Chapter 131 Persuasion
Li Wanyue said: "Of course it's because they want to get more. Not all men in the world, but at least 70% want to enjoy the happiness of having many wives.
If you have a willow-like slender waist, you want a plump and well-proportioned one; if you have a dignified and beautiful one, you want a charming and seductive one.
Not to mention the wealthy families, even the poor families in the countryside would not stop trying just because they were poor, and would secretly look for someone. For some men, the weeds on the roadside are delicious even if they have never tasted them. "
Qin Yuzhen asked in confusion: "Why is it like this? Isn't it good to find someone who shares the same feelings with you and spend your life together? If it's like what you said, then don't they have a woman they truly love for their whole life?"
Li Wanyue smiled lightly: "Yes, only the love that cannot be obtained and the loss forever will become their lifelong concern. Some people are like this. If you ignore them, they will chase you relentlessly. If you rush to be nice to them, they will look down on you.
So at any time, it is enough to love yourself 100% and love the person you like 70% or 80%. "
Qin Yuzhen was silent for a moment, then whispered, "In fact, he treats me very well. After all, we are childhood sweethearts. He has been coming to the mansion every day to ask me to forgive him. He also said that he would send that woman away and would never make such a mistake again. Sister Yue, do you think I should give him a chance?"
Li Wanyue knew what she was thinking just by looking at her expression.
Some people are like this. They feel conflicted when facing things, and the reason they feel conflicted is because they can't let go.
The reason she asked people around her was to let them say what she wanted to hear, and then she brainwashed herself, look, I'm not the only one who thinks this way, others also suggested that I do this.
Li Wanyue said: "In fact, you also want to give him a chance in your heart, but you just want me to agree with your idea, right?"
Seeing Qin Yuzhen's face frozen, she continued, "Yuzhen, people's hearts are fickle. Don't look at what he said to you, but what he did for you.
The last time we were here, Cheng Zhao came in and started accusing you of being disobedient. I felt something was wrong. He should have been concerned about whether anything happened to you when he came in.
Moreover, he said that if something happened to you, he would not be able to explain to the Qin family, instead of saying how sad and guilty he would be if something happened to you. This also shows that he does not care about you very much, but you just didn't notice it. It may also be that the way you get along with him has always been in this state, so you are accustomed to it.
As for what you said, he often went to your house to beg for forgiveness. Of course he asked for forgiveness. But if the girl he raised was also from a wealthy family, do you think he would still ask for your forgiveness?
During this period, has anyone advised you that it is normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, and that he will have to take concubines in the future. He is just raising one in advance, and you are his only legal wife after all?
You have heard these words many times, and slowly, you yourself feel that this is the truth, and there is nothing wrong with him doing this, but do you really want to see him being intimate with other women?
Do you really want to see him have children with other women and have you raise them, and use your money to pave the way for their children?
By then, you will help them raise their children, manage the house, spend all your dowry, and finally become old and ugly. At that time, what else can you get except being called a good wife and mother, and a good housekeeper?
"But she uses your money to keep herself young forever, and she doesn't have to worry about the affairs of the house. Her husband still uses your hard work to manage the house and can't bear to see you work hard at night, so he stays with other women all day. Are you happy?"
After Li Wanyue finished talking on the phone, Qin Yuzhen was stunned.
Big brother has advised her a lot these days, but he has never said anything like what Sister Yue said.
Thinking about it carefully, over the years, the birthday gifts and New Year gifts I gave to Cheng Zhao were all expensive jades, calligraphy and paintings. I also went directly to my own store to get the pens, ink, paper and inkstone, and never paid for them.
What did he give me? A small item bought from a street stall, or a lucky charm I prayed for, or a bracelet I made myself...
He said that the Qin family was wealthy, and he was afraid that she would look down on the things he bought, so he said that only things he made with his own hands would be sincere.
Yes, his family is not as well off as mine, but it’s not so poor that I can’t even afford a jade hairpin pendant.
Someone in her yard did say those words to her. It seems that the maid was bribed by Cheng.
After she figured it out, the sadness in her heart eased a lot. She couldn't bear the kind of life that Sister Yue described.
And she actually felt that with Cheng Zhao's personality, he could do it.
There is still a way out now, but if I really get married, I can't back out even if I want to.
Qin Yuzhen wiped her tears with a handkerchief and looked at Li Wanyue: "Sister Yue, you are not very old, how come you see things so clearly?"
"Because I have encountered this too." Li Wanyue said, recounting Gao Zhiyuan's story.
Qin Yuzhen gritted her teeth after hearing this. She couldn't say anything too unpleasant and only complained a few words before running out of words.
Li Wanyue agreed: "So, everyone has times when they fail to judge people. Now that you know it, you should stop the loss in time. Time can heal everything."
Qin Yuzhen thought of something and asked embarrassedly: "Sister Yue, did my eldest brother go to your house specially to ask you to persuade me?"
That would be too much trouble for others.
Li Wanyue smiled and shook her head: "No, my family and I came out to see the temple fair. I wanted to come to Zuixianju for lunch. I just ran into your brother. My family was having lunch next door."
Speaking of eating, Qin Yuzhen also felt hungry.
At this time, Qin Yunyi walked in. He heard everything the two had just said.
He really didn't expect Li Wanyue's point of view to be so unique. He didn't expect that his sister seemed to listen to her.
The waiter followed him, put the food on the table, and left.
Qin Yunyi served them two bowls of ginseng and red dates chicken soup: "Let's eat."
Qin Yuzhen said, "Brother, I'm sorry. I made you worry and caused your headache. Are you feeling better?"
"If you're fine, I'll be fine too. Eat quickly and don't worry about anything else. As for Cheng Zhao, I'll take care of it." Qin Yunyi's voice was gentle, without any sign of anger.
Qin Yuzhen drank a bowl of soup and then she felt better in her stomach. She hadn't eaten much for some time.
She looked at Li Wanyue and said, "Sister Yue, I'm sorry, the bottles I ordered from you haven't been delivered yet."
"It's nothing. I have nothing to lose. The soap and shampoo have been sent to your store. I'll make it anytime once the bottles are delivered."
"Thank you, Sister Yue."
Then Qin Yuzhen looked at Qin Yunyi and said, "Brother, I don't want to live in the mansion anymore. I want to live outside for a while and have some peace and quiet."
"Outside? I'm worried about you living anywhere. There are too many people in the farmhouse, and the inn is even more crowded. You can either live in a villa outside the city and have a few guards to protect you. But it's too lonely to live alone."
Qin Yuzhen really didn't know where to live for a moment.
She spent most of her time on Cheng Zhao, and didn't have many close friends with her. Some of them were married, while others were waiting to get married, so it was not easy to disturb them.
Moreover, Cheng Zhao knew all of her good friends, and she was afraid that Cheng Zhao would go to other people's houses and make trouble.
After a moment's silence, Qin Yuzhen suddenly looked at Li Wanyue and her eyes lit up.
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