Chapter 563 Crisis
"Jiang Xin, are you stupid? Qin Dazhuang treated you like this, and you actually came back to ask Xiaoxiao for money? Have you ever thought that the 2,500 yuan would be gone after you take it back, as Qin Dazhuang took it all away? You are using money to buy peace, but the question is, can it really buy peace?
If Qin Dazhuang is too careless and thinks you can get money from your parents, he will do more harm to you and your child. If you come back every time to get money, how much money will your parents have to fill the hole for you? "
Jiang Yue is so disappointed with her sister that she thinks her sister should think about it more.
Jiang Xin is also responsible for Qin Dazhuang's current state.
Jiang Xin smiled bitterly, "Of course I know that, but what can I do? Life has to go on. The children are still young now, I just hope they can grow up a little bit, and they can all get into college, then my mission will be accomplished.
It will naturally not be like this at that time. The only excuse Qin Dazhuang can give is the 2,500 yuan. As for the rest, he is not a man who needs to rely on his mother-in-law's family for support. He doesn't have the face to say this.
As for the beating, what else can I do except endure it! Isn’t this how every woman lives her life? "
The resigned tone made Jiang Xiaoxiao angry.
"Since life has become like this, Second Sister should get a divorce."
This sentence scared Jiang Xin.
"Divorce? No, no! A divorced woman going back to her parents' home will make her family laugh. Our parents are finally living a comfortable life now, and you all are living so well. If I get divorced and go back to my parents' home, people will say that Jiang Xiaoxiao has a divorced sister.
You look good on your face! Jiang Lei hasn't married yet. If there is a divorced sister with a child at home, think about it, who would dare to marry into our family? It's enough for me to harm myself, how can I harm my family? "
Jiang Xin's face turned pale with fright.
Divorce was a very shameful thing in the 1980s, and many people discriminated against and looked down on divorced women and their families.
Jiang Xin’s concerns are indeed what all women of this era worry about.
I am more worried about the discriminatory looks and gossip from people in society.
Jiang Yue slapped Jiang Xiaoxiao on the back, but her strength was so light that it couldn't even kill a mosquito.
He even rolled his eyes.
Jiang Xiaoxiao's dissatisfied explanation.
"Sister, don't look at me like that. What I said is the truth. We can't make ends meet, but we have to make compromises. What's the point? Qin Dazhuang started beating my second sister now. If he waits until the children grow up, it will take at least a dozen years.
Have you ever thought about this? If the second sister was beaten for another ten years, could she live like this? Let me assume that the second sister endured the humiliation and held it in. For example, during these ten years, one day, she was beaten to the point where she could no longer bear it. The anger that had been pent up in her heart had accumulated until it suddenly exploded.
Then he killed Qin Dazhuang and ended up in jail. Is this the result you want? Although everyone feels sympathy for the second sister, it is absolutely impossible for her to be in jail just because of sympathy. It is impossible for her to be ignored just because of sympathy.
Second sister, have you ever thought about what it would be like without two children, or are you prepared to endure it for the rest of your life? Is this the life you want to live your whole life by being beaten by him until you are old? You take other people's gossip to heart, but are you living for others?
Who knows that you live such a hard life, and who knows that you are covered in wounds and fall asleep with tears in your eyes every day. Do you have to endure it just for the sake of other people's eyes and gossip? Do you think people should live their lives like this? "
What Jiang Xiaoxiao described is a classic case. Many women who have been victims of domestic violence end up shocking everyone after their outburst.
There is a saying that either explodes in silence or dies in silence.
Jiang Xin shook her head. "It's not as serious as you say. What couple doesn't fight and quarrel when they live together? After all, he is the father of the child. Although I think it's wrong for him to hit others, every time he hits me, I also feel like I want to kill him, but the child is still so young. If he really loses his father, how can I, a woman with a child, live?
Children without fathers will be looked down upon in school and in the future. I am already in this situation, and I can make ends meet. But I cannot let my children suffer as well."
Jiang Xin is still a traditional housewife. She has no fundamental understanding of men beating women and just thinks it is a simple marital issue.
None of the parties involved take it seriously.
"What about Ladi and Zhaodi?"
Jiang Xin was surprised and said, "They are both fine. This matter has nothing to do with them. I will protect them and will not let them be beaten by your brother-in-law."
She did everything a mother should do in order to protect her child, which is why she was beaten so badly by Qin Dazhuang.
"Ladi and Zhaodi see their mother being beaten and kicked by their father every day. They live in hell. When they grow up, will they dare to get married? Will the fear in their hearts allow them to get married?
This kind of shadow will make them fear men for the rest of their lives, make them feel insecure, and not believe in the so-called marriage life in this world. What my second sister hopes is that after raising them, they will never get married because of their fear of their husbands and fear of marriage life. This is what you hope for.”
Talking about children immediately touched Jiang Xin's deepest soft spot.
"No, it's impossible... I'm not... I..."
Jiang Xin choked up, her inner fear made her anxious. For the first time, she realized that maybe she was just thinking too simply.
Jiang Yue held down Jiang Xiaoxiao and seemed to be about to continue.
"Jiang Xin, Xiao Xiao may have exaggerated a bit, but you must face the problem. You can tolerate it for yourself, but have you ever thought about whether the children want to see such a father and mother living together.
And the problem you mentioned is not just a problem with Qin Dazhuang. He is not just beating people. He must explain where he and you spent the money. As a couple living together, it is impossible for him to take the money unilaterally without informing you of the purpose of the money.
If he has some bad habits, I won't talk about whether he has problems with his sexual behavior. Let's just talk about the simplest problem, if he gambles with other people outside, or does something bad.
Then this is not something you can simply endure, and the days will probably be filled with misery. You just simply think that you can endure it, but one day he will go crazy with gambling.
He even lost his wife and children to others at the table. In his mind, his two daughters were money-losing goods and he never paid any attention to them. So his two children might be directly pawned to others to pay off his debts.
Do you think you can protect the two children by yourself by then?"
Jiang Xin almost fell down.
Yes, what if Qin Dazhuang learned to gamble now?
What about the mother and daughter?
(End of this chapter)
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