Chapter 600 Bi Lizhu's Taught Daughter
After An Songyu and his wife came back this time, they first stayed at Jian's house for two days before returning to An's house.
However, as soon as the couple came back, they clearly felt that the atmosphere at home was a little strange.
An Songyu couldn't help but ask An Jianping: "Dad, what happened at home?"
"Why do I feel like Mom is in a low mood?"
An Jianping sighed helplessly before saying, "Isn't your sister's boyfriend coming over the day after tomorrow?"
"No matter how hard your mother cleans the house these past two days, she still feels unpresentable."
As he spoke, An Jianping couldn't help but remind his daughter: "Your mother will probably nag you about the progress of the house construction over there."
"If her tone is bad, don't lose your temper!"
"Dad will follow and will definitely interrupt her in time."
An Jianping didn't want to let his second daughter suffer because of his youngest daughter's affairs.
I don't want my wife to be too depressed.
He could only give some advice to both sides and put out the fire in time.
Jian Ziyu listened carefully to his father-in-law's words. He always felt that there were many things he could learn from his father-in-law.
For example, when getting along with my wife.
Jian Ziyu has always felt that she is not as good as her father-in-law in terms of the protection and peace of mind he gives his wife.
Sure enough, when Bi Lizhu came out, she started talking about this: "Ayu, how is the house over there being built?"
"Why is it so slow?"
"Your sister said her boyfriend is coming the day after tomorrow. I clearly told her not to rush this year."
"She just wouldn't listen!"
"Look, considering her boyfriend's family situation and our family's current situation..."
"I think the current situation is pretty good!" An Jianping looked at his warm home and was particularly satisfied.
Bi Lizhu couldn't help but glare at her husband again. Wasn't she also dissatisfied with her family?
I just don't want to lose face in front of my daughter's boyfriend.
They don't care, they won't live with the child.
But if her daughter were to be looked down upon because of this, she would totally not be able to accept it.
"Mom, since Xiaoxiang is willing to bring the person back, we should try to trust her character." An Songyu knew Bi Lizhu's uneasiness and persuaded her softly.
Bi Lizhu, however, thought her daughter was naive.
But when she looked at the two men next to her, she found it difficult to say some things directly.
Women, you can never put all your hopes on men in this life.
After all, hope is given by others, and they can take it back at any time.
And then the only one who needs to bear the consequences is the woman herself.
At night, the mother and her two daughters lay on An Songxiang's bed, and Bi Lizhu spoke carefully to her two daughters.
"Mom, do you feel the same way about Dad?" An Songxiang asked with a hint of mischief.
Bi Lizhu rolled her eyes at her daughter and did not answer the question directly.
Instead, he continued to speak earnestly to his two daughters: "Xiaoyu, Xiaoxiang, you are doing very well now."
"Whether it's getting married or having a boyfriend."
"Have your own earning power and have your own focus in life."
"Then I won't let you put all your heart and soul on men."
"It will also make men respect you more."
"Men...except for a few, most of them have some common thoughts."
"On the one hand, they want women to be gentle and dependent on them, but on the other hand, they don't want to be completely bound by them."
"In a family, the obvious contributions are easily seen, but the invisible contributions are not valued at all!"
"So, since we are busy making money and have our own focus in life, we don't have much time to care about each other and restrict each other?" An Songxiang thought about her own life situation, and it seemed to be true.
"People have limited time and energy." Bi Lizhu said lightly.
"Excessive care can indeed become a constraint." An Songyu also nodded: "Besides, people's hearts are fickle!"
“The reasons many people always find in love with each other are ultimately the reasons they break up.”
"Is there such a thing?" An Songxiang widened her eyes in disbelief.
"Why not?" It was Bi Lizhu who answered her.
She said, "Look, when you first start dating, don't many people like their partner to be cute and adorable?"
"Of course!" An Songxiang nodded immediately.
"But being cute and lovely is the result of someone's care." Bi Lizhu said meaningfully.
"When the person you raise becomes like him, he will know that being spoiled is the result of pampering, and being pretty is the result of dressing up."
“Cuteness means having no worries!”
"If he has the ability and the heart to pamper her, then her cuteness and loveliness can continue forever."
"If you don't have the ability..." An Songyu added, "Then being cute and lovely is a sin."
"I always hear men say: You have changed!"
"In fact, it's just that the situation has changed and the heart has changed!"
Bi Lizhu looked at her second daughter with some surprise.
This child has only been married for a year, and the couple seems to have a good relationship.
How could she say such a thing?
"Wow, sister, you know so much!" An Songxiang also exclaimed with admiration.
An Songyu was silent for a moment before saying, "Just watch more TV and read more novels, and get along with the people around you, and you'll be able to draw conclusions."
Bi Lizhu suddenly realized.
Yes, if this child didn't have this sharp mind.
After the house was demolished, it would not have developed to this point.
An Songxiang thought about what her mother had just said and began to analyze it:
"As for the apparent contributions... both parties earn money and support their families."
"And if only one party makes money, the other one will not be seen even if he does everything at home." An Songxiang naturally recalled the situation in the staff housing compound.
There are actually quite a lot of families like this.
It doesn’t really matter if life at home is going smoothly.
But once there is something difficult at home.
The person who makes money can always have the upper hand and blame the other half.
Thinking of this, An Songxiang couldn't help but sigh.
This marriage doesn't seem to be a good thing.
"If you really want to develop a relationship with your boyfriend, Hong Kong City is so far away from us."
"There's something about you that we can't know in time."
"Even if you miss us occasionally, you can't see us whenever you want."
"Xiaoxiang, it's basically impossible to live at home without feeling wronged."
“Even couples with the best relationship will always have disagreements.”
"After all, we are all human beings and we all have our own ideas!" Bi Lizhu stroked her daughter's little head and said it in a particularly meaningful way.
An Songxiang nodded slightly.
If you think about it carefully, aren’t their parents a loving couple that many families around them envy?
But there are still some contradictions!
Thinking about this, An Songxiang suddenly raised her head from Bi Lizhu's arms, looked at her sister beside her, and asked, "Sister, do you also quarrel with your brother-in-law?"
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