfortable.

There are other miscellaneous things, which are the benefits of marrying into a Lu family.

People still can't forget their roots.

After all, things happened in the previous life, and one's own problems are also very big. Of course, as a person, one will subconsciously magnify one's own grievances. This is human nature.

Everything is just beginning now.

She always looks at people around her with old eyes. Isn't this a kind of prejudice?

It's just like how the Lu family viewed me. They also thought that I knew nothing and was just from the country. This was a prejudice. But I am actually changing. This change needs time to prove itself. I want the opportunity to prove myself, but they simply condemned Lu Lanxu. Isn't that unfair?

Zhu Suisui thought a lot, and at this moment he suddenly understood.

She didn't want to worry her family, and she felt that she was more mature now than in her previous life, and had a correct attitude towards marriage. She didn't need to bother herself here.

The three chatted a lot.

Zhu Lechen's voice came from outside.

"Mother, mother, Suibao, we have to go out to work."

It's afternoon now.

Now every household has been allocated land, and the Zhu family also has land, which they still need to take care of.

Xu Hui responded.

Then he looked at Zhu Suisui and said, "I won't say anything else. You can think about it yourself."

Zhu Suisui hummed.

She walked out of the room.

At this moment, Lu Lanxu was the only one left in the main room.

He heard footsteps and looked over. His cold eyes were tinged with a hint of tenderness.

"Sui Sui."

But the next moment, Lu Lanxu frowned slightly, "Why are your eyes red?"

Zhu Suisui shook his head.

"Everything is packed, why don't you take a rest? We can go out for a walk later."

Actually, there is nothing much to see in the village.

But Zhu Suisui thought, since he had come here with great difficulty, he should take him to see it after all.

By the way...

Communicate issues that have never been communicated before.

Lu Lanxu raised her eyebrows slightly and looked at Zhu Suisui, as if surprised by her attitude.

Seeing him like this, Zhu Sui pursed her lips. In fact, she also needed courage to take this step.

Fortunately, Lu Lanxu didn't look at it for too long, and nodded, "My father told me that there are winter dates on the mountain that are very sweet, and it's a good time to try them."

Zhu Suisui lowered his head to look at his toes and hummed.

There was silence.

At this moment, there was movement outside.

Zhu Suisui looked over and found that the person coming was his aunt.

She frowned slightly.

What happened to Xu Rongrong? Why did my aunt come here?