Chapter 386
"The hexagram indicates that your marriage will not be successful."
The woman was incredulous, “Why won’t my marriage be successful?”
Jin Chaochao took out a piece of paper and handed her a pen. "You are asking for a perfect marriage, just like we are trying to draw a circle. Draw it for me!"
The woman held the pen and hesitated for a long time before starting.
Because she knew that she couldn't draw a circle.
Jin Chaochao sighed, "If you don't even dare to try, how can you dare to pray for a happy marriage."
The woman finally plucked up the courage and drew a circle on the paper.
Her hand holding the pen was shaking a little, and the line she drew was like a wavy line, but she still drew a circle. A circle whose lines are not smooth but can be seen to be round.
Jin Chaochao took the pen from her hand and drew a circle next to her.
The circle was drawn in one stroke, very smoothly, as if it was drawn with a compass. It was simply incredible.
"Marriage life is like drawing a circle. Because you work hard, dare to draw, and draw with your heart, it gradually takes the shape of a circle. When you do nothing, perfection is just two words. If you want to draw this circle better, you have to work harder."
The woman stared at the circle in front of her, lost in thought.
After a while, her eyes turned red.
The trivialities of life made her feel suffocated.
There are only five people in the family, which makes her feel very distressed.
Jin Chaochao said to the woman bluntly, "You are now inside my house, so feel free to ask any questions you have."
The woman raised her head and gritted her teeth, "Why can't my marriage be perfect? There are so many beautiful families in the world, don't I deserve one?"
When she asked the question, it became more intuitive.
"Then what kind of marriage do you think is a happy one?" Jin Chaochao asked back.
The woman thought for a moment, "For ordinary people, the man treats the woman well, and they raise two children together. The family has an economic foundation, there are no quarrels, the father is kind and the son is filial, the parents are hardworking, and the children are motivated."
Jin Chaochao nodded, "Then what kind of woman do you think a man would be good to?"
"She's beautiful, talented, and can make people happy. Or she has a good family background, or she's gentle and virtuous, young and energetic." The woman said without hesitation.
Jin Chaochao nodded, "That's true. If I were a man, I would also like women like this. So what kind of woman do you think you are? Let's be objective, open your perspective, and examine yourself sincerely."
The woman's expression changed slightly, but she still said truthfully: "I have a bad temper, I love to complain, I never dress up, and I don't know how to act like a spoiled child."
Jin Chaochao knew that she understood, so she asked another question, "So do you think your husband raises your children with you?"
"have!"
The next question is: "How much do you think is economically sound?"
"House, car and savings are the basis of life," said the woman.
Jin Chaochao shook her head. "Most people in this society are poor. Most people don't have anything. So let me ask you, what are they going to do? Don't get married? Or don't live?"
Social resources are limited and most people are ordinary people.
The most important thing in life is your attitude. If your heart is satisfied, your marriage will be perfect.
If a man earns money to support his family, has no ulterior motives, and works together to live a good life, that is a fulfillment.
Happiness is never defined by others, but by yourself.
Husband and wife work together, support each other, and care for each other. Girls always want a little more preference, and so do men.
Put yourself in other people's shoes, support each other, and happiness is simple.
If you want perfection, it will only get worse.
Because a perfect standard circle does not exist at all, we can only try our best to draw it.
The woman leaned back in her chair and took a deep breath.
She was obviously thinking at the moment.
Jin Chaochao continued, "When people come into contact with each other, friction is inevitable. Not quarreling is not because there are no conflicts, but because one of the two people must tolerate the other and solve the problem."
"The father is kind and the son is filial, the parents are diligent, and the children are motivated. This is the result of the efforts of three generations. If this can be achieved, then the family must be good. If you can meet such a family, you are lucky. If you can't meet such a family, why can't you become the founder of such a beautiful family?"
The woman was completely silent.
She is not good at studying, does not have a smart mind, does not have any outstanding talents, is not pretty, and does not have the extraordinary wisdom to balance family conflicts.
My husband is not a very good person, but he works hard to make money. His monthly salary is not very high, but it is enough to cover the family expenses. Her parents-in-law take care of the housework. She also has a job. Her income is not high, but she can support herself and save some money.
To outsiders, her family is considered very happy.
But she felt suffocated and felt that this was not the life she wanted.
After listening to her complaints, Jin Chaochao poured her a glass of water and said, "Each of us is an independent individual. If you feel that life is suffocating you, maybe it's not that life has problems, but that your mentality has problems."
The woman wondered, “Why do you say that?”
"Have you never been happy in all these years?" Jin Chaochao asked.
The woman nodded. "I have been feeling unhappy since I got married."
Jin Chaochao took a deep breath and said, "Your fortune is finished!"
Why get married if you are not happy from the beginning?
If a person repeatedly regrets the decisions she has made and keeps wasting time on regret, then she will live in regret all her life.
The woman gritted her teeth, raised her head and asked, "I want a divorce, I want to live alone."
"If you have thought it through, I believe everyone will respect your decision." Jin Chaochao looked at the hexagram and found that the hexagram did not give her any instructions. It means that she won't be better off if she gets divorced.
Singleism is promoted nowadays. Some people do live well as singles, but you may not necessarily live well as singles.
Look at those single girls who are living a good life. They are very outstanding, have strong execution ability, do things efficiently, know how to exercise and take care of themselves.
But the woman in front of me, in her marriage, despite the financial support of her husband, she has not been able to take care of herself and looks so miserable.
This means that her thinking, state of mind, and vision limit him to a very low level.
If your mind is not broad, you will never be able to live a good life.
When your heart is open, happiness will never be affected by the environment.
Some people come from poor families but look very wealthy, because even if they don't have money, they still have good qualities. They can take care of themselves, are polite, have few distracting thoughts, and have a high sense of happiness.
However, some people come from a well-off family but live in calculation. They always feel that there are bad people around them. They are anxious, irritable, have too many distracting thoughts, and have no sense of happiness at all.
Jin Chaochao stopped talking because everyone is an individual.
Other people’s education will not change you. Only when the pain comes upon you will you gain enlightenment.
She talked too much and ruined her fate.
She did want to help her, but she also respected her fate.
None of the suffering people endure is caused by others.
Bad thoughts and complaints are all manifestations of the mind.
We all live in the same world and everyone will encounter problems. Some people choose to complain and do nothing, while others choose to work hard to change and not complain.
We always like to see other people's bright and beautiful appearance, but fail to see the efforts behind them.
After watching too many idol dramas, I thought that if I acted naive, men would bring flowers and romance to me.
Let’s think about it from another perspective. If a woman is rich, pretty, romantic, and knows how to live, would she fall in love with a naive man?
Even if you fall in love, how long can you last?
Cause and effect, cause and effect, if you sow the seeds, you will reap the fruits.
A good attitude in life is very important. Think positively about everything and you will be happy even if you live in a thatched hut.
If you are unhappy, even if you are given mountains of gold and silver, you will still have a miserable life.
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