Chapter 292 Let's still use contraception
Although Granny Ma said that it didn't need to be too formal, Jiang Yu didn't need to call her teacher, because she was just an ordinary cleaner.
But Jiang Yu still came with a gift for apprenticeship. Granny Ma would definitely not accept money, so Jiang Yu only brought some food.
Busy days always pass quickly, and before we knew it, it was the day of Zhao Qing's daughter's full month.
The baby was white and plump when she was born, and after a month of raising, she looked much better.
I heard that the Sun family made a big fuss for the full month wine.
Grandmother Sun thought that she was just a girl, and there was no need to set up wine.
Zhao Qing was very fond of baby Yanyan, thinking that this was the first child, and wanted to call everyone over to make it lively.
Sun Zailiang didn't know who he heard from, so he simply remained silent.
Finally, Zhao Qing made the decision to set up the full-month wine party.
Jiang Yu held the child for a while and then gave it back to Zhao Qing.
"It's really too soft. I was a little scared when I held it."
Zhao Qing smiled very gently, "When you have a child in the future, you will know that this is a sweet burden."
Jiang Yu touched Yanyan's little face. She was soft and very cute.
After talking to the child for a while, Zhao Qing suddenly frowned and her face became a little sad.
She had the appearance of a delicate little white flower. When she frowned, it seemed like she had unspeakable sorrow.
"Jiang Yu, I heard that you and Section Chief He are on contraception, is that true?"
Jiang Yu nodded, "Yes, I've been on contraception since I got married to him."
Zhao Qing was puzzled: "Why? Section Chief He is not young anymore, isn't he in a hurry to have a child?"
Jiang Yu smiled shyly, "He thinks I'm too young, and it's not too late to have a child at 22 or 23."
Zhao Qing felt sour in her heart, and was extremely envious of him.
In a woman's life, she either has a good family background or marries well.
Jiang Yu didn't have the former, and being able to marry He Tingyue was considered a change of fate.
"How... do you use contraception? Do you take pills? I also want to use contraception, but I'm breastfeeding now and can't take pills."
Jiang Yu was stunned. Zhao Qing had just finished her confinement, and she was already having sex?
"There are condoms in our factory's clinic, just spend money to buy them. In your current condition, it's best not to take medicine."
Zhao Qing nodded, "I think so too. My mother-in-law often takes Yanyan to sleep with her now, because she wants me to hurry up and have another baby."
Because the first child is a daughter, Sun's mother was dissatisfied.
She took the child away at night, hinting that Sun Zailiang should hurry up and have another child.
Sun Zailiang was so depressed during her pregnancy that he didn't care that she had just come out of confinement, and only cared about venting his desires.
Zhao Qing didn't want to get pregnant so early, so she had to find a way to prevent pregnancy.
Jiang Yu frowned in disapproval, but this was someone else's business, and she couldn't say anything.
All the thoughts finally came down to one sentence: "It's better to use contraception, for your own good and for the good of the child."
As a result, this sentence was heard by the grandson's mother, who started to yell.
"Jiang Yu, what do you mean? I have never seen a daughter-in-law as evil-minded as you, and you actually instigated my daughter-in-law to use contraception! You can't want my daughter-in-law to not have children just because you can't get pregnant!"
The grandson's mother cried and ran to the yard to accuse Jiang Yu.
The full-month wine was set up in the yard, and many people came to drink. Everyone heard what the grandson's mother said.
"Everyone, please judge, how can you be a daughter-in-law like this!"
The grandson's mother's relatives naturally criticized Jiang Yu in various ways.
"It's shameful that he is a cultured person, but he has such a bad heart."
"We are neighbors in the same compound, how can you stir up trouble like this."
"Xiu Yu, I think you have too good a temper. If it were my daughter-in-law, I would have taken action long ago."
"She gave birth to a concubine as her first child, and instead of getting pregnant with the second one, she even thought about using contraception. You have to teach this daughter-in-law a lesson!"
