Another important reason is that women in cadres' families have more time.
Usually, everyone is surrounded by housework and children and has little time for themselves.
A mediator who is too young lacks experience and is not thick-skinned enough, so he cannot complete the mediation task well.
Zhao Tingting is someone she has been observing for a long time.
As a cadre family, we have plenty of time. We only have one child, so my mother-in-law and aunt (Aunt Lan is Fang's mother's distant cousin, and she is all alone so she comes to live with her cousin) are both at home.
She is also quite assertive and won't back down just because someone is being unreasonable.
As for her mother-in-law, she also observed her and finally concluded that she was too soft-hearted and not suitable. It would be bad if she was scared by being yelled at.
Everyone in these streets knows that Director Fang loves his wife the most, and it will be difficult to explain when the time comes.
It was only after Zhao Tingting joined the Women's Federation that she realized that this was her home!
She encounters all kinds of people every day.
From then on, she had many more tricks to deal with her mother-in-law.
It also let her know that even things that seemed insignificant to her could lead to life-and-death fights.
"My wife is so unfilial! She is so unfilial! Not only is she lazy and gluttonous at home every day, she even dares to eat secretly.
Why is she so greedy? Three meals a day isn't enough for her, yet she still steals food.
There are more than a dozen people in my family. If every one of them is like her and steals food, how can I manage this family? " Zhao Tingting watched an old lady slap her thigh in front of her heartbreakingly.
She frowned. Is it really not painful to slap her legs like this?
"Auntie, don't cry first. Tell me what your daughter-in-law stole and eat so I can teach her a lesson." Zhao Tingting interrupted her unreliable thoughts and asked calmly.
"Just this morning, I went to the chicken coop to collect eggs as usual, but after searching the entire coop, I found one was missing.
"I clearly touched the chicken's butt yesterday, so there must be three eggs, but there were only two this morning," the old lady said angrily.
"Did your daughter-in-law steal and eat the hen that laid your eggs?" Zhao Tingting asked.
"How is that possible? If she dares to touch me, I will stew her and feed her to the chickens." The old lady jumped up with anger in her eyes.
It was as if her daughter-in-law had touched her precious chicken.
"Don't get excited, don't get excited, keep talking, I'm just guessing." Zhao Tingting quickly comforted.
"You young people just don't know how to live. How can you say such things? What if you scare my chickens so much that they stop laying eggs?
The family of more than a dozen people depends on them to improve their diet." The old lady rolled her eyes at Zhao Tingting, thankful that her chickens were not around to hear her words.
"So, what did your daughter-in-law steal?" Zhao Tingting asked puzzledly.
"Didn't I tell you? I felt there were clearly three eggs last night, but there were only two in the morning. She must have eaten one of them." The old lady said excitedly.
"I stole an egg. Do you have any more?" Zhao Tingting asked.
"That's a whole egg, why, isn't it enough?
"If everyone was as greedy as her and stole eggs, wouldn't my family be in chaos?" the old lady said excitedly.
"Well, how do you confirm that it was your daughter-in-law who stole the eggs?" Zhao Tingting was a little speechless. Although she didn't think it was necessary, it was obviously inappropriate to say this now.
"She was the first one to get up in the morning. Who else could it be but her? And she didn't say anything when I asked her. She must be feeling guilty," said the old lady.
"No, no, didn't you just say that your daughter-in-law is lazy and gluttonous? Why did she get up so early?" Zhao Tingting asked.
"She is lazy and likes to eat. Every day she just washes clothes for the whole family, does housework and cooks. She doesn't do anything else." said the old lady.
"She is a country girl, it's a blessing for her to marry into our family. We have four workers!" said the old lady proudly.
"My husband and his three sons are all workers, and the other two daughters-in-law are also city dwellers.
If she hadn't been lucky enough to marry into our family, how could she have become a city dweller? She might have been struggling to make a living in some village.
Isn't it more comfortable to just let her wash clothes for the whole family and do some housework than doing farm work?"
Zhao Tingting: ???
I have a bad temper.
The director hurriedly grabbed Zhao Tingting, fearing that she would hit someone in a fit of excitement.
"Let's go to your house and take a look. Your daughter-in-law should be at home too. We want to find her and find out more about the situation." The director said to the old lady.
"What can I say about her temper that's been so quiet for so long? She's already admitted that she stole the eggs.
"You guys go and teach her a lesson. Do you want to parade her through the streets or something? We will fully cooperate." The old lady said viciously.
The way Zhao Tingting looked at her, she didn't treat her daughter-in-law at all, but was clearly treating her enemy.
"It's not that serious. It's just an egg. If it was your daughter-in-law who stole it, we would definitely criticize her severely." The director said quickly.
"Just a criticism, no other punishment?" The old lady seemed disappointed.
"Sister, please take us to your home first." said the director
"Okay, I'll take you there, and you must criticize this shameless guy harshly.
If someone dares to steal things at home today, he might steal from someone else's house tomorrow.
This is a cancer of society and must not be tolerated. If necessary, I am not against sacrificing my own family for the sake of justice.
Besides, our family can’t afford to lose this person.” The old lady said as she led the two of them home.
My aunt's house is a small courtyard with four main rooms and a kitchen.
The originally spacious yard now has two simple houses.
So as soon as you enter the door, there is only an open space in front of the kitchen door on the right, and the left side has become two rooms.
"Grandma, what's delicious?"
"Grandma, grandma, my brother stole my candy again."
"Grandma, grandma, my brother pushed me and made me fall."
As soon as she entered the door, five half-grown children ran out and chattered non-stop in front of the old lady.
"Oh, grandma's dear grandchildren, you want some candy, right? Wait a minute, we have everything. Grandma will go to the cabinet to get it for you." The old lady smiled happily as she touched her older grandchildren.
He seemed like a completely different person compared to the mean look he had just had.
Soon, her voice was heard in the house: "Oh, who the hell stole my cakes? I clearly still have half a pack of cakes in the cupboard.
Wu Xiaomei, was it you, a starving ghost, who stole it again?"
"Grandma, I saw my big brother, eat cakes." A baby voice whispered.
"Who told you to talk so much?" The tallest child among them pushed the child who had just said "big brother, eat cakes" to the ground.
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