Chapter 298 Love Yourself First
After a child is born, does the mother need special care to take better care of the child?
When children go to school, is it more conducive to their growth if parents accompany and provide guidance?
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It seems that every stage after the child arrives is faced with such a choice, and most people assume that the mother will unconditionally sacrifice herself to fulfill and cultivate a "perfect" child.
But is this necessarily inevitable?
At least in Yunqing's view, becoming a mother does not conflict with her continuing to be herself and achieving her goals.
During pregnancy, resting at home is not necessarily for the good of the baby. It depends on your physical condition.
If she had a severe reaction and couldn't come out to work, she would definitely not try to be tough.
But that is not the case now. She is in good condition and can afford these tasks. Why should she give up the project at hand and stay at home to take care of the pregnancy just because of that speculative possibility?
Including in the future, it is not necessary for the mother to make sacrifices to provide the child with a good growth environment.
In addition to the mother, the child also has a father and will find someone to take care of it.
At that time, both Li Ting and she will try their best to make time to discuss and coordinate, and will always give the child the companionship he needs.
Many things are not inevitable, and the commonly accepted "rules" are not necessarily correct.
She will give her children enough love, but she will not be a mother who gives up herself for her children.
Yunqing always believes that people must first love themselves before they can love others, and such love is healthy.
Any love based on sacrifice and devotion carries a sense of tragedy, and Yun Qing does not think this is healthy.
Admittedly, some people may regard their children as everything and enjoy it, and there is nothing wrong with that.
But she didn't think so.
She wants to balance her children and her own life, and has made plans for this. She will not be stubborn, but she will not give up things that should not be given up.
After listening to this, Wen Xiao gave a thumbs up and said, "You're right. If you think about it carefully, it should be like this."
"Okay, I won't try to persuade you anymore. But you have to be careful. If you feel overwhelmed, put down your work immediately. The baby is also important."
"I know." Yun Qing smiled and nodded, "Don't worry, I won't take any risks with the child."
After talking it out, Wen Xiao was no longer as cautious and worried as before, and no longer deliberately treated Yun Qing as someone who needed special protection.
It’s not that he doesn’t take care of Yunqing, it’s just that Wen Xiao’s mentality has become much calmer, and he is more relaxed about some work matters and no longer worries about them.
But she also knew her limits and would not assign too much work to Yunqing, nor would she let her participate in activities such as social gatherings after get off work. Wen Xiao took care of all these things herself.
With clear division of labor, efficiency is improved and people don’t feel very tired.
In this way, the days passed one by one, and in a blink of an eye, Yunqing was six months pregnant and her belly was noticeable.
At this stage, she felt obviously tired, not as lively as before, and her energy was much lower.
The original workload was no longer enough for him, so Yun Qing immediately discussed with Wen Xiao and made adjustments. He postponed his arrival time in the morning, and the work assigned to him became easier.
Everything is within the range that the body can afford.
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