Chapter 139 Chapter 139 The bacon platter is salty and delicious (Part 1…
Su Tianli looked at Su Qianzi, then at Tan Weiming.
Tan Weiming was very excited. He stared at Su Qianzi for a while, and his eyes gradually turned red.
But Su Qianzi was obviously a little uncomfortable. She tugged at the corner of her clothes and adjusted her hair...
Su Tianli said to Su Qianzi, "There are a lot of mosquitoes outside. You and Ming should not stand here stupidly. Why don't you go home and talk? Dad, brother, Cheng Yu and I will go for a walk on the playground."
The winter in Guangzhou is not cold, but there are no mosquitoes either.
Su Tianli said this just to find a random excuse for Su Qianzi and Tan Weiming not to stay in the public eye for too long.
So Su Tianli pulled Cheng Yu beside her, and winked at Su Dejun and Su Tiancai, indicating that everyone should leave with her.
Su Dejun frowned.
But he still listened to Lizhi's words, walked a few steps towards the small playground, and then raised his voice to tell Su Qianzi, "Old Third, please heat up the dinner. Your sister and Cheng Yu left after dinner."
Su Qianzi responded.
Su Dejun finally caught up with Su Tianli and complained again: "Lizhi, you are such a fool. Qianzi was just slandered by Chen Jing, why did you let Qianzi and Ah Ming stay alone together?"
"What if someone gossips about Qianzi again?" Su Dejun was very concerned about this.
Su Tianli smiled, "Chen Jing spread rumors to frame Qianzi, the consequences are so serious——"
"So now everyone in the family compound knows that we will call the police!"
"Who else dares to spread rumors about our family?"
"If you didn't let Qianzi and Ah Ming go home and talk, but let them stand outside and talk for a long time...if someone saw and heard it, would you stop spreading rumors?"
Su Dejun: ...
Su Tianli added: "Besides, didn't you also ask Qianzi to do the work?"
"You let Qianzi cook dinner for six or seven of us by herself. She only has enough time to talk to Ming while cooking!"
"Are you still afraid that something might happen between them?"
Su Tiancai, who was standing by, looked at Su Dejun in shock, "Dad, you still have such thoughts!"
Su Dejun blushed, "I, I..."
"You've made it big, Dad!" Su Tiancai looked at his father with a little excitement in his eyes, "My dad has finally grown up, and he's actually starting to become smart and scheming!"
Su Dejun: ...
"You little brat! What nonsense are you talking about!" Su Dejun raised his arm and wanted to hit his son.
Su Tiancai let out a strange cry and ran away.
Su Tianli, "Dad, don't worry about him——"
It's useless.
Su Dejun was already waving his arms to chase Su Tiancai away.
Su Tianli was helpless, she clenched her hands into trumpet shapes and shouted:
"Dad! You have to watch your waist!"
"Brother! Don't run too fast!"
Cheng Yu was overjoyed watching his father beating his son.
Then, he suddenly turned and looked at Litchi.
Litchi was looking at him and smiling.
Cheng Yu understood - he was smiling just now, so the dimples on his lips appeared.
He looked at the litchi and felt really happy!
Speaking of which, he has been worried that Lizhi only wants his face and body and doesn't want to marry him...
But, it seemed like Lizhi changed her mind in an instant.
He still didn't know what was going on, but Lizhi suddenly figured it out.
Now, Lizhi seems to be in a good mood.
This is a great opportunity.
"Litchi, we——"
As soon as Cheng Yu opened his mouth, he realized that he hadn't thought it through at all.
No,
In fact, he didn't even dare to ask.
I was afraid of angering Lizhi, what if she regretted the marriage...
What should I do then!
"What?" Su Tianli looked at Cheng Yu with amusement.
——What on earth is this guy thinking?
Why did her eyes sparkle, and then change from happy and joyful to slightly confused, and then to somewhat embarrassed... and finally her face turned red?
Cheng Yu pursed his lips.
He looked at the cirrus clouds on the horizon.
After Lizhi agreed to marry him on the phone yesterday, he was so excited that he couldn't sleep.
Yes, he is very happy.
But he was also anxious.
