Chapter 583: Mental Health of Pregnant Women
The first is the pregnancy reaction as the month begins, and Lu Miao will vomit frequently.
Trying hard to maintain a normal food intake, people not only fail to gain weight, but become thinner.
It is already November and the weather is getting colder.
The first three months are almost full term, how can Fu Jingyou be at ease?
After taking care of He Hongjin, Fu Jingyou rushed back and took Lu Miao to the People's Hospital near his home for a check-up.
The person who received them was still Dr. Liu from before.
Fu Jingyou guessed that Lu Miao was so thin because the little one in his stomach absorbed more.
It was directly rejected by Dr. Liu.
It is said that although the fetus needs nutrition, it is still too young and the nutritional needs are quite limited.
After pricking Lu Miao's fingertip for a blood test and understanding the latest situation, Dr. Liu asked Lu Miao to wait in the outer room.
She chatted with Fu Jingyou alone for a while:
"When your wife came over before, I saw that she really wanted to keep the child. Why did she suddenly decide not to do it anymore?"
Fu Jingyou paused for a moment, not daring to hide anything in front of the doctor, and told the doctor in detail about the difficult birth in Lu Miao's hometown, and finally said:
"This child didn't come at the right time, and her physical condition isn't suitable. It's best to have her removed."
Doctor Liu considered it for a moment and shook his head seriously:
"That's not necessarily true. The body can be taken care of, and the pregnant woman's thoughts are more important than yours."
Fearing that Fu Jingyou might not understand, Dr. Liu made an in-depth analysis:
"Even though she acknowledges your idea of not wanting the child, she still wants it in her heart. It's the human nature that agrees with you, and it's the psychology that resists."
"Can you recall, since you discussed and decided this, have you ever seen her smile?"
Fu Jingyou thought for a moment, pursed his thin lips slightly, and then frowned.
No.
Lu Miao doesn't smile much.
Although I eat well and rest well every day, I am still depressed and don’t like to laugh or have much energy.
“…”
Fu Jingyou was silent.
"The mental health of pregnant women has always been a serious issue. She is resistant to it. No matter how much food or medicine she takes, the effect is minimal, not to mention that she has a little mouth to feed. Emotional issues need to be taken seriously. In addition, she has severe anemia, so I need to buy more blood-tonifying food when I get home."
Doctor Liu put on his glasses, scanned Lu Miao's blood test report, and said:
"An embryo around three or four months old can be aborted with a medical injection. If you want to abort it later in the pregnancy, it may require a curettage."
"To be honest, a curettage is quite painful and can cause significant damage to a woman's body, so after you return, it's best to discuss how to proceed as soon as possible."
Fu Jingyou's Adam's apple twitched, and he lowered his brows and asked:
"Isn't her current physical condition suitable for medical abortion?"
"Yes, but if you insist on having an abortion, the hospital can do it for you."
Fu Jingyou shook his head.
He didn't want this child because he was afraid that Lu Miao would be in danger again.
How could she be willing to force an abortion without considering Lu Miao's health?
Fu Jingyou let out a long breath, rubbed his forehead in worry, and tried hard to think of a solution.
Doctor Liu saw that he was in a dilemma and gave reasonable advice:
"I've learned a little about your experiences through your wife. If she can recover mentally, her physical condition might be easily resolved."
"Medical conditions are also improving. If you want to have a child, you can trust that. On the other hand, if you don't plan to have children, couples must take all necessary contraceptive measures. Vasculation for gay men and IUD insertion for lesbians are now very mature."
Fu Jingyou wiped his face and nodded absentmindedly.
After thinking for a long while, he suddenly asked in a deep voice:
"If I discuss it with her and agree to let her have the baby, will her condition definitely get better?"
"That's not certain, I can only say there's a high probability."
“…”
Fu Jingyou nodded worriedly and learned some other things, such as the difference between female childbirth and sterilization for men and women.
I heard that women now have to undergo a caesarean section when giving birth, which is a surgery where a cut is made in the abdomen.
Fu Jingyou shook his head after hearing this and became more and more resistant to having children.
Seeing his expression, Dr. Liu joked that if someone didn't know, they would think he was the one going into the operating room to give birth.
Fu Jingyou's thin lips twitched, but he couldn't quite smile.
Also learn some daily care and what to eat for anemia.
Fu Jingyou took Lu Miao's ID and blood test form, and said he would come back to check again in a few days.
Doctor Liu nodded and didn't keep him any longer.
Lu Miao had been sitting on the bench in the corridor waiting.
As soon as Fu Jingyou came out, she immediately stood up and asked nervously:
"What did the doctor say?"
He would send her away, probably to tell her something that she was not comfortable hearing.
Thinking of this, Lu Miao couldn't help but get nervous:
"I've been eating normally recently. Is there something else wrong?"
Fu Jingyou felt heavy in his heart. He lowered his brows and looked at her for a while, then suddenly raised his eyebrows and smiled.
"No."
There were not many people on the gynecology floor. He leaned over and hugged her, breathed a sigh of relief, and quickly adjusted his expression and said:
"We were discussing contraception and sterilization for gay men. The doctor was worried I wouldn't be able to relax with you around, so he sent you away."
Lu Miao was suspicious: "Really?"
Fu Jingyou nodded and took her downstairs:
"Really? He also said you're a little anemic and that you should eat more pork liver and red dates when you get home."
Lu Miao tilted his head and looked at his profile carefully.
Seeing that he always had a relaxed smile on his face, I couldn't help but believe it a little:
"I'll stop by later. It's still early, maybe I can still buy some pork liver."
"Um."
…
After buying a small piece of pork liver at the market, Fu Jingyou asked Tang Mei to cook it for Lu Miao when he got home.
Lu Miao didn't like the pork liver noodles made by Tang Mei.
I always smell a fishy smell, and I feel like retching when I smell it close to me.
Fu Jingyou cut some ginger into strips, put it back into the pot and served it to her.
She forced herself to eat a few mouthfuls of noodles, swallowed them, and after a while, she turned her head and vomited them all out.
Before this, Fu Jingyou always thought that the "emotions" frequently mentioned by doctors were not a big problem.
Until this moment, he felt bored, violent, and depressed because of seeing Lu Miao retching and vomiting and unable to eat, and he wanted to flee the scene without stopping.
It was as if I had realized something.
It turns out that emotions really affect a person's mentality and state.
Lu Miao's eyes were red with discomfort, and he held the bowl and tried hard to eat.
Fu Jingyou wiped his face and took the bowl from her, unable to bear it.
"Forget it, if you can't eat it, then don't eat it. I'll get you some red dates, which will do the same."
Lu Miao hesitated:
“Will it be a waste?”
"No, I'll put it aside for a while. I'll come back after delivering the medicine and take it."
Lu Miao had no choice but to nod.
She really felt a little uncomfortable.
Before eating it, just the smell of it made my chest feel stuffy.
After eating it and then vomiting it out, I felt a little unwell.
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