Chapter 749 Raising a child is not an easy task
Jiang Xin was helpless. She was not a fool and could not fail to see what Qin Dazhuang was thinking.
It’s no wonder that Qin Dazhuang has become completely different in recent years compared to before.
Although Qin Dazhuang didn't gamble before, he was not a responsible man. He was the kind of person who could go with the flow and live a stable life. To put it in a good way, he was honest and down-to-earth, but to put it in a bad way, he was unmotivated.
But Jiang Xin is different. After starting his business, his vision and mind are different. What he sees will make him have different requirements for future life.
If he was still the same Qin Dazhuang, he would never have caught Jiang Xin's eye, but she didn't expect that Qin Dazhuang would improve by leaps and bounds.
Qin Dazhuang's current change is indeed surprising.
"Not today! My mom asked me to take the kids back for dinner. My uncle is back, so we can all get together. Maybe next week."
Jiang Xin knew that Qin Dazhuang looked forward to the day every week when he could take his daughters out, and she didn't want Qin Dazhuang to be disappointed. After all, he was the father of the children, and she had never thought of letting the children hate this father.
She couldn't help but feel complicated. Qin Dazhuang's constant changes were really confusing.
They had to divorce at the beginning, but Qin Dazhuang's current behavior is also very surprising.
Now, not only does he stop gambling and hitting people, he has become the same Qin Dazhuang again, and even better than before.
Be patient, gentle, tolerant, and responsible.
The same is true of having the ability to do many things.
Jiang Xin didn't know what she wanted to do.
"My uncle is back. OK, then you can take the kids back to meet your family. It's okay. I'll pick them up next week. Wait a minute. I'll get the things in the car and buy some stationery and clothes for the kids.
There are also some nutritional supplements I bought for my mother... aunt and uncle. I originally wanted them to bring them back after they go there. Since they are not going, I will give them to you directly. "
Qin Dazhuang ran out in a hurry. After a while, he came back with two large bags, one of which was stationery, snacks and clothes for the children.
The other package is full of nutritional supplements.
Jiang Xin complained, "Why are you buying them all these things again? If you buy clothes for these two children every week, they won't be able to wear them all. They are in the growth stage. They grow taller in a few months. You bought so many clothes that many of the new ones have to be put away before they can be worn."
Qin Dazhuang is almost spoiling his two daughters.
"It's because the children grow up so fast that I have to buy more clothes for them. I know I will definitely not spend money like this next time."
Qin Dazhuang also knew that he doted on his two daughters to death.
But there was nothing he could do. When he saw those clothes and beautiful stationery, he couldn't help but think of his two daughters and couldn't help but buy them.
It's all about shopping. Other mothers buy clothes for their daughters, but this is the only thing he, as a father, can do for his children.
"The children are getting older now, so you have to be careful about how you do it. By buying so many things, the two children have become spoiled. They are starting to value things less and less, and they go to school and show off to their teachers and classmates how good their stationery and clothes are.
They don't take their studies seriously, and always compare their food and clothing with others. If they continue like this, the two children will really be taught in the wrong way. I am also doing this for their own good. You should think more about how to teach them.
You can't just spoil them blindly. If you spoil them like this when they grow up, they will develop the habit of being overambitious and incompetent, which will cause big problems when they go out and get along with others.
Besides, we are just an ordinary family, you have to teach your children to be frugal. Have you forgotten that when my grandpa and grandma got into trouble, it was because of my uncle's extravagant spending. The disaster happened because our family was rich. Think about it, if it is really for their own good, you should teach them to be low-key. "
Jiang Xin didn't say this out loud, as she felt unhappy, mainly because her two daughters had changed so much.
The teacher has communicated with them that the two children are not as hardworking as before in their studies, and they always compare food and clothing with their classmates. If this continues, the two children will really take a detour.
Qin Dazhuang was full of regret. After hearing this, he sincerely admitted his mistake.
"It's my fault. I didn't figure out what I should do about this. I just thought that since the children were not with me, I should love them more. I didn't consider other things. Don't worry, I know what to do next."
Seeing that Qin Dazhuang was listening, Jiang Xin softened her tone.
"Okay, hurry back. I'll pick them up from school and go straight there."
Jiang Xin took the keys and got in the car.
She bought a Xiali last year.
Sometimes this car is more convenient when delivering goods to customers.
Qin Dazhuang watched Jiang Xin leave, then sighed as he stood at the car door. He never thought carefully about anything he did, and he even messed up educating his children.
If I continue to do this, these two children will probably grow up to be arrogant rich girls. The question is what kind of family they are. Although the couple is rich now, they are still an ordinary family and cannot raise their children like that.
They are still young now, so of course it doesn't matter to them. But when they grow up in the future, whether it's getting along with others or getting married and marrying into their mother-in-law's family.
Do you expect the whole family to treat you like a rich girl? That is definitely impossible.
The way people get along with each other cannot be measured simply by money.
Qin Dazhuang has experienced a lot of things and has long been able to let go.
What is important about a person is his character, which cannot be measured by money.
If a future son-in-law is attracted to my daughters and their families' money, I'm afraid he is not a good person.
If money is not important, and people value character and personality, then the two daughters should be taught well.
No matter from which point of view, a daughter's character is the most important thing.
Drive back to the hot pot restaurant.
Dinner was not yet served, and he had originally planned to wait for his daughters to come back and have them have dinner here. Then he would take the children home and chat with them while helping them with their homework.
He is planning to take the children to the playground tomorrow, so he has asked the store manager to do it for the next two days and he will not come himself.
But I had nowhere to go for a while, so of course I went back to the store.
As soon as I entered the store, I saw the manager running towards me in a panic.
"Xiao Zhang, why are you so nervous? Did something happen in the store?"
Judging from Xiao Zhang's appearance, something must have happened.
Xiao Zhang whispered, "Boss, an old lady and a woman just came in, and they insisted that they were your mother and your elder sister. They were making a scene at the door and insisted on seeing you. I just sent someone to your house to look for you, but you were not at home and I didn't know what to do.
Because the old lady insisted that I take two hundred yuan from the counter, saying that they hired a car to bring it. It's not that I disagree, but the two of them were making a fuss there. "
Qin Dazhuang's heart skipped a beat.
(End of this chapter)
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