Lin Xiaomeng happily planned for her family's future.

She knew in her heart that in a few years, the iron rice bowl would be worthless, so she didn't take Xu Huaizhi's current iron rice bowl seriously at all, thinking it was useless.

Two years later, when the country allowed self-employed individuals, she took out her own savings and asked Xu Huaizhi to start a self-employed business, as making money was the only way to go.

By then they can settle down in Beijing, and everything will slowly get better.

Some things are not easy to tell Xu Huaizhiming now, and she also thought that he would compromise for her and understand her decision.

But obviously, Xu Huaizhi couldn't understand her arrangement at all.

The couple broke out into an unprecedented quarrel.

"You are old and your children are already 7 or 8 years old. Why do you want to imitate others?

Aren't we having a hard time now? I'll give you all my monthly salary. You don't have to do farm work. You can be a teacher in the commune and teach children. It's also very easy.

We still save a lot of money every month.

"Isn't this good? Why do you have to go to university?" Xu Huaizhi finally spoke out his true feelings.

Lin Xiaomeng finally saw the selfish and dark side of this man, and she couldn't help but sneer.

"Frustrated? Now you think I'm frustrated. Why didn't you tell me when I was reading day and night?

It turns out that your previous support for me to take the college entrance exam was fake. Did you think I couldn't pass?

Xu Huaizhi, your so-called good life comes at the cost of sacrificing me, why don’t you say it?

You just need to make money every month, but what about me?

I have to work, take care of my children, tutor them in their studies, worry about the social relationships at home, do housework, and worry about my family's eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, food, clothing, housing and transportation throughout the year.

You come back one or two days every week, eat and drink your fill, then run away, leaving a pile of rotten food for me.

I don't want to say such harsh words. After all, a family should not care too much about who pays more.

But you know how much time and effort I put into getting into college, and now that I've finally gotten in, you come over here and tear me down. That's pointless."

It's not that she is not disappointed. She thought this man really supported her to change her life, but she didn't expect that he was selfish and dark inside. Once things were out of his control, he would become like this.

She couldn't help but start to think, is the choice she made in this life really right? Is Xu Huaizhi really her life's destination?

This man has no ambition and is selfish. I don't know how he succeeded in his previous life.

Would it be possible that if I chose to stay and face it together with him, it would affect his life?

After listening to his wife's words and thinking about it, Xu Huaizhi felt that he had gone too far.

Lin Xiaomeng's desire to stand out has never changed, and he understands it, but doing it and saying it are two different things.

"That's not what I meant. I know you've contributed a lot to our family, but if you go to Beijing to study, it's not a good idea for our family to be separated for a long time.

And what about Dacheng? You can't take care of him because he's in school, and I, a grown man, can't take care of him either." Xu Huaizhi's attitude softened a little.

"Who will take care of the baby after it is born? Dacheng is so old now, he doesn't need you to hold him in your arms or on your back. He just needs to eat, drink, defecate and urinate. What else can't you do?"

I will study for a few years, not a lifetime. When I graduate, the country will assign me a job. Then our family can be together. Maybe I can even bring you all to Beijing.

Maybe in just a few years, maybe a year or two, our family will be reunited.

Don't make these excuses. I don't care. Anyway, I am determined to go to this school. You can't stop me, and neither can my son.

I am myself first, and then Gu Dacheng's mother. If I can't even handle myself well, how can I educate my son?"

After living a new life, Lin Xiaomeng has gradually understood a cruel truth: in this life, only if you love yourself will others take you seriously.

If you don't take yourself seriously, no one else will care about your life or death.

Whether it is husband and wife or children, to put it bluntly, if you are not strong enough, men will step on you.

If you always think about your children and lose yourself, your children will one day hate you and not take you seriously.

This is what happened. It is very realistic and cruel.

A man's attitude towards you does not depend on how good you are to him, but more importantly on the strength of your own inner value.

It is human nature to tolerate the strong and bully the weak.

In the past, at the old customer's house, she obviously did the most work, working hard to take care of the old and the young, and was very considerate, but who could see her good side?

In this life, she must rely on herself and become a strong person who will not be bullied at will, and no one can pull her down.

Seeing her tough attitude, Xu Huaizhi's face fell, but he finally did not say anything to stop her from going.

"I know it's not easy for you to get into this university, but have you ever thought about it? We are so far apart, and you won't see a bigger world. What if...

You changed your mind, fell in love with someone else, didn't want to go back to Xujiatun, and didn't want to take us over.

What do you want me to do with my children? What do you want me to do with my parents?

I'm a man, I can't live on you all my life, can I? That's too cowardly." Xu Huaizhi finally said what was in his heart.

Lin Xiaomeng was silent for a while after hearing this, and her heart gradually calmed down.

In fact, she was able to make the choice boldly because she knew what would happen in the future.

From Xu Huaizhi's perspective, he doesn't know what will happen in the future, so it is normal for him to be unwilling to give up the current stable income.

She was so excited that she collapsed when she heard that the other party was going to tie her hands and feet.

"Xu Huaizhi, let's talk calmly. I'll give you two choices.

First, you give up your current job, and our family will move to Beijing. The responsibility of taking care of your parents will be left to the third child, and we will give them money every year.

We now have more than 1,000 yuan in savings, which is enough for us to settle down in Beijing temporarily and live a worry-free life.

I'll find a chance to arrange a job for you when the time comes. I don't believe that such a big city like Beijing cannot accommodate us.

Second, you, Dacheng, stay here for the time being. I will pick you up when the time is right after I have settled down there.

You choose! "

In fact, Lin Xiaomeng had more than this money in her hands. She also made a lot of money from private transactions. It was just that she couldn't find a reason to tell Xu Huaizhi about this money now.

She had already arranged their future in her mind.

Regardless of whether Xu Huaizhi wants to go to Beijing with her now or not, she will find a way for them to take over when the environment improves next year.

By then, she would study while working as a self-employed person with Xu Huaizhi, go into business, be the first to try something new, make a lot of money, and live a really good life.

But the time is not right now, and there are many things I cannot say.

Come to think of it, it's terrible for a couple to end up like this.

Xu Huaizhi was unable to make a decision for a moment, and held his head in agony and said nothing.