In mid-November, after Chen Tan left.
Grandpa came alone from the building's top villa to the Bund community to find him.
My grandfather, who is over 80 years old, has experienced everything, from the first Japanese invasion of the village to the civil war that lasted for several years.
That era can be said to be full of war.
Not to mention having enough to eat and enough to eat, even being able to live in peace is a luxury.
In 1949, the People's Republic of China was founded.
The war was finally over, and everyone looked to the East to thank the great man.
The days that followed passed through one era after another.
"Grandpa, you're not here to talk about history, are you?"
"Of course not, I just want you to understand something."
Grandpa's eyes were filled with vicissitudes of life, and his tone was calm. "Everyone in your father's generation was proud to marry a poor peasant. In the 1970s, it was different. People liked to marry for a diploma the most. In the 1980s, people married for a visa. Countless people dreamed of going abroad. And in the 1990s, anyone with good conditions wanted to marry a rich man.
"When your grandmother got married, they believed that there was strength in numbers, so every family tried their best to have children. But when it came to your cousin Chen Tan's generation, the family planning policy was the strictest.
"The number of children in a family has been reduced from five or six to just one or two. With fewer children, you can naturally enjoy more love from your parents."
Chen Pingsheng understood that his grandfather was here to persuade him.
I'm not trying to persuade him because of Chen Tan's matter, but just want him to stand in the perspective of his relatives and understand those people.
Just like my second aunt and second uncle, they are all uneducated people.
No matter what Chen Tan is like, they don’t have the ability to teach him well.
After Chen Tan and his friends arrived in the Magic City, Chen Pingsheng provided them with material enjoyment that was far from commensurate with their abilities.
I used to ride a bicycle, but when I arrived in Shanghai, I suddenly started riding a Rolls-Royce.
There will inevitably be a period of time when it is difficult to change your mindset.
The younger generation does not have much social experience, let alone the ability to manage money.
This is like a three-year-old child who suddenly holds a hundred thousand in cash. The first thing he would think of is not to hide it at home, but to show it off to his friends.
To put it bluntly, he still lacks a certain amount of patience when dealing with these relatives.
Grandpa knows that he has a lot to do, so he won't blame him.
But he himself has to understand this.
We cannot allow them to become rich suddenly while at the same time imposing strict requirements on them and not allowing them to make mistakes.
Think about when he was a child, Chen Pingsheng was naughty and got into trouble all the time.
Third uncle, second uncle, and aunt all helped him without asking why.
And now, until he has the ability.
But he lost his patience when it came to relatives. He should have given these people more time or given them more help.
This help is not just about money, it should also be about patience.
The younger generation of Chen, Song, Peng and Liu have basically all arrived in Shanghai. Due to the large number of people, Chen Pingsheng adopted an almost ruthless attitude and used an elimination system.
This is not a right choice for my grandfather, as the older generation still has a strong sense of family ties.
In addition to helping each other, relatives should also stop others from going astray in time.
Chen Pingsheng sent his grandfather back alone. After he arrived at the Louwang Villa, he didn't go anywhere.
Instead, he looked at the people inside, who were busy with their own things in a somewhat boring manner.
The year he was born coincided with the implementation of family planning, but it was not very strict at that time.
In the countryside, you can give birth secretly, but when it comes to my younger sister Chen Qi, the situation is very strict.
From the youngest sister Chen Qi onwards, there was basically only one or at most two children in each family.
For example, Uncle San only has one Chen Fan.
In addition to Chen Tan, my second uncle also has an older sister, Chen Sai, who has a child who is just over three years old.
This child is obviously a relative of Erpi Ya, but he doesn't dare to play with her. Every time he comes in front of Erpi Ya, he asks her mother this and that.
For example, Mom, can I play with Erya?
Mom, Erya doesn’t like to play with me again. Am I stupid?
Not only Chen Tan's sister Chen Sai is like this, but her children are the same.
There is also Peng Yu, who is engaged in sexy lingerie. He is obviously a very lively and cheerful person, but no one dares to speak in front of him.
Yang Kang, the son of my aunt, and his cousins are actually a little afraid of him now.
Unconsciously, more and more people were living in this big villa, but it was not as lively as it was in the countryside.
All of this, in the final analysis, is because of himself.
Perhaps, as Grandpa said, it was his patience that led to everything.
Although Shanghai is a prosperous and realistic city, there must always be warmth between these relatives.
And he himself should also adjust the way he does things.
After Chen Pingsheng returned home, he did not find Song Yanxi.
I called her and found out that she went to Shuiyunjian headquarters.
Chen Pingsheng drove to find his wife. Whenever there was something, he was used to discussing it with his wife before making a decision.
Shuiyunjian is entirely populated by women, all of them are rural girls.
But these girls are in pretty good conditions now.
At least it's much better than their relatives who just came to Shanghai.
Song Yanxi's office is quite unique. Outside the floor-to-ceiling windows is the Huangpu River. Sitting here with a cup of tea and talking about work, it would be a lie to say that life is not pleasant.
"Husband, is this what you came here for?"
"That's about right. Grandpa came to see me alone this morning, and I went to the Louwang Villa. Although the living environment inside is luxurious, it really lacks the rural warmth that should exist between relatives."
Song Yanxi blinked her beautiful eyes. "Hubby, you've been using the same management methods as you do for your business to control these relatives of our generation. If their parents find out, they'll definitely be nervous and afraid that you'll send them back to their rural hometown if they make a mistake. Naturally, there won't be any warmth in such a situation."
Chen Pingsheng understood. It turned out that his wife had discovered this problem a long time ago, but had never said anything.
The key point is that Song Yanxi doesn’t think there is anything wrong with this.
Isn’t this what society is like?
It's already very good that their family has achieved this.
It's normal for some people to have trouble adapting to leaving.
Chen Pingsheng said: "It is not appropriate to treat family ties in the same way as you treat a business, and it is also easy to make some elders sad.
"I think you shouldn't introduce them to any wealthy partners in the future. Let them find them on their own. Even if you introduce someone to someone, if they can't understand and don't dare to refuse, it's not a good thing.
"Also, you can't just apply for the startup fund casually. There are certain requirements, like having worked in Shanghai for a year or two and doing well."
The reason for the restriction is mainly because some people don’t have enough experience to even handle two million.
We must first let them truly understand Shanghai and integrate into Shanghai, and then give them money when they really have entrepreneurial ideas.
This is obviously more reasonable.
(End of this chapter)
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