Chapter 733: Binding Marriage
After hearing this, Yu Jiali looked at Huo Nuan and said, "If you want to get married, you must be obedient and sensible, otherwise you won't be able to get married in the future."
"Nuannuan, remember this too. Don't just trust a man. Look at your father, your uncle, and me. We are all good men who are worthy of your trust."
"What about me?" Yu Jiazhi glanced at his brother: "Do you think I don't exist? Or do you think I'm unreliable?"
After hearing this, Yu Jiali laughed and said, "How should I know? You don't have a partner yet. We don't know how you will treat your partner."
"If you haven't seen it with your own eyes, you have no right to speak."
Mr. Huo laughed: "That makes sense. If you haven't seen it with your own eyes, you have no right to speak."
"Xiao Si'er, you should find a partner as soon as possible so that everyone can see whether you are a good partner and a good man."
Yu Jiazhi smiled and nodded when he heard this: "I will try my best to meet a lesbian who I want to marry as soon as possible. If I don't meet one, there will be nothing I can do."
"That makes sense. Marriage is a big deal. If you meet the right person, get married. If you don't, that's fine. Just work." Huo Jianying picked up some food for his wife, then smiled and looked at Yu Jiazhi: "You are right."
"In a person's life, you spend the longest time with your wife. If you can't choose a wife who agrees with you, shares the same ideas and hobbies as you, and can tolerate each other, your life will be very difficult."
Huo Jianying feels extremely lucky to have met Wen Shuanghua at the most marriageable age.
In Huo Jianying's view, it takes time for a couple to get along with each other. During the adjustment stage, some couples can tolerate each other's strengths and weaknesses, and then integrate each other into their own flesh and blood. When two people are so good that they are like one person, all conflicts will be resolved.
Some people give up when they feel pain during the relationship.
Therefore, suitability is the most important thing.
He looked at the young people present and said: "So those of you who are not married yet don't have to rush to find one just because you are old enough."
"We need to find someone who is right for us, so that our marriage life will be interesting and hopeful."
Wen Shuanghua glared at her husband, thinking that he had talked too much today.
But Master Huo smiled and nodded, agreeing with his son's words: "When Jianying wanted to be with Shuanghua, I agreed with both hands."
"It's really not easy to meet a like-minded partner in one's life."
"You young married people all chose your wives by yourselves. Now that you have chosen them, you should live a good life and get along well with them. One day you will find that your partner is actually a part of your body and soul."
"Only when you find this person will your life be complete."
Huo Lanci listened to these philosophical words and whispered, "These words don't sound like something my grandfather would say, but rather something my great-grandmother would say."
Huo Wenci looked at his younger brother, and the two brothers looked at each other and couldn't help laughing.
In fact, Huo Wenci also felt that such words were not something his grandfather would say, but rather something their great-grandmother, who was well-versed in poetry, would say.
Huo Jianying stopped talking.
These two brothers really deserve to be punished. They actually dared to destroy their grandfather's stage.
Could it be that he, as a father, didn't realize that these words were so reasonable and sensible, as they were said by his own grandmother?
Did he dismantle the stage?
Grandpa Huo looked at his two grandsons deeply, then smiled and said, "You are right. I heard these words from my mother, who is also your great-grandmother."
"She was against going forward with a marriage that bound the couple together, thinking that neither of them would be happy in such a marriage."
Yu Wanqing asked curiously, "Grandpa, were you and grandma in a bound marriage before?"
"Of course not. If I don't want to marry, who can force me?" Mr. Huo retorted without thinking. Thinking of his old partner, he still looked nostalgic: "Your grandmother is very good. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen."
"You young people don't understand." Old Master Huo didn't want to talk too much about his wife's words. He would feel uncomfortable if he did.
The person has been gone for so long, he can only think about him.
I don’t know when I can reunite with my wife.
The meal was really finished in laughter.
Everyone helped to clean the bathroom, then sat in the living room to drink tea and talk.
Zhuang Cuiwen whispered to Yu Jiali, "This is the first time I've heard such talk. I've always thought that girls should get married when they reach a certain age."
"I had no choice but to do it, so I have delayed it until now." Of course, I also didn't dare to get married early because I saw what happened to my good friend.
I never thought that in the eyes and minds of the elders of the Huo family, it is not necessary to get married when you reach a certain age, but you have to find the right person before choosing to get married.
The right person is more important than time.
These words impacted her cognition from childhood to adulthood, and she didn't know how to react for a while.
Aunt Zhuang was also stunned by these words.
Isn't it true that you should get married when you reach a certain age?
Her daughter was dragged down by their mother-son affair and has not yet married in her twenties. This has become a knot in her heart.
Now some people tell themselves not to rush into marriage and to find the right person.
She looked at her daughter, and then at her future son-in-law, who was handsome, good-natured and had a good temper.
Suddenly I felt that what Chief Huo said made sense. There is no rush, so that you can find the most suitable one.
After dinner, Zhuang Cuiwen and her mother were washing dishes in the kitchen, and Yu Jiali was helping.
Aunt Zhuang whispered, "Fortunately, you insisted on not listening to your uncles. If you had listened to them and found a new partner in your hometown, you wouldn't be living your life today."
"Thanks to you for tolerating me." Zhuang Cuiwen said to her mother with a smile, "When someone offered a high bride price, you didn't force me. This is the most important thing."
It was her mother’s unconditional support and indulgence that gave Zhuang Cuiwen the confidence to not get married even though she was in her twenties in that small village.
Many times, when someone called her a spinster, my mother would stand up and argue with them, saying that she had younger brothers and a widowed mother, and as the eldest daughter she could not get married now.
I must help take care of my younger brother and raise him up.
Such words scared away a group of people.
She knew very well that her mother often cried secretly at night, worried that her marriage would be delayed.
It is also often said that when looking for a good marriage partner, it doesn't matter if the person is far away, as long as the person has a good personality, treats the wife well, and does not beat the wife.
My mother thought that if she lived farther away, she wouldn't have to go back to her parents' home so often and could live her own life wholeheartedly.
She gave up the idea of returning to her parents' home.
It's not that she didn't see this.
Aunt Zhuang smiled and looked at her daughter: "Mom just wants you to be happy."