It doesn’t mean that women can’t be picky when they get married. If they have to be picky when buying vegetables, how much more so when buying the man who will accompany them for the rest of their lives?
The problem is to see your own situation clearly, find someone who is similar or better, and tolerate each other's shortcomings. No one is perfect.
Anyway, no one should blame anyone else. It’s okay as long as the family conditions and personal situations are similar.
But if you want to cross the class barrier, it will be extremely difficult.
Unless you have something exceptionally good, such as outstanding looks, a great brain, or even a top-notch craft, there must always be a shining point.
Unfortunately, Chen Sanni doesn’t have any.
She was admitted as a temporary worker at the time and was very proud and arrogant. In the past three years, she offended all the matchmakers with her words. She felt that no man nearby was worthy of her.
In the end, it was her brother Chen Wei who developed the lighter. Many people saw that it was profitable, and then some men that Chen Sanni liked appeared.
Mother Chen was very disappointed with her third daughter: "There were so many good men offering marriage proposals, but you chose this one. Now look what happened. How can you get a divorce easily?"
Chen Sanni was also indignant: "How could I have known he would be like this now? You can only judge a person by his appearance but not by his heart. If I had known earlier, I would have never married him!"
This is not realistic. In the county town, there are fewer old girls who never get married than those who get divorced!
The whole family began to look worried.
It's easy to say that he wants a divorce, but how could Mingsen let Chen Sanni go?
Although the betrothal gift was borrowed and the two of them paid it back with wedding gifts, he had put in three years of work. If Chen Sanni wanted to divorce, wouldn't she lose both her money and her life?
So this is destined to be a dead end.
Chen Erni sighed: "The only good news now is that my third sister and her husband have no children. How many mothers would be willing to divorce and let their children suffer?"
These words touched Chen Ma's heart.
Originally, this matter had been bothering Mother Chen. Her daughter had been married for three or four years but had not been able to give birth to a child. She could not gain a firm foothold in the Ming family, and people would also say that the Chen family's daughter was difficult to give birth to.
Now it seems that it is indeed a good thing.
Persuading someone to leave after giving birth to a child is as difficult as obtaining Buddhist scriptures from the West. A child is something a mother cannot let go of.
The Chen family was worried about how to divorce, while Mingsen was also worried about the issue of children.
Since he separated from Chen Sanni, he has been much freer. After work, he and a few friends would go to a co-worker's house to eat and drink, and smoke together with a few old smokers.
The worker's home was smoked like a steamer, and his children couldn't stand it and ran outside to do their homework.
The grown men inside were completely unaware and continued to brag, as if they were the only ones sober while everyone else was drunk.
Mingsen, holding a cigarette in his mouth, looked impatient: "If I had a child, would she be so bad-tempered? Sooner or later, I'll make her obedient and give me the position of team leader!"
He imagined Chen Sanni being humble and submissive with the kids, and smiled sinisterly.
Hu Peng, who was lighting his cigarette, took back his lighter and quickly agreed flatteringly:
"Exactly, who is our Brother Ming? He's Chen Wei's brother-in-law. Isn't it just a matter of a word for him to be the team leader?"
The friend sitting opposite was not to be outdone: "In the final analysis, it's all because of the Chen family's soil. Our brother Ming's seeds are so good, but they won't sprout!"
Several people looked at each other and smiled with winks.
Mingsen slammed the table with an angry look on his face, and nodded seriously: "You are right. I haven't treated that woman badly in the past few years, right? It's like rotten land won't sprout. I'm already this age, and I don't even have a child!"
His previous wife had passed away, and he was 21 when he married Chen Sanni. After three or four years of marriage, he was already 25 years old. It is indeed rare for a man to be childless at this age.
Hu Peng also lit a cigarette and said, "Brother Ming, you still have to hurry up. No matter what happens, you and your wife should have a baby first. My son will be old enough to help with cooking."
Gou You rubbed his head and said, "Brother Ming, I am only one year younger than you. Dani is in the third grade and will soon enter junior high school."
This man's family has been a single-son family for three generations. His parents were afraid that there would be no descendants, so they arranged a marriage for him early. He got married at the age of 15 and had a child. His first daughter is 9 years old this year. Not to mention being a bystander, he can almost get married.
Why doesn't Mingsen want to have a child? The problem is that despite working hard every night, Chen Sanni has never been pregnant!
He said gloomily: "This is all because of the chicken that doesn't lay eggs! Wouldn't it have been better if it had given birth to a baby sooner?!"
Once he has a child, Mingsen will have an even greater control over the Chen family. He endured the past two years just to have a child, which is the real killer.
After all, the son-in-law is an outsider, but the grandson is related by blood. I don’t believe that Mr. and Mrs. Chen can refuse their grandson’s crying request.
But for some reason, the two young men and women had a good relationship and were partying every night, but they had no children.
Mingsen thought about his first daughter-in-law. She became pregnant two years after she got married, but unfortunately she died in childbirth and the baby was not saved.
What does this mean? It means he can reproduce!
Mingsen is fertile, so the only one who can't is Chen Sanni!
The Chen family gave him a chicken that couldn't lay eggs, and he treated it like a treasure. What was the result?
The Chen family can neither promote Mingsen's career, nor can Chen Sanni have children. Moreover, she goes back to her parents' home after a few temper tantrums, and her family members even beat him to support Chen Sanni!
Mingsen even regretted marrying Chen Sanni. Chunchun was a complete grudge and there was no benefit at all.
Hu Peng's eyes rolled, and he came over and put his arm around Mingsen's shoulders: "Oh, I think you should divorce that woman. If she can't have children, why keep her around?"
He was quite good at observing people's expressions and could see his impatience from Mingsen's increasingly rude complaints towards Chen Sanni.
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