At the same time, she was also very fortunate to be born in the Qin family. The attitude of her parents and brother and sister-in-law also made Qin Hanzhen more confident no matter what she did in the future.
After talking about family matters, they began discussing their marriage and the things that missionary couples encounter in life.
Qin Wenlong and Yang Qian have been married for so many years, and apart from occasional quarrels, they have never had a big fight, and they treat each other's relatives and friends the same way.
Yang Qian said to Song Zhiyao and Qin Hanchen with a serious face, "From now on, you two will form a family. It is inevitable that you will encounter bumps and bruises in life. If there is anything, you two should speak up at the first time. The most taboo between husband and wife is to hide things.
Your father and I are both experienced people. We have been young like you before. What you see in each other before marriage may be superficial, and after marriage you will slowly discover each other's shortcomings.
Married life is about the daily necessities of life, and it is the trivialities of life. I hope that you two will not be impatient or impatient when facing them. Even if you know the bad side of each other, you should look at it calmly.
At the same time, we should also learn to find more of each other's strengths. There is no need to worry about anything that is not a big deal. As long as there is no mistake in principle, couples should still be tolerant of what they should tolerate. "
Yang Qian knew her son's personality very well, but Song Zhiyao was a person who could not express himself well. He might keep things in his heart and would swallow his unhappiness silently.
Yang Qian was afraid that her son would do something wrong, but Song Zhiyao would not point it out, so the couple lacked communication and had more and more conflicts in life.
Marriage does not rely on novelty or one person's silent dedication. Qin Hanchen has a passionate personality and knows how to express himself, but he will get tired after a long time.
Yang Qian said so much now just hoping that they could listen to her. As parents, they cannot be with them all the time. Even if they live together, they cannot interfere in their affairs.
After hearing Yang Qian's straightforward words, Song Zhiyao knew that this was what they would have to face in the future, and she did not feel any aversion. They really had to slowly adapt to this identity.
Seeing that Song Zhiyao had no disgusted expression, Yang Qian and Qin Wenlong looked at each other, and Qin Wenlong slowly said, "Your mother and I will be a little long-winded today. You may not be used to it after you get married, after all, there is someone breaking into your life.
In the near future you will have children, and with children you will face more chores. Children are prone to illness when they are young, and you have your own work to take care of the children.
Human energy is limited. When people reach a certain limit, their emotions will become different from before. At this time, you must understand each other and face family matters together.
Don't complain about either party, because both of you have responsibilities for this family, so face it together and handle it well."
As a pediatrician, Song Zhiyao knows that it is normal for children to get sick when they are young. She has also seen all kinds of parents and various scenes of breakdown when they bring their children to the hospital.
There were mutual accusations, and in the end they blamed each other and fought, and even said hurtful words. These are the norm in life, and they may do the same in the future.
Just like Yang Qian and Qin Wenlong said, these are what they will need to face in the future, and their personalities must change. Communication is indeed very important.
Song Zhiyao also knows that she is not good at expressing emotions and feelings. She will just do things silently until she is unhappy or can't bear it anymore, then she will explode.
I will not be tolerant when facing strangers, but I will be tolerant when facing people close to me. This is something I really need to correct in the future.
He himself is also immersed in happiness. When he encounters difficulties in life in the future, will he be able to face them calmly like he is now, and will he be able to shoulder the responsibility? Looking at his parents who already have a few white hairs on their heads, he can't help but feel sad.
But she smiled and said, "Mom and Dad, don't worry, we will live a good life. If there is anything we don't understand in life, we will definitely ask you for advice. No matter what happens, I will talk to Zhiyao calmly."
My son and daughter-in-law are both smart people, so there is no point in saying more. Seeing that they both listened to me, I stopped talking about this topic.
In a blink of an eye, it was the wedding day. Song Zhiyao got married in the compound of a textile factory. The house here was small, but it carried the happy times of their family.
It was after Song Zhiyao returned to the Song family that she felt a different kind of family love. Even though she had a new home, she still wanted to get married in the old house.
This place is different for her, and the Song family thinks so too. There are neighbors they are familiar with here. Even if they don’t attend the wedding, they can watch the fun and witness the happiness of the newlyweds.
On the wedding day, Song Zhiyao wore a red dress with her long hair tied up in a bun and a red flower inserted in her hair. She looked so simple, without any fancy dressing.
People with good looks will look eye-catching no matter what they wear. When everyone saw Song Zhiyao come out, there was a flash of surprise in everyone's eyes, and the children said it bluntly.
"Sister Zhiyao is like a fairy descending from heaven. She is prettier than the stars in the movies."
Several martial arts movies have been popular recently, and children have gone to see the movies with their parents. They are obsessed with the beautiful actresses in the movies.
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Many girls dream of being that pretty when they grow up. When they see such a beautiful Song Zhiyao today, they forget about movie stars.
Amid the lively crowd, Qin Hanchen was wearing a beige suit. He was already handsome, and today he was even more dazzling, causing the crowd to sigh in admiration.
"He's so handsome, and he and Zhiyao are a perfect match. Their children will definitely be very good-looking."
Following him were his senior fellow students from the Capital Research Institute and a doctor from the hospital.
The two newlyweds looked at each other in the crowd. There was only room for each other in their eyes. They were both thinking that the other person today was different from before.
After noticing their actions, the crowd at the scene started to make a noise, "The bride and groom both think the other is so pretty, look at them staring at each other with wide eyes."
One person started to make a noise and the others all started to speak as well. The two people who were looking at each other suddenly blushed.
Li Yan, who was still standing next to Song Zhiyao, joked, "I thought our Director Song would be as calm as usual today, but I didn't expect you to have this side of you."
Even though it was just a joke, I was still happy for my friend. This is how a normal marriage should be. I also felt Song Zhiyao's nervousness and anticipation.