Chapter 119
[On how much harm the original family can cause to children (dog head)]
[1st floor] (Original poster): This is a controversial topic, but no swearing is allowed. Please use friendly language. I will delete any unfriendly comments.
[2nd floor] (Original poster): I am a graduate of psychology, with a national second-level certificate. I mainly analyze the psychology and growth of the important characters that have appeared so far (ahem) (Le Le is so typical that I think it is worth mentioning)
[3rd floor]: Capture the boss
[4th floor]: I feel that living a happy life is so tiring. People don’t live for others.
[5th floor] (Original poster): Let me make a conclusion first. Le Liangan has a typical people-pleasing personality. Although it has not reached the level of personality disorder, it is already a very unhealthy behavior pattern.
[6th floor] (Original poster): Let me first talk about the main manifestations of the people-pleasing personality, and you will find that Leliangan accurately meets each of them.
[7th floor] (Original poster): First, they are afraid to speak out their inner thoughts, and feel that once they reveal their inner thoughts, they will be isolated or even attacked by others; second, they like to apologize proactively, because they are extremely afraid of conflicts with others, and would rather compromise and escape disputes; third, they will cater to others, put themselves in a very low profile in daily interactions, and have no self-confidence; fourth, they do not know how to say no, and will be very concerned about the evaluation of others, and worry that they will be disliked if they say no; fifth, they have no principles and bottom line, and will retreat indefinitely in interpersonal interactions to ensure harmonious relationships with others.
[8th floor]: Although I know there is such a thing as a people-pleasing personality, I don’t know what specific traits it has. Le Liangan really has...all of them.
[9th floor]: Oh, poor baby
[10th floor]: I have met such people. In fact, doing this will make me feel out of place. People don’t like to associate with such people.
[11th floor]: This just goes to show that Lingyan’s class is full of good kids. Everyone is really taking care of Lele in their own way.
[12th floor] (Original poster): Let’s talk about the reasons for this. You will find that Lele’s family and life experience are once again in line with each other, and it is particularly profound.
[13th Floor]: If Lele saw this, he would be sweating profusely.
[14th floor] (Original poster): To look at the causes, we need to consider family, education, society and other factors. The most important one is the family factor. Generally speaking, for children with such a people-pleasing personality, their parents are strict or even harsh with them, and their education method implies that: you are only qualified to be treated well if you are obedient; or: you are only qualified to survive if you are successful.
[15th floor]: Oh my god, they are exactly the same. Lele is the former, right?
[16th floor] (Original poster): According to Le Liangan’s recollection, his parents were not harsh people, and their expectations for him were not to the point of wanting him to be successful. Next, we will continue to analyze from the social perspective.
[17th floor]: ... Chili is very handsome, and Director Xiong Conghai is also a good person, but I hate the Institute of Superpowers more and more...
[18th floor]: This country is prosperous on the surface, but in fact the upper layers are already rotten at the root.
[19th floor] (Original poster): Lele's ability is [Death]. I won't say much about this. In short, it is a very scary ability that will be treated with extreme caution. From the moment it was detected, the government's ability office intervened and required planning for Lele's life and growth.
[20th floor]: Writing planning, reading control (rolling eyes)
[21st floor] (Original poster): Now let's look at what Lele's parents are like. One is a fisherman and the other runs a supermarket. This shows that Lele's parents are ordinary people who have no capital to compete with the government. Although Lele is their child, they do not have enough ability to protect him. In fact, they are a little afraid of Lele's special ability.
[22nd floor]: A man is innocent but guilty of possessing a treasure...
[23rd floor] (Original poster): Whether out of caution, protection, or love, Lele's parents began educating him since he was young, asking him to accept the control of his superpowers, to show his harmless side, and not to let people around him be afraid of him, so that he would not be hurt.
[24th floor] (Original poster): Family and society, the most important sources of education for children, have become so oppressive. How can Lele suddenly become cheerful? He is overly sensitive and fragile, with blurred self-boundaries. He can only see the joys and sorrows of others, and is afraid that he will bring disaster to himself and his parents if he is not careful.
[25th floor]: I’m so angry, but this world is imperfect. Even if you have done nothing wrong, there will be people who hate you or even hurt you. Self-worth does not need to be affirmed by others. Baby, you have to wake up...
[26th floor]: It’s difficult. Lele’s only support, his parents, chose the humiliating ‘surrender’. How can he stand up?
[27th floor]: I find it even more terrifying after the original poster’s analysis. In fact, it is the society that domesticates the parents, and the parents then domesticate the children. This is beyond doubt. This is really the fault of the original family.
[28th floor] (Original poster): If Lele still can't realize that if he continues like this, something bad will happen one day in the future.
