These days, young girls, upon hearing these things, will marry without a second thought!
That's an idiot!
I always thought that as a couple, we should just be able to earn enough to eat!
Innocent!
Putting everything else aside, just look at this house – how many people can have one right after getting married!
Not all of them live with their in-laws.
It's good that we don't have children. Both of us work and can take care of ourselves, so there's nothing wrong with that!
What if you have children?
Some people say, "Just go back to work while you're pregnant, so what? Everyone's been through it!"
Hehe, this old woman wants to say: These are all leftovers from the dead!
Many women went to work while heavily pregnant, whether in the fields or in factories, and many of them gave birth to their babies safely.
But quite a few children have also died!
Some of them will never be able to be mothers again in their lives!
Even more tragically, there are cases where both mother and child die!
Okay, being pregnant is fine, but what about giving birth?
Nowadays, most babies are born at home, and besides the midwife, it's just family members. But who are these family members?
Men, huh?
Aren't they all mothers-in-law and sisters-in-law?
It's a life-or-death situation, a near-death experience; there are many hidden complexities involved!
Is she in postpartum confinement?
Some people say, "You should go back to work in the fields right after giving birth, isn't that how it's always been?"
She wanted to say, "Bullshit!"
How many people like that don't have a host of flaws?
Some illnesses are too embarrassing to talk about, and you just have to suffer in silence!
How can a woman survive without someone to take care of her during her postpartum period?
The man is taking care of the new mother, and the whole family is starving and thirsty, and they're all tied up in their own pockets?
Why!
Those factories that have nurseries are a bit better off; when the children are very young, someone can help take care of them.
In the countryside, they can only carry their children on their backs!
So, if you can win your mother-in-law's favor and get some help, life will be a little easier!
Unfortunately, many young girls don't understand!
Getting married at eighteen is indeed a bit early!
I've heard that in some places, girls get married as early as fifteen or sixteen, which is truly a tragedy.
I got married at eighteen, and my mother-in-law was only in her early forties. She was the boss at home, and she controlled all the money.
A young girl who has just entered the family, if she doesn't win over her mother-in-law, she could be bullied to death by her mother-in-law without even knowing how she was bullied.
It's tough being a woman in this world!
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