Song Yuwei nodded, "You're right. Everything in this world requires a price to be paid. Just like if you want to harvest 100 kilograms of rice, you have to work hard. If you do nothing and just lie there in a daze, your rice will never grow."
What we need to do is not to blame others, nor to feel inferior, and to lose faith in ourselves.
What we need to do is work hard based on believing in ourselves. Only through this method can we obtain what we truly want or the results we desire.
Honestly, everything we have now comes from our own abilities. If there had been even the slightest mishap, it would have been very difficult for us to obtain everything we need. We always tend to thank others or our own luck.
But we never considered that if we simply had people to help us, or if we were simply lucky, we wouldn't have been able to obtain such things. Even if we did, we could easily lose them because we lack the ability to control them; whatever we gain is only temporary.
Only when you truly have the ability can you master those things that seem unattainable. And the ultimate purpose of obtaining them isn't for enjoyment, but for the experience—an experience that brings us all sorts of strange and wonderful feelings. In the end, life is just a game.
There's no need to worry too much. It's like a movie; once it starts, just let it go. Don't stop, and don't linger in one place. Just keep moving forward and see what happens next.
Only in this situation can we get many things we want and understand that the reason we are angry is because we want to see them. If we don't want to see them, we won't be able to see the bright sunshine or the beauty of the world.
We get angry because of our stubbornness, but this stubbornness shouldn't be about clinging to a particular outcome, because there are no real outcomes in this world. What we should do is experience the process. Just like when you do something, you can't say that you're doing it entirely because you want some kind of material reward.
If your only goal is to acquire money, then your purpose is not pure enough. First, you need to understand who you are and what kind of thing you want to do. As for how to do it and through what means, that's up to your brain. But don't get stuck in a fantasy. Just like a dish, you can't just cook one dish.
For example, this dish is called scrambled eggs with onions. You can't just think of scrambled eggs with onions without considering that you can also make scrambled eggs with cucumbers or scrambled eggs with tomatoes. There are many kinds of vegetables in the world that can be used to make scrambled eggs. It's not just about using onions. You can also use other vegetables to make scrambled eggs.
Perhaps stir-frying it would taste even better, with a richer variety of flavors. So never be fixated on one thing. When you're fixated on one environment, you're very likely to lose. Those who lose won't have everything they want. We always do things we want to do, but after doing them, we find the result isn't what we wanted.
In this situation, it's easy to give up and feel that even though we've put in the effort, why is the result so disappointing when it comes to reaping the rewards? Actually, there are many factors that contribute to achieving a result. First, there's your luck, and second, there's whether you've truly given it your all.
Luck is only part of the equation. If you put in 100% effort, you may achieve something you can't even imagine. Many people don't have the patience to do things to the extreme.
Or they might think that they've done enough, but such people often fail to achieve the results they truly desire. It's important to understand that the outcome of something is closely related to the effort you put into it. If your efforts are insufficient to support the necessary conditions for obtaining that result...
So how could you possibly get the result you want? Therefore, from any perspective, your current situation is entirely due to your misperception of yourself and your misunderstanding of the outside world. You shouldn't think of people as so bad, nor should you think of yourself as so innocent and pitiful.
In this world, there is never anyone who is truly completely pitiful or truly completely evil. The good people you see are not necessarily truly good, and the most crucial point you must understand is that if someone seems good, then they may also seem bad, because it's proportional, like a coin, as I've told you before.
It can't be just one side; if it has a white side, it also has a black side. This is absolutely true, and you should believe that. Even the result you've obtained so far is entirely due to your own initial misconceptions.
You blame my parents, and I don't think you're a stupid person. It's just that your cognitive bias has caused you harm and impact. I can't guarantee that my parents didn't do anything to you or cause you any harm, because I've never believed that there are absolutely good or absolutely bad people in this world.
Most people believe that a person is either absolutely good or absolutely evil. But in reality, for many people, they are gray, not black or white. Just like many things, you can see different answers depending on your perspective.
From one perspective, it might seem terrible, but from another, it might not seem so. So how can you prove that one thing is definitely bad and another thing is definitely good?
This is also closely related to why we humans regret our actions. Because after we do something, we often feel that if we had chosen a different path, we might have gained much more than we have now.
But in reality, it's just a fantasy in our minds, without any basis. This is because what we're doing now brings us a lot of fatigue, and human nature is lazy.
Overthinking will only cause you distress and worry.
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