"..."
Jiang Yu was disdainful of arguing with these people and let them talk.
She naturally did not regret saying that. He Tingyue had done a lot of homework on having children before. It is best to have children every two or three years, which is good for a woman's body.
Zhao Qing has a proper job now, and one child is enough to keep her busy. If she has children one after another, will she still have to work?
Jiang Yu can ignore it, but Zhao Qing is not the kind of person who would feel depressed.
She was able to catch Sun Zailiang by faking pregnancy and marry into the Sun family, which shows that she is also very ambitious.
"Uncles, aunts, when I get pregnant and when I have a second child, don't bother with you. I just wanted to avoid pregnancy and asked Jiang Yu for a method. She gave me two suggestions for my health. What do you have to do with it?"
"If you want to drink, stay. I will treat you well. But if you want to cause trouble for me on purpose, don't blame me for being rude as a junior. You all go back."
Xu Lihua said coldly: "Ruan Xiuyu, I'm not saying anything bad about you. Zhao Qing just gave birth to a child. Why are you so anxious?"
Everyone said that she was a harsh mother-in-law. Now compared with Sun's mother, Xu Lihua felt that she was simply the best.
The grandson's mother turned her anger on Xu Lihua: "Bah! You are so easy to talk when you are not standing. If Lin Rui gave birth to a concubine today, I wonder if you would be anxious!"
Xu Lihua sneered, "You think I am you? Your daughter was going to get married, but you ruined her marriage and made her go to the countryside instead of your son! It is a bad habit to favor sons over daughters. I responded to the call of the country and got rid of it a long time ago! But you and your family have not changed yet. "It's a great achievement."
Zhang Jiahua chimed in: "My mother prepared two sets of clothes for the baby in my wife's belly, regardless of whether it was a boy or a girl. She was not as low-minded as Aunt Ruan."
The grandson's mother was so angry that she beat her chest and stamped her feet, crying: "I just want a grandson. What did I do wrong? You all bully me!"
Zhao Qing spat at her. If she hadn't been holding the child, she really wanted to slap her twice.
“If you really want a grandson, why do you sleep with your son in your arms every day, leaving us with no chance of having our wedding night? Now that you see I’ve given birth to a daughter and I’ve just finished my confinement, you’re urging me to get pregnant. I don’t think you want a grandson, you want my life!”
Ruan’s eldest uncle was quite amiable, and he quickly stepped out to explain: “Zhao Qing, what you said is too serious, your mother-in-law doesn’t mean that.”
Jiang Yu said indifferently: “She just gave birth to a child. If she gets pregnant now, it will be bad for both herself and the child. No, it is indeed easy to get into danger. What Zhao Qing said was not wrong, actually. "
Ruan's aunt said hesitantly, "Whose family has not been like this? Which woman has no danger in giving birth? Then don't they still have to give birth?"
Zhao Qing smiled coldly, "Aunt, not every family is like your Ruan family! In your Ruan family, I still sleep with my almost 30-year-old son in my arms. It's not like that in my mother's family."
Zhao Qing's mother has been gentle for half her life, and she dare not cause trouble, but today she couldn't help but stand up and speak.
"You are so old and still hold your son to sleep. This is such a shameless thing. Today I have opened my eyes! You are like this, and you still want my daughter to give you a grandson? What's the point of giving birth to a grandson? Let you hold him to sleep? Bah, you shameless old thing!"
Now not only grandson's mother, but all the relatives of the Ruan family felt ashamed.
What they didn't know was that this matter later spread to the Ruan family.
When grandson's mother's family walked out of the door, they were chased and asked: "I heard that your sister-in-law, who is fifty years old, still sleeps with her son in her arms? Is this true?"
Then someone spread that this was the custom of the Ruan family.
His old lady, that is, grandson's mother's mother, was in her seventies and eighties, and she still slept in the same bed with her son and daughter-in-law.
As a result, they didn't dare to go out for a long time.