The good news is that Lizhi finally changed her mind and was willing to marry him.
What makes him anxious is how he and Lizhi can become husband and wife?
He thought a lot...
But I still can't figure it out.
People in today's society are generally reserved. Even married couples don't even hold hands in public...
Cheng Yu really couldn't find anyone to observe, so he could only figure it out on his own.
Finally, two questions came up:
One is the emotional problems caused by long-term separation between husband and wife.
One is the issue of the children’s future upbringing.
How to nourish the relationship between husband and wife?
Cheng Yu didn't have any good solution.
Probably all we can do is write letters often and see each other often during holidays.
For Cheng Yu, the issue of children's upbringing is his biggest fear in marriage.
I guess the same is true for lychees.
Cheng Yu found a reference answer to this question from the Xu family:
Mr. Xu and Mrs. Xu had three children in total. My eldest uncle and my second uncle suffered a lot because they stayed with their parents, but they had very positive values and good family background.
On the contrary, they tried their best to raise their only daughter Xu Jiaxi in wealth, but they didn't want her to suffer, so they kept her in the rear. In the end, Xu Jiaxi, who was dressed in fine clothes and fed with delicious food, did not suffer from material hardship, but for various reasons, she lived an unhappy life.
So Cheng Yu also made up his mind: if he and Lizhi had a child in the future, and Lizhi was too busy with work to take care of the child, he would have to find a way to solve the problem of taking the child to school!
However, Cheng Yu, who had learned lessons from Mr. and Mrs. Xu's parenting experience, noticed that this couple, who had been married the longest and still had a good relationship...
So, how did they maintain their love for each other over such a long period of time?
So Cheng Yu carefully recalled how the two elders of the Xu family got along with each other.
Unfortunately, Cheng Yu didn't have much time to spend with them.
Only a few points can be found:
First, Mrs. Xu is not a woman who only cares about her husband and children. She has her own job and is very dedicated to it. Yesterday, she was furious about Cheng Yu's "dress", but when the assistant came to ask her some questions about work, Mrs. Xu was able to get back to work immediately!
First, Mr. Xu respected his wife very much. As long as his wife started talking, he would stop what he was doing and listen to her carefully. At the same time, he would always look at his wife with a gentle expression.
First, the two elders are very frank with each other.
For example:
It is said that Mrs. Xu had an operation two years ago and the doctor told her that she must quit drinking.
They came yesterday and Cheng Yu also went to meet them.
When she was happy, Mrs. Xu suggested that everyone have a drink.
At that time, Mr. Xu said to the old lady: "Yunzhen, even if you are unhappy, I have to say this..."
This opening remark immediately calmed down the old lady who had just been a little too proud of herself because of her happiness.
She immediately stopped smiling and said seriously, "Just keep talking, I'm listening!"
Old Master Xu said softly, "I know you are happy that Xiaoyu is willing to come back and get close to us. But don't forget that you are the backbone of this family. If something happens to you, everyone in the family will be worried."
"During the surgery you had two years ago, the doctor told you not to drink alcohol. Although your physical examination report last year showed good values, shouldn't you listen more to the doctor?"
"Yunzhen, promise me that you can drink later, but only a little, okay?" Old Master Xu said gently and carefully.
At this moment, Cheng Yu could clearly see the love that Grandpa Xu had for his wife in his eyes!
Then--
Cheng Yu saw that Mrs. Xu, who was over 70 years old, actually nodded shyly.
This incident gave Cheng Yu a deep impression.
First, Mr. Xu is very honest - he will tell his wife everything, whether it is good or bad, without hiding anything!
One is the true love that Mr. Xu expressed for his wife - he has always loved his wife, and even when he looks at his wife, the love in his eyes is not hidden at all!
One is Mr. Xu’s attitude when talking to his wife – a man who often makes hawkish remarks in newspapers and on the radio, his attitude towards his wife is gentle yet firm!
Later, during the meal, Cheng Yu indeed realized that Old Mrs. Xu used to love drinking.
The old man personally poured her a small glass of wine, and she always treasured it. Every time before drinking, she would smell it for a long time and then take a small sip...
