"If you endure it, your mother won't beat you?" the children asked curiously.
"How is that possible?" Goudan said loudly. "She still beat me, and she even said I didn't say anything because I wasn't convinced.
I don't know what it means to be unconvinced, but thinking back to the last time I cried and attracted the mixed doubles, I just had to grit my teeth and bear it.
It really worked, at least there were no mixed doubles, Goudan thought.
While the kids were chatting happily here, the atmosphere among the five people in the room was not so relaxed.
As for parents coming to her house, Song Jinxiu had never thought about this situation. She had only imagined home visits, but home visits were not popular here.
"You said that I instigated the children to go to your house to take things, so what did you give them? Did you ask them what they ate yesterday?" Song Jinxiu asked after taking a sip of water.
Although I can understand the parents' approach intellectually, it does not mean I can accept it emotionally.
So Song Jinxiu automatically ignored the five people standing there and spoke to herself.
"You're just fooling the children. You only gave each person a sweet potato the size of a fist. It wouldn't even be enough for the smallest child.
Yesterday, because I promised to take them on a spring outing, of course I couldn't just eat the little food they brought with them, so I prepared five pounds of sweet potatoes myself.
We also prepared an egg for each person. So, shouldn't these things be shared equally?" Song Jinxiu said calmly.
She actually rarely gets angry because she thinks it is not worth getting angry over unimportant people.
It's very confusing. He is just a stranger or a passerby. How can he interfere with my emotions?
The four of them looked at each other. They had indeed not asked the children what they had eaten yesterday, and they were just angry that the children gave food from home to others.
Although we talked about spring outing, who knows what a spring outing is!
Thinking about the situation of hunger in the past, and imagining that my son (grandson) would secretly take the food from my home and give it to outsiders in the future, wouldn’t that be costing me my life?
So the five people came angrily as representatives.
"And Grandma Erhu, you said I instigated Erhu to kill your chickens.
"Why should I do this? Can I eat a piece of meat or drink a mouthful of soup?" Song Jinxiu continued to ask.
"Have you ever asked Erhu why he did this? He told me at first that he saw you guys were too tired recently and looked exhausted when you came home, so he wanted to cheer you up.
But he is small and lacks ability. What I mean is that if he has this heart, you will be happy.
Of course, your family is also a loving mother and filial son. He may have remembered that he was very happy when you saved delicious food for him in the past, so he wanted to use the same method to make you happy.
It's just that his method was wrong, and he focused his attention on the chicken, but his original intention was good, wasn't it? "
Erhu’s grandmother wiped away her tears. It turned out that their Erhu was so sensible. She really had wronged him.
"And there's Grandma Goudan too. Goudan is also like that. He feels that you guys are working too hard and wants to share some of the burden with you.
What he did was all he could think of and do. But who is born with the ability to do things, right? After all, he was such a small child.
Grandma Goudan lowered her head in shame.
"And Dazhuang Niang, it's very good that you don't favor boys over girls, but it's equally unacceptable to favor girls over boys.
Dazhuang is already very sensible. He helps take care of his sister and studies very hard. You should praise him more so that he can have more confidence.
Da Zhuang's mother nodded embarrassedly.
In her opinion, boys are tough and can be beaten and scolded at will, while girls are more delicate. Moreover, she had lived a very hard life in the past, so she unconsciously wanted to be nicer to her daughter.
"And Little Fatty's mom, you see Little Fatty still hasn't admitted his mistakes. In your eyes, he's just quibbling and unrepentant.
But what about him? He worked so hard to help you water the plants and weed, but in the end all he got in return was your beatings and scoldings?
Do you know that the harm from a stranger is only physical? As his mother, every word you say may hurt you deeply.
Do you know why he wants to help you? Because he wants your approval and praise.
However, your actions have made him fall into self-doubt. Song Jinxiu looked at the fat girl
The fat girl wiped her tears. In the past two days, she had indeed beaten and scolded him several times for this matter. Now that she thinks about it, she really shouldn't have done that!
"Teachers can only teach them knowledge. As parents, you are the ones who spend the most time with them. Children will subconsciously learn and imitate many behaviors.
"In fact, the students in the class are really well-behaved and sensible. They study very hard. If possible, you should praise them more at home and give them more encouragement!" Song Jinxiu said to the five of them.
"That's true! Our Erni always sings to me when she comes home, and she also says she can write her own name!" said another parent, Erni's mother.
"Our Goudan can also write his name, and he can even do addition, which is amazing!
"His grandfather asked him what three plus four equals, and he answered it right away without even counting, and he got it right. Isn't that amazing?" Goudan's grandmother said happily.
Then the five of them started to praise each other in business.
Finally, I remembered, oh. This is in the office.
"Teacher Song, we are so sorry. We wronged you. We also shouldn't have disturbed your class." Da Zhuang's mother apologized first.
"Yes, yes, it's all my fault for being too impulsive. I can't sit still when I hear about the food issue. You won't feel good unless you understand my feelings." Grandma Erhu said, pounding her chest.
"Yes, yes. I never want to go through those days of eating grass roots again." Grandma Goudan also said.
"Anyway, we were reckless this time. Don't worry, next time, even if you let Xiaopang catch the chicken, I will..."
"Forget the chicken, let's go for eggs. Even if you ask Xiaopang to get eggs from home, I won't say a word." Xiaopang's mother also said.
"No, no, no! You'd better ask clearly." Song Jinxiu said quickly.
"I'm not being polite. I won't let my children take any food from home.
If your child really takes something from home, you should ask clearly.
Also, it's best not to come to school with a big fanfare. It's too bad for the children. You can always come to my house. I can explain anything you have to me."
"Yes, yes, yes. Teacher Song is very generous. It's us who are short-sighted. If you have any questions next time, please ask privately. It won't interfere with your class."
"Yes, yes, Teacher Song is such a good teacher. He always considers the students first."
"Yes, yes, yes. Teacher Song teaches his students well. He is indeed a cultured person."
“Yes, yes, yes…”
"Well, the students are still waiting for me, so I won't keep you here any longer!" Song Jinxiu interrupted their mindless boasting.
Although I like to hear it, I feel embarrassed.
Just praise them more behind their backs, forget about it in front of them.
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