[29th floor]: I smell the scent of a knife, and I feel uncomfortable
[30th floor]: Can you please do the analysis of a few more people? It’s so cool to read (no malice), I also want to read the 40-year-old mom’s
[31st floor]: 40 is no problem, right?
[32nd floor]: Who says that we can only analyze when there is a problem? Besides, the biggest problem is that there is no problem
[33F]: I feel like my mom has a big knife hidden behind her (I’ve gained experience from years of being stabbed)
[34th floor] (Original poster): You know what, you really don’t know, Xi Siling really has some points worth analyzing. If you are interested, I will open a separate post later.
......
When Xi Siling saw this post, I don’t know how many times I sighed.
Most of his "research" on human psychology is based on experience and intuition. The author of this post is obviously a professional, and his analysis is more profound and more reasonable than his.
If Le Liangan does not realize the problems in his own character and the cruelty of this world, even with his help, disaster will once again befall him and his family.
But why did the fire burn him? What was there for him to analyze?
Although he was used to analyzing others, Xi Siling still felt sweaty when he was analyzed himself.
[A suffocating world hidden under joy and passion]
[1st floor] (Original poster): Because our perspective is to follow Liu Huaqi and the current protagonists, most of the stories are relaxed and happy, with no danger in the daily upgrade process, but Mr. Nanbei has never concealed the reality and cruelty of this world.
[2nd floor]: The classic hot-blooded comic has a black mud world
[3rd floor]: Otherwise, how can the protagonists show their sincere purity and precious rebellious spirit?
[4th floor]: Individuals always seem insignificant in front of society, and in this situation, the blossoming of human nature is the most beautiful.
[5th floor] (Original poster): That's right. First of all, it's the background of the times. It's bad enough that everyone will become a zombie after death. Human beings are in danger of survival all the time. The existence of superpowers is necessary.
[6th floor]: So-called natural disasters and man-made disasters, this is a natural disaster
[7th floor] (Original poster): Yes, and then there are man-made disasters. From ancient times to the present, from the real world to the virtual world, human beings have never been monolithic. Greed and interests always give them reasons to "rebel". For example, the Ability Institute was invaded by Oue, which led to a lot of "turmoil" in the whole society.
[8th floor]: This is a major event that cannot be influenced by individual power. The protagonists are still far away.
[9th floor]: Laying the groundwork
[10th floor]: In a previous post, someone speculated whether Lele would get into trouble because of this. I was so worried.
[11th Floor]: Oue always does bad things, it’s hateful.
......
Will justice triumph over evil?
Hard to say.
Only fairy tales have perfect endings. In the real world, bad people don't necessarily pay with their lives, and good people don't necessarily live long.
It would be fine if we could distinguish between good and bad things, but more often than not it’s just a matter of different standpoints.
Xi Siling couldn't help but think of their original future together as a trio.
Forget it, I don’t want to think about it anymore. There’s no point in thinking so much.
Three months have passed since the invasion, and after countless meetings of all sizes, the government finally responded positively to the incident.
The first is the suspension of the enforcement of the registration regulations. From now on, people with special abilities will no longer need to undergo compulsory testing and registration, which also means that the government has made a huge compromise.
Although in the eyes of the angry psychics, this is what should be done and should have been done long ago.
The second thing is to compensate the mutants who were harmed by this. Of course, how to prove that they were harmed by this is something that is worth arguing about for a long time. 'At least' the government has made a statement, right?
Xi Siling laughed out loud. He was very familiar with the twists and turns in the government.
Finally, it was about the investigation of the strange underground cave. It had been designated as a restricted area by secret texts, and Teacher Si Sisina told them not to get close to it under any circumstances.
No one is a rebellious child, and they can patrol one less area. Except for Xi Siling who has a bird's eye view and Liu Huaqi who is particularly confident in himself, no one knows what is happening over there.
That was three months ago. Liu Hua Qi might have left something there, so he knew when Teacher Mi Wen took action. He was not needed to keep watch at night, nor was he needed to go out for patrol the next day. It was a day off, so Liu Hua Qi sneaked out.
He wouldn't feel at ease if he didn't know what the monster was that dragged Si Ling away.
It was only when Xi Siling saw Liuhuaqi from a God's perspective that she realized that the child had secretly run away.
The system also marveled at Liuhuaqi's extraordinary execution ability.
"It doesn't matter. He's the protagonist. The worst that can happen is that he'll be discovered by the teachers."
Indeed, what the system said was right, so Xi Siling had no intention of following.
Those who came here to investigate the situation were all old acquaintances, including Teacher Si Sisina who was worried about his own students, Teacher Xishan who was worried about his former students, and Teacher Lelis who was worried about his own students and daughter.
It can be regarded as the gathering of all the wise men.
Leilis's superpower is naturally [Angel], but the area he is actually better at is superpower technology.
"Okay, the drone's in."
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