Wang Qiaoya's mind was somewhat slow to react.
Since the earthquake, the things that happened at home have kept her completely occupied and unable to think about these things.
Chi Yu's words left her somewhat stunned.
"Qiaoya, you are the eldest daughter-in-law, so you should live with your father-in-law and mother-in-law in the future."
But the situation is special now, your younger siblings are still young.
You need to think carefully about whether to live with your father-in-law and his family, or with your younger siblings.
You need to think this through, then discuss it with Aqing and listen to his opinion.
Another question is, if you're going to live with your younger siblings, should you build a house in Chijia'ao or go back to Wangjiawan?
If we go back to Wangjiawan, Aqing will definitely go with us.
Then you have to consider his thoughts.
After all, this is based on the premise of separating the family first.
Furthermore, since you're in Wangjiawan with your younger siblings, Aqing might be mistaken for a son-in-law who has married into the family.
As Chi Yu recounted his story, Wang Qiaoya's mind gradually calmed down, and she began to seriously consider these matters.
But still somewhat slow to react, unable to figure it out herself, she simply asked:
"Auntie, if you were me, what would you do?"
My mind is a mess right now; I can't think about these things at all, and I don't know what the right thing to do is.
But one thing I know for sure is that my parents are gone, and although Jiabao is thirteen, he is only twelve and a half years old, so he can only be considered a half-grown boy.
Tao'er was only a girl in her early teens, not to mention Jiawang.
If I don't take care of them, they'll definitely go hungry and won't even have a place to stay.
Therefore, if having her younger siblings live with her would put her in-laws in a difficult position, she is willing to leave them.
As for the expenses incurred by her in-laws for the wedding, she can only wait until her younger siblings grow up and then find a way to earn money to pay them back.
She didn't want to put her in-laws in a difficult position, nor did she want to drag Ah Qing down with her.
After all, raising several children in this world is really not easy!
In such matters, it's best for innocent bystanders to stay out of it.
But she didn't want her happy family to fall apart like this.
Therefore, he said, "Qiaoya, the current difficulties are only temporary."
I know that the passing of your loved one has caused you great pain, and you feel that it's all your fault.
But actually, this has little to do with you.
I remember someone saying that Buddha said: A person's fate is predetermined by Heaven.
It means that this was their fate, something ordained by heaven long ago.
At this point, Chi Yu sighed softly, and seeing that she was listening attentively, she continued:
"People say that the dead are the greatest, but Qiaoya needs to understand that in the face of life, the dead must give way to the living."
Now that your parents are gone, even if you cry yourself to death with your younger siblings, it won't do any good.
What you need to think about now is how to arrange your affairs after death and how to ensure your younger siblings grow up safely.
Although you are not their parents, you are entitled to ignore them.
But you are the eldest sister, and an eldest sister is like a mother.
Your younger siblings are all good. Raise them well, and I believe they will know how to be grateful.
Jiawang is a smart child. In three to five years, when he's sixteen, seventeen, or eighteen, he'll be able to take care of the family. Then you'll be able to relax.
As for having children, you can discuss it with Aqing.
You and Aqing are both still young, there's no rush.
In three to five years, you'll be at most twenty. In my opinion, this is the perfect time to have a child.
As Wang Qiaoya heard what Chi Yu said, she gradually gave up the idea of leaving her husband's family.
After hesitating for a moment, she looked back. She had stopped crying, but was trying to open her eyes wide to look at her younger siblings, and said:
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