Chapter 188 Parents are your eternal support and confidence
After saying this, Ma Zhiqiang and his mother left.
Shen Zhiyou and the others could still hear Ma Zhiqiang screaming and yelling and his mother scolding him at school.
Shen Zhiyou frowned when she heard this.
Teacher Wang sighed, "Mr. Gu Lin, the matter is resolved now."
"Um."
Shen Zhiyou knew that the teacher was also in a difficult situation, so she pursed her lips and said, "I am sorry to bother you today. As parents, we all value our children. Seeing that your child was bullied at school and became more and more depressed after returning home, I can't help but feel anxious. I am really sorry to have delayed you for so long."
"It's okay, it's normal. I understand."
Compared with Ma Zhiqiang's parents, Gu Lin's parents are much more reasonable and easy to talk to.
Shen Zhiyou smiled and said, "Except for sleeping time, the children spend most of their time in school with their teachers and classmates.
Sometimes, children are closer to and trust teachers and classmates more than their own family members. Gu Lin and Gu Mu have told us many times after returning that the teachers here are better than their previous teachers.
It's just that I'm sure I'll feel a little uncomfortable at first, so I'd like to ask you to pay more attention to me in the future, thank you."
"It should be."
Shen Zhiyou spoke nicely and sincerely. Originally, Teacher Wang thought that Gu Lin and his parents were making a fuss and causing trouble.
Now after listening to what Shen Zhiyou said, I feel that everyone is normal and I feel a little happy.
Gu Lin and Gu Mu were not as lively as other children. They didn’t expect that they would praise themselves when they returned, and the corners of their mouths curled up.
"It's as it should be. Don't worry."
"Thank you, teacher. It's getting late. We won't bother you anymore. We'll leave first."
As soon as they walked out of the school, Tuantuan and Yuanyuan, who had been tense just now, jumped up immediately.
He rushed out excitedly for a long distance, and then ran back with his schoolbag clattering on his back, "Mom, why did you suddenly come to pick us up today?"
"Didn't mom just tell me that grandma told mom that you guys haven't been happy lately? I was wondering if you guys had any unhappy experiences at school, so mom came to see you today."
Tuan Tuan pursed his lips, "We're fine."
Shen Zhiyou bent down and touched Tuantuan's head. "Of course mom knows you can handle it by yourselves. You are great, but you are the treasures of mom, dad and grandma. When we saw that you were in a bad mood, we were also worried, so we came to check on you."
Compared to Yuanyuan, who was extremely happy today because of her mother's support, Tuantuan felt more guilty.
He is the eldest brother, and now they are all in primary school and adults.
As a result, his mother had to come to school to help them quarrel. Gu Lin felt deeply powerless!
Shen Zhiyou saw what the boy was thinking and couldn't help but smiled. "You are a big brother in front of Yuanyuan, Nian Nian and Manman, but in front of mom, you will always be mom's baby. So if you encounter something unhappy or something you can't solve yourself outside, you must tell mom and dad, otherwise, mom and dad will worry."
Yuanyuan also came over, "Yes, Tuantuan, I told you I would tell mom a long time ago."
Tuan Tuan glanced at Yuan Yuan unhappily, "It's useless!"
Yuanyuan: “….”
After returning, Shen Zhiyou immediately told Gu Ye about this matter.
The two little guys didn't expect that their mother would tell their father when she came back, and their faces turned red all of a sudden!
Still very nervous.
Dad always told them that a real man should win in a fight if he can't win in an argument, and win with his brain if he can't win in a fight.
As a result... they never beat up their classmates outside, and they secretly felt aggrieved until their mother found out.
Both little guys were prepared to be scolded by their dad.
Who would have thought that after listening to what mom said, dad didn't scold them, but squatted down and checked them: "You are not injured, right?"
Tuantuan shook his head: "No, he didn't touch me, I dodged it."
Gu Ye nodded with satisfaction: "Not bad, you have a quick reaction ability. Now you have adapted to the school. You will resume training on weekends. If you encounter such a thing again, you should reason with them. If you can't win the argument, just do it. But you must protect yourself. Remember what I told you before, you can only hit the unimportant parts of the opponent. You should know the severity of the situation."
Tuan Tuan Yuan Yuan nodded vigorously, "I know! When attacking, avoid the opponent's head, neck and abdomen!"
"That's right."
Shen Zhiyou: “........Gu Ye!”
This person!
The child is so young, and all he needs to do is do it!
Seeing his wife getting angry, Gu Ye quickly tried to make excuses for himself: "Don't worry, these two guys are just too polite and lack a bit of courage. Even if I say this to them, they will still reason with each other when the time comes."
Tuantuan and Yuanyuan: “….” As soon as they met their mother, their father sold them.
Shen Zhiyou glared at him and said, "That's not the way to say it. Fighting is not good. We must not start a fight first, okay? Otherwise, we will be at a disadvantage in front of the teacher and the police. We should wait for the other party to start a fight before we run away. If we can't run away, we can fight again! When we are in front of the teacher, we must say that the other party started it first!"
Chen Cuijuan looked at her daughter and son-in-law unhappily: "......." Neither the father nor the mother is reliable!
Tuantuan and Yuanyuan were amused by their parents.
The two were so happy.
Even though today is embarrassing.
But mom went to support them, and dad didn't blame them when he found out. Instead, he cared about them and told them what to do.
The two little ones had their first vague feeling about the sentence "Parents will always be their most solid support and confidence."
Until bedtime, the two little guys still had happy smiles on their faces.
In addition to telling them not to hold it in when they are outside, Shen Zhiyou also remembers other classmates laughing at their accents.
After the children fell asleep, I made an agreement with Gu Ye that we would speak Mandarin at home in the future so that the children would have an environment where they could speak Mandarin.
When I have free time, I let Tuantuan and Yuanyuan read articles with me and practice Mandarin.
When classmates laughed at them, they didn't say anything back and their faces turned pale.
Ultimately, it’s because the children themselves are aware that they have a heavy accent and feel a little inferior.
If you have low self-esteem, find a way to overcome it.
The child she and Gu Ye have will definitely not be a bad one.
Because of this incident, Shen Zhiyou plans to put the matter of enrolling the children in the Children's Palace on the agenda.
When it comes to educating children, Shen Zhiyou and Gu Ye basically have the same opinion, so they directly agreed to take them to the nearest Children's Palace during the weekend.
Nian Nian and Man Man also threw it over.
Although the child's problem was solved, Shen Zhiyou still couldn't sleep when it was time to go to bed.
The events of the afternoon kept coming to my mind.
Suddenly, she opened her eyes and looked at Gu Ye.
After looking for a few seconds, Gu Ye opened his eyes and asked, "What's wrong?"
Shen Zhiyou couldn't help but laugh at the tacit understanding between the couple, "I forgot to tell you, do you know Ma Zhiqiang's father?"