Yu Xiangnian said, "You like him and he likes you, so you can agree. However, you still have to respect your parents' wishes."
Lin also felt that it was right. She should ask Song Huaiqian and Lin Yunyi what they thought.
Yu Xiangnian paused and said, "But, I feel like Dad doesn't like Dr. Meng very much. He might not agree."
Lin was also confused, "How could Dad dislike Dr. Meng? Dad invited him to dinner and specially invited him to dinner at home."
Yu Xiangnian: "...your rarest feature is also your weakness. Not everyone is like you and will say what they think. People like your dad and your brother, let alone say it, won't even show their face."
Lin Ye: “…”
Yu Xiangnian said, "I agree that you should be with Dr. Meng, but Dad has his own considerations. Maybe he thinks Dr. Meng is too old, or maybe he thinks he's too cunning, or maybe it's something else. You should have a good talk with Dad."
Lin was also impatient. After coming out of Yu Xiangnian's room, she knocked on her parents' room door.
"Dad, I have something to talk to you about."
Song Huaiqian guessed that this matter was most likely related to Meng Yiming. "Go to the living room and wait. Dad will come out and talk."
Lin waited for four or five minutes, and Song Huaiqian came to the living room wearing a coat.
Facing Song Huaiqian, Lin didn't know how to bring up this matter.
Song Huaiqian sat on the sofa and took the initiative to bring up the topic, "Xiaoye, is what you want to talk about related to Dr. Meng?"
Lin was also surprised that Song Huaiqian actually guessed it.
Song Huaiqian asked, "Did Dr. Meng say something to you that made you very distressed?"
Lin Ye took two deep breaths and went all out. "Doctor Meng said she likes me and asked me to think about whether I would accept him as a person."
"So what do you think of him?"
"I... think he's pretty good." Lin Ye said shyly, "I like being with him."
Song Huaiqian asked, "Can you tell me specifically what you like about him?"
Lin also thought about it. "He has many advantages, but the most important thing is that he understands my inner thoughts very well. He will encourage and comfort me when I am down, guide me when I am confused, and often make me happy. I feel very comfortable and happy with him."
Song Huaiqian nodded and said, "It sounds like he treats you very well indeed. But Xiaoye, have you figured out whether you like him as a person or whether you need the emotional value he provides you?"
Lin Ye: “?”
After a moment, "What difference does it make?"
Song Huaiqian said: "There are many people who can provide emotional value. Any man will be gentle, patient and interesting when pursuing a woman, and can provide enough emotional value."
Lin seemed to understand but not quite.
Song Huaiqian said, "Dad believes that if you like someone, you should choose him/her unwaveringly no matter what the circumstances. Will you choose him/her so firmly?"
Lin Ye: “…”
Song Huaiqian said, "It seems you're still unsure. Don't be impatient, think about it slowly. Maybe you're just used to him. He was with you and took care of you in Nigeria, and you're used to having him around. In fact, you can get used to him if he changes you."
Lin Ye: “…”
She is so contradictory!
After her conversation with Yu Xiangnian just now, she was sure that she liked Dr. Meng, but after talking with Song Huaiqian, she began to suspect that her feelings for him might not be love.
Song Huaiqian said, "Don't think too much about it yet. Take your time. If he doesn't have the patience to wait for your reply, then tell him not to wait."
Lin Ye: "Doctor Meng has never urged me, but, Dad, do you dislike Doctor Meng?"
Song Huaiqian's expression was calm. "Who said that?"
Lin Ye: "...Just tell me, do you dislike him?"
Song Huaiqian didn't want to lie, so he said honestly: "As for him as a person, Dad admires him very much. But if he wants to be with you, Dad doesn't like him."
"Um?"
"Not only is he old, but he's also cunning, and you're so innocent. Dad really doesn't feel comfortable leaving you with him."
"But Dr. Meng is not a bad person." Lin also said.
"Xiaoye, being a good person is just the most basic requirement," Song Huaiqian said. "I've told you before that when choosing a partner, the most important thing is growing together and being tolerant of each other. Dr. Meng has grown up, while you're still very immature. He has the patience to help you grow now, but what about in the future? People's patience is limited."
Lin was also extremely confused and conflicted.
Song Huaiqian said: "If you can't figure out a problem at the moment, put it aside and don't think about it. Take your time. Time will give you the answer."
"But how should I reply to Dr. Meng?"
Song Huaiqian could see that Lin was reluctant to refuse. "If you don't want to refuse, just leave it like this. Didn't Dad just tell you that if he doesn't have the patience to wait, then forget it."
Song Huaiqian stood up and said, "If you have any questions, come and ask Dad. Don't think about it tonight. Go to bed early."
Song Huaiqian went back to his room first, and Lin also stood up dejectedly and went back to his room.
She sat blankly by the bed for more than half an hour, feeling restless. She went downstairs to find Yu Xiangnian again.
After listening to Lin Ye's words, Yu Xiangnian smiled and said, "Lin Ye, actually, when you came to me this time, you already had the answer, right?"
Lin Ye: “Hmm?”
Yu Xiangnian said, "Dad doesn't approve, and you feel upset. You feel like you can't sleep or eat well. But deep down, you have already accepted Dr. Meng."
Lin Ye: "...if Dad doesn't agree, I won't agree to him."
"That's why you're conflicted and upset," Yu Xiangnian said. "If you didn't have Dr. Meng in your heart and Dad didn't approve, you would only feel relieved and relieved."
Lin was almost conflicted. "Sister-in-law, if it were you, what would you do?"
"Me?" Yu Xiangnian smiled happily. "Parents are the most important, and men are important too. I will give Dr. Meng the status of a mistress, and let him stay outside and watch over me peacefully, so as not to affect the relationship between me and my parents."
Lin was also shocked, "..."
Yu Xiangnian said, "Look, you don't want to wrong Dr. Meng and want to give him a legitimate identity. Then you can only be patient and wait for Dad to change his mind."
"It's not that I don't want to wrong him," Lin said. "I'm a moral person. How could I do such a thing?"
"Are you saying I have no morals?"
Lin Ye: "...whoever does this has no morals."
Yu Xiangnian began to promote her great dream, "Let me tell you, my dream is to find eight men with eight-pack abs, a different one every day."
Lin also said seriously: "Then there is one more."
Yu Xiangnian said generously, "There's one extra. Here you go, my dear sister. You're welcome!"
Lin Ye: "I told my brother."
"Don't!"
Cheng Jingmo was about to appear in front of her with an aggrieved look, looking at her with hurt eyes, without saying a word.
Yu Xiangnian said, "Whether you can sleep or not, just go back to bed and lie down. I'll help you find a solution. Don't worry, Dr. Meng has the patience to wait!"
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