Chapter 477 Finding a way for the two of us to get along
Lu Lanxu said nothing and just looked at her.
Seeing him like this, Zhu Suisui knew that he was unhappy.
Lu Lanxu never expressed her joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness on the surface. Even though he was his wife, he had never seen Lu Lanxu's emotions fluctuate greatly.
Anything in front of him can be solved. Don't worry, I'm here for you.
As a result, Zhu Suisui had many misunderstandings about him.
But can a person really be completely emotionless?
This is obviously wrong.
All emotions are suppressed and constrained by external factors. If you have to pretend to be strong even in front of your closest people, it will be too painful to live like this.
Zhu Suisui, on the contrary, hopes that Lu Lanxu can vent his feelings to her. Whether it is good or bad, she wants to feel it.
Lu Lanxu's restraint will only push the two of them further and further apart.
Think of this.
Zhu Sui's guilty conscience was gone.
"Don't look at me like that. I don't think there's any need for us to continue communicating until you learn how to get along with me."
If she wants Lu Lanxu to change, it is useless to rely on her unilateral persuasion.
Because this idea has been deeply rooted in Lu Lanxu's world.
Even if Lu Lanxu agreed now, he still wouldn't be able to do it when the time comes.
The case of vasectomy is very obvious.
When the two of them made a three-year agreement, Lu Lanxu promised her that he would not hide anything from her, but in the end he still insisted on having his own way.
Zhu Suisui felt that he had to touch his pain points so that he would understand the real needs between a couple.
Lu Lanxu was silent for a moment and then said, "I'm sorry about the sterilization. I didn't mean to hide it from you. I just thought it was a better choice for us. If you're angry with me for this, I apologize and promise that I won't hide it from you in the future."
"Lan Xu, do you really think that the problem between us is just because you hid this from me?"
Zhu Suisui thought that the next time something happened that was related to her, she felt that Lu Lanxu would still choose to handle it himself.
She will continue to be kept in the dark.
Zhu Suisui decided to make Lu Lanxu understand what she needs.
She didn't want her husband to be like a program set by an NPC, with only a gentle and calm personality. She also wanted to see his joys and sorrows, and wanted him to completely expose his true self to her.
This is not a disadvantage.
Both of them care about each other, but are unwilling to tell each other what they have paid. Because of this reason, misunderstandings will arise. Only when Lu Lanxu truly becomes himself in front of them and truly shows his emotions, can the ice be completely broken.
Lu Lanxu was so smart that he obviously understood what Zhu Suisui meant.
Unlike the beginning when she was a bit aggressive, she was serious and there was some fatigue between her brows. I don't know if it was because she didn't get enough rest or she was tired of this marriage.
Lu Lanxu is very insightful at work and can analyze events calmly, but when it comes to his wife, he seems to become clumsy.
He pursed his lips and said, "Sui Sui, I don't want you to have a hard time with me."
"Lan Xu, although I don't understand you 100%, I know your character. From childhood, you have been taught to hold up the sky by yourself, and you have to charge into any situation. The Lu family's education has turned you into a person who doesn't show your emotions. You can handle anything calmly because that's what you are used to, and it's also what you think is your responsibility."
Zhu Suisui pointed this out calmly, looking at Lu Lanxu with gentle eyes, "But you are married, you are not alone, a family needs a clear division of labor, I used to think that the two of us, as long as we get along, we can always find a suitable way of life, but I found that it is not the case. What we need is for us to find a way of getting along with each other that belongs to us together."
"The relationship between husband and wife should never be one of unconditional giving by one party. Your giving can sometimes become a burden to the other party."
Even if this was not Lu Lanxu's original intention, this was the result.
Zhu Suisui knew that he couldn't make Lu Lanxu change his behavior with just a few words. He was used to handling official business and also dealt with a lot of Lu family affairs, so his style of doing things naturally became stronger. Even though he was very gentle to her, Zhu Suisui was always the one who was excluded in some decisions.
This is Lu Lanxu's way of protecting her.
But this kind of protection has become a weapon to harm Zhu Suisui.
Zhu Suisui thought that if things continued like this, this marriage would not work in the end, even if they loved each other.
It's very late now.
After Zhu Suisui finished speaking, he let Lu Lanxu leave first.
Before she felt that Lu Lanxu had changed, Zhu Suisui would not be alone with him.
And I'm afraid Lu Lanxu also needs to digest what I said.
Under the night.
Lu Lanxu pursed his lips and looked at her solemnly. After a long moment, he said, "I understand."
Some of the things I have said have come to this point.
Zhu Suisui naturally knew that Lu Lanxu had heard it all.
Wait until the next day.
When Zhu Suisui woke up again, he did not see Lu Lanxu, but saw Hai Chenyan.
Hai Chenyan is indeed a bit unruly, with bruises all over his pretty face.
As soon as he saw it, Zhu Suisui couldn't help laughing.
Hai Chenyan rolled his eyes and said, "If I had known you were so disloyal, I shouldn't have brought you along on this."
Zhu Suisui suppressed his laughter, "I didn't expect you to be such a wimp. Fortunately, it was just a false alarm. We have done a good thing for the country, haven't we?"
"That's true, otherwise I would have suffered a great loss." Hai Chenyan thought about it and felt that this was a lucky opportunity.
If Hai Chenyan had not listened to Zhu Suisui and had taken those antiques on impulse, he would have been arrested by now.
And now.
Not only was Hai Chenyan fine, he also did a good thing.
As if he thought of something.
Hai Chenyan took out a bag of breakfast from his pocket and handed it over, "Eat quickly, and then we'll go take a look at the land."
"I didn't expect you to be so thoughtful." Zhu Suisui opened the box and saw that the breakfast was still hot, and every dish was his favorite.
This is a bit too much of a coincidence.
Hai Chenyan groaned, "I'm not the one who's considerate."
As soon as these words came out.
Zhu Suisui then understood who had prepared this for him.
She paused for a moment, didn't ask any more questions, and continued eating.
Look at her.
Hai Chenyan walked over curiously and asked, "Did you have a quarrel with someone? How did he offend you? You don't look like such an unreasonable person. Doesn't he care about you very much?"
"What do you mean?" Zhu Suisui was a little confused.
Hai Chenyan said, "When we first met, you intercepted the Song Dynasty Junyao that I had my eye on. I wanted to deal with you, but he came out to warn me. That little Swiss knife was swishing and almost scratched my handsome face. He must have been very worried about you. If you got into big trouble, he would be responsible for cleaning up your mess. You know this, right?"
Zhu Suisui really doesn’t know about this!
She only knew that Hai Chenyan didn't cause trouble for her later, was it because Lu Lanxu had stabbed her?
Zhu Suisui was a little surprised, but also felt sweet in his heart.
But it's still the same sentence.
Even if you do something good, you don't let yourself know.
If I had known it at that time, my opinion of Lu Lanxu would definitely be different.
But what is the result?
If Hai Chenyan hadn't mentioned it this time, Zhu Suisui would probably never have known it in his entire life.
This is the order of the land orchid.
She insisted that he learn to express his thoughts and feelings.
Seeing Zhu Suisui didn't say anything.
Hai Chenyan frowned, looking at him speechlessly, "No way, you really don't know?"