"You are selfish. Why can't you just give up your job? Why do you have to give up your job?

Why do you take the entrance exam? Are you working so hard just to take care of your children?

It really doesn't work. I can't help but send this child to class. Anyway, he must go to class!"

Gu Qinghuan was indeed being unreasonable.

Zhong Zijun pulled her daughter and said that what she said was too much, but it seemed that she was not wrong.

What was wrong with her? She worked so hard to get into Huaqing University, but in the end, she had to give up her career for the sake of a child.

Who knows what the situation will be like when we come back?

Just like herself in the past, with Zhong Weiqian's influence at that time, she could definitely make some achievements in her work.

But after having two children, slowly, the ambition was worn away a little bit. For the sake of the children, I was willing to be bound by my feet, to be an ordinary person, and to protect my children as they grew up.

In fact, this dilemma is experienced by every woman, especially highly educated women, who suffer too much from education.

On the one hand, I want to make achievements in my career.

On the one hand, I want to take care of my family and children.

Especially after the children are born, companionship and education are all problems.

Moreover, it seems that in the eyes of the public, this is all the mother's problem.

If you take care of one end, you won't take care of the other.

Gu Qinghuan used to think that he could take care of all these things, and that once he had a financial foundation, these would no longer be a problem.

But after I actually got pregnant, I found that this was not the case.

She couldn't even control her own emotions now, so how could she control herself?

There is inevitably a sense of frustration.

Yun Jiuzhou finally compromised.

You cannot deprive your wife of her freedom and force her to compromise just because she is pregnant. This is no different from keeping a canary in a cage.

Being pregnant does not mean you have to give up your job.

Everything Gu Qinghuan has now is hard-earned, even the child, and Xiao can't let her give up her career.

She has worked so hard to get to where she is today. It is not fair to hold her hostage and ask her to give up everything just because she is pregnant or a mother.

놛 secretly took the gift to the research institute and greeted all of Gu Qinghuan's colleagues.

Please take good care of Qinghuan, the pregnant woman, and don't let her do any heavy physical work or come into contact with any dangerous sources, especially those that cause emotional excitement.

With the gifts paving the way, everyone said they would take good care of Gu Qinghuan and not let her get tired, so please rest assured.

Yun Jiuzhou found some sponge mats and rearranged the office where Gu Qinghuan worked during the day. He covered all the hard corners with sponge to ensure that his wife's working environment was safe.

A nanny was also arranged to deliver nutritious lunch to Gu Qinghuan on time every day at noon.

In the past, she always ate in the cafeteria with her classmates from the institute.

Yun Jiuzhou also asked the Yun family for a car and a driver to pick up Gu Qinghuan after get off work.

After making this arrangement, I felt more at ease.

Gu Qinghuan was surprised at the special protection her colleagues gave her. After asking, she found out that it was Yun Jiuzhou who had given them a heads-up in private.

The office mattress and desk corners were all wrapped up bit by bit by that man.

Seeing what Yun Jiuzhou had silently done for her, Gu Qinghuan sighed deeply. The more she sighed, the more guilty she felt, and she felt like she couldn't breathe.

She finally understood the helplessness of most women.

It is so difficult for women to stand out.

In fact, there are not many excellent people among them. In the end, they are worn out by life and bound by their children.

But perhaps, in their hearts, they all accepted this choice quietly and were happy with it.

Because this is mother.

"I'm sorry, I've been too excited these days.

You all think that you should give up your career and return to your family, which makes you feel deeply frustrated and feel that your efforts have been trampled on.

I finally understood that being a mother is a dilemma.

I used to think too one-sidedly. Because I was hurt when I was a child, I despised those mothers who gave up their children for work.

Now that I'm a mother myself, I realize how difficult it is to have the best of both worlds.

Becoming a mother does not mean you have to give up your own love. No matter what choice you make, I think you will be the best mother because your love for your children will not change.

In fact, I have already thought about it. After things at home are dealt with, I will give myself a long vacation. After the child is born, I will accompany and take care of her as much as possible.

The work in the institute can be slowed down temporarily, but it will not stop.

Give yourself two years to take care of and accompany your child. When she needs you less, you will continue to do what you want to do.

During this period, I ask you to do what a father should do. Child, this is not your responsibility alone, it is our joint choice, so we should be responsible for her together. "

In fact, Gu Qinghuan had already made some preparations before she became pregnant.

She has been too popular in the past one or two years. If this continues, it will not be a good thing.

So it's just right that I can take advantage of the time when I'm raising my kids to be quiet for a while.

But those words from the 꺶 family aroused her inner uneasiness.

She didn’t know why, but after having this child, she felt that she became much more fragile, easily emotional, and cried at the slightest provocation. She was no longer like herself.

It was Yun Jiuzhou's tolerance that soothed all her anxieties and fears.

That’s why we had this conversation.

"I'm wrong. You're right. I was too selfish. I didn't consider your feelings. I was so self-righteous that I wanted to trap you with the child.

Qing Huan, I am actually a petty man. Sometimes I am afraid that you will leave.

There is not even any bond or tie between you that can keep you.

Whenever there is an outstanding man around you, you will be jealous and crazy.

But this time, something suddenly came to mind.

Children never worry about the ties between them, only love.

My love for you will not change whether we have children or not.

놖You were too nervous, too nervous about this child who suddenly appeared, and ignored your feelings.

If you feel that you are not ready yet, it is okay to wait before having children.

I hope you are happy to give birth to this little life and it has nothing to do with other things. "

God knows how sad Yun Jiuzhou felt when he said these words, tears even welled up in his eyes.

This man always easily and unreservedly showed his vulnerable side in front of her.

Gu Qinghuan felt distressed and cautious, and reached out to embrace her.

"Silly boy, how could you not want this child? This is the child we have been looking forward to for a long time.

Just think of it as you being controlled by your emotions these days and acting unreasonably.

If you lose your temper again in the future, you can scold you to wake you up. "

Yun Jiuzhou burst into laughter.

"I can't bear to part with it."

He would rather scold himself than say anything harsh to her.

She is Gu Qinghuan, the person I love most in this world, how could I bear to hurt her in the slightest.

The haze that had been weighing on Gu Qinghuan for some time was swept away.