A family with such high levels of education as Yan Hongzhe's would certainly not be poor. A painting or a piece of porcelain in their home might be very valuable, but they lived frugally. As for the bride price, they left it to their child and were unwilling to interfere much.
Seeing that they were kind, Uncle Shu didn't want any bride price, and the two families settled the matter without much discussion.
"The most important thing is that the child is happy," said Uncle Shu.
Yan Hongzhe and Shu Lan originally planned to hold a wedding banquet after the New Year, but Shu Lan found out she was pregnant before the New Year. Yan Hongzhe's parents were overjoyed and felt that if they delayed any longer, Shu Lan's belly would get too big, so it would be better to hold the banquet sooner.
These days, it's a bit embarrassing to find out you're pregnant before you're married. Shulan was also a little ashamed. Fortunately, although Yan Hongzhe's family is a scholarly family, they all have overseas experience, so they didn't care about such trivial matters. They all congratulated Shulan and hoped she would take care of herself and give birth to the baby safely.
Yan Hongzhe is an only child, as are his parents. Shulan's child is highly anticipated.
Shulan was under pressure, but hearing what they said finally put her mind at ease.
Before getting married, Shulan was a little nervous and often dragged Chuyu shopping. She was also a little anxious, fearing that their relationship might change after marriage.
Chu Yu kept comforting her, "I've heard that many people get anxious before getting married. It's called pre-wedding jitters. You probably have it too."
Shulan was taken aback. "Huh? This disease really exists?"
"It's not an illness, just pre-wedding anxiety. The thought of how busy the wedding will be, how many details there will be to handle, how to integrate into someone else's family after marriage, and having a child will put a lot of pressure on you, so that's why you're like this. You need to learn to adjust yourself, let Yan Hongzhe spend more time with you, and slowly get through it," Chu Yu said.
Shulan nodded, "Indeed, my anxiety isn't good for the child either."
"That's right. I've heard that when mothers are anxious, their children are also prone to anxiety. For the sake of your child, just eat and drink well and live a good life!"
Shulan nodded. She was already lucky enough to meet Yan Hongzhe. If it weren't for Chu Yu, she wouldn't have been able to find such an excellent boyfriend. To be honest, Shulan felt that she was amazing. Her boyfriend had studied abroad, his family was highly educated, and his parents and grandparents were very reasonable.
After the child is born, five or six family members can take care of the child. In addition, Yan Hongzhe's parents are only children, and they value offspring very much. Otherwise, they would not have urged Yan Hongzhe to get married and have children.
Shulan thought about it and realized that she really had nothing to be anxious about.
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