Old Mrs. Xu told Cheng Yu very bluntly, "When I was young, I worked too hard and hurt my body... Later, I occasionally discovered that drinking a little wine could warm my body and help me sleep, so I couldn't stop doing it, until I was sentenced by the doctor!"
Later, another incident occurred at the dinner table:
Mr. Xu loves to eat chili peppers.
Old Mrs. Xu can't eat anything spicy.
So the meals at home are always spicy and not spicy.
For example, for the dish of stir-fried pork with peppers, Mrs. Xu's portion is stir-fried pork with celery or stir-fried pork with garlic sprouts.
If there is no way to avoid spicy food, then Mrs. Xu will have an extra dish like steamed egg and a small piece of steamed bacon.
Old Mrs. Xu smiled and said to Cheng Yu: "I am over 70 years old, and I still can't eat chili peppers. Your grandfather is over 70 years old, and he can't give up chili peppers! But we think it's okay... Eating should be a very enjoyable thing. There is no need for him to make me, or for me to accommodate him!"
“So everyone should just seek common ground while reserving differences!”
"Of course, we should all be tolerant of each other. I respect his love of spicy food, and he always cares about me not being able to eat spicy food..."
"But if one day I or he is wronged, it doesn't matter, I can just make it up to him later."
so! ! !
Cheng Yu finally had his own experience.
First of all, he must remain loyal to Litchi.
This loyalty also includes his thoughts.
He couldn't hold back on lychees.
Whatever it was, he should tell Lizhi honestly.
Secondly, don’t try to change your partner in marriage - this will make your partner feel wronged.
He cannot allow marriage to change himself - that would make him feel wronged.
Grievances will turn into resentment towards the other person and will accumulate as time goes by.
At first, you may endure it because of love, children, or financial conditions.
When the problems pile up to the point where the other person can no longer tolerate it, the relationship will come to an end.
So, respecting each other and seeking common ground while reserving differences is the guarantee for him and Lizhi to walk through life together!
Thinking of this, Cheng Yu no longer hesitated or was troubled.
He tried hard to solve the problem with his heart.
He looked at Su Tianli, not hiding the anxiety in his eyes, "Lizhi, I originally thought... you would think that I deliberately called the two elders to force you to get married. When you promised me on the phone yesterday, I thought you, you..."
Su Tianli was stunned.
She quickly understood, "Do you think that I agreed to marry you because of the pressure from your grandparents?"
Cheng Yu nodded.
Su Tianli smiled.
How to say it,
She felt that Cheng Yu was really... clear.
The uneasiness in his eyes, mixed with his love and reluctance for her, were all clearly seen by her!
However, compared to Cheng Yu's hesitation and thinking about this and that,
Su Tianli’s reason for wanting to get married was very simple—she really liked his face and his body, and she also liked Cheng Yu as a person!
She really doesn't want to get married.
But if he insisted on getting married, then she could do it.
She felt that what Yao Meiyu said made sense - marriage requires management from both husband and wife.
In the future, she will take Cheng Yu and her marriage seriously.
If she has tried and worked hard, but still doesn't like it anymore...she can still get a divorce!
Anyway, she would not force Cheng Yu to remain single and only date just because she did not want to get married;
Or maybe he was very stubborn and didn't want Cheng Yu...
After all, Cheng Yu was a rare person who met all her preferences.
Besides, in her previous life, she also chose Cheng Yu to be her boyfriend——
Su Tianli always felt that she was a very good person in her previous life.
So she believes in herself very much!
She winked at Cheng Yu playfully, "Not at the moment—"
"Originally I really didn't want to get married, but my boyfriend is so outstanding that I changed my mind!"
"Cheng Yu, I don't think I regret making this decision."
"Don't make me regret it, okay?"
The sweet and sticky sound of lychees surprised Cheng Yu greatly!
He knew very well that
This is just his first step towards her!
And she responded to him so frankly and indulgently? !
Cheng Yu said with a trembling voice: "Lizhi, I...I won't let you regret it."
In the future, I will grow up to be a very good person and stay with you gently and carefully for the rest of my life!
However, he was too excited to speak.
He could only look at her infatuatedly with his eyes red and filled with love.
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