The reason I think of this now is because of Li Yan’s words. No matter how difficult the future may be, I will not just settle for someone.

Even if she meets her other half one day in the future, she will not lose herself because of so-called feelings.

After hearing her words, Li Yan also fell into deep thought.

She is now of marriageable age and is only two years older than Song Zhiyao.

Fortunately, her parents didn't often complain about her to the relatives and friends around them, the neighbors, especially the annoying gossiper who lived next door to them.

Every time I saw her, she would say sarcastically, "Yanzi, you are not in a hurry to find a partner at your age. I already had two children when I was your age.

Who in our neighborhood got married so late like you? Your parents don't even care about it. Don't you see your sister-in-law, who has a stern face all day long? Who would like to have a sister-in-law stay at her parents' home so late? "

Li Yan didn't care about these words. Instead, she thought the other party was just looking for trouble and would fight back after hearing them.

"Aunt, you are too nosy. I don't eat your rice. Why are you staring at me all day? If you have time, you might as well take care of your useless grandchildren."

Every time this happened, the gossipy woman would be so angry that she would mutter, "A girl like you who doesn't know how to respect the elderly will be unlucky if she marries you."

Li Yan didn't care what others said about her, because she knew that the gossipy woman said that on purpose.

Recently, the gossipy woman didn't know if she had taken the wrong medicine, and she kept getting closer to her, "Yanzi, we women have to get married eventually. We should pick a good man when we are young. You have no choice at your age now.

While your parents are still here and still alive, find someone of equal status to marry. The market is getting worse the older you get. "

Seeing that Li Yan looked troubled, Song Zhiyao knew that she had other ideas. Although she was usually carefree, she was actually very thoughtful and would express her unhappiness immediately.

It must have been a very difficult thing for her to show such an expression. It was nothing more than a matter of family and work partners. The two Li Yans mentioned above were not bad, so the only thing left was the issue of partners.

After thinking for a while, he said to comfort her, "Sister Yan, aren't you usually very optimistic? Why are you still entangled in such things? This is related to a lifetime matter.

No matter what others say, just follow your heart."

Li Yan came to her senses after hearing her words. She was also very troubled because those people had said too much recently.

After listening to Song Zhiyao's words, the thoughts in my mind became more firm.

I asked the question I had always wanted to ask, "Zhiyao, if I don't find a partner and don't get married before I meet the right person, will it make my parents feel embarrassed? I don't care about other people, but I'm afraid that they will be sad."

Li Yan has never met her mother Song Zhiyao, but has met her father Li Guoping twice. From the way he talks and the way he looks at people, it is clear that he is not a dictatorial person who does not care about his daughter's happiness.

"Tell your father what you think. I believe he will respect you. As for your mother, I don't know much about her, so I can't say anything. As long as you communicate well with them, they will definitely agree."

"I don't want to get married right after just one blind date. This is a new era, not the blind marriages of the past. Many people have had unhappy lives because of blind dates." Li Yan couldn't figure it out.

Her two brothers met her sister-in-law and got married through blind dates. After they got married, they had nothing to talk about and mostly just quarreled. At that time, she thought that she would never be like them in the future.

The two brothers and their sisters-in-law are a good match, but are they living a good life?

The so-called living a good life means that two people understand and respect each other and work together to maintain their home, but they quarreled over trivial matters.

Every time, it was their parents who had to clean up the mess for them, and they couldn't even take care of their nephews and nieces. She didn't want to live like this. At least the two of them should respect each other.

However, among so many blind date candidates, few of them respected her from the bottom of their hearts. Some of them were not interested in her family background, while others did not have a suitable partner to settle for.

Song Zhiyao understood what she was thinking and continued to comfort her gently, "I think the most important thing now is to talk to your parents. If they support you, other people's opinions don't matter.

Why should we care about what those people think when they are outsiders? "

Li Yan asked in confusion, "Where are my brother and sister-in-law?"

"Now they are married and have children and have their own families. If they have to worry about something, it is the affairs of their own families. Your parents can take care of your affairs enough." Song Zhiyao looked at her seriously and said.

Li Yan thought that was indeed the case. She had thought so before, but she always thought that they were siblings, so she had to listen to her brother and sister-in-law's opinions, or any other opinions.

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As long as her parents have no objection to her affairs, thinking too much will only cause unnecessary trouble.

After figuring it out, he felt much more relaxed and looked at Song Zhiyao with gratitude, "Zhiyao, it's a good thing I told you today, otherwise I would have been entangled in this matter for a long time."

Song Zhiyao shook her head after hearing this. "You are so smart. You will be able to get over it soon without me telling you. I just told you in advance."

"Hehehe, our comrade Song Zhiyao is the smartest person in my opinion. He can always come up with something different to say whenever you want to. Every time I talk to you, I suddenly feel enlightened.

Then I won't bother you anymore, you go ahead and do your work." Li Yan left in a good mood.

Li Yan planned to talk to her parents when she got home in the evening. They did not favor boys over girls like other families, and their ideological level was higher than that of other parents.

The two of them didn't urge her much, but just gave her some reminders occasionally. Thinking of this, Li Yan felt even more that Song Zhiyao was right, and she was just worrying about nothing.

Seeing how happy she was, the other nurses thought she was about to get pregnant. They all knew that she had read fortunes several times recently and one of them would be successful.

Faced with the teasing of other nurses, Li Yan did not say anything, but just smiled and denied it. However, she did not tell them more. Many of them thought that she was picky, just like many others.

I've heard several people talking about her like this behind her back before, so I felt there was no need to say so much to them. It would be useless if I said too much and they wouldn't agree with me.

After Li Yan left, Song Zhiyao's face darkened. Today's incident reminded her of the fragment that had flashed through her mind before. Even though she felt that it was unreal, it still made her feel extremely disgusted.

She would not be like the images that appeared in her mind, because of the so-called family compromise, her life seemed to be glorious, but in fact it made her sick.