Yan Zhi sighed and said, "In fact, I have been reporting recently and I often encounter people like this. After divorce, they have nowhere to go. Even if they are beaten all over, they dare not divorce. Some women commit crimes for this reason."
A married girl has no way out and can only bite the bullet and accept the grievance.
Some people marry well and end up living like their parents. Because everyone's experiences are similar, it is those who are different that become the outliers.
It's like a girl becomes someone else's family after she gets married, from being a daughter to being a relative.
Su Xiaoluo said: "This phenomenon is not limited to girls. Some boys are like this too. They have no relatives to rely on, and it seems that their parents are not their relatives, but their enemies."
"Why is this happening?" Yan Zhi didn't really understand. She was an only child. Her parents had given everything for her. It was no exaggeration to say that if she was in a critical moment, her parents would stand in front of her without hesitation.
"Some people give birth to children not because of love, but to find a means of providing for their old age," said Su Xiaoluo.
"People like this are born with a weak bond with others. Only by breaking away from the original symbiotic relationship can they find inner peace."
"What is a symbiotic relationship?" Yan Zhi asked.
"Children all come back with food. There is a saying that as long as they are born, they will be raised. Everyone's blessings are different, so the ending is also different. People with shallow family ties will not have a next life. This life is just a tribulation." Su Xiaoluo said.
"Really? There is no next life?" Yan Zhi murmured.
"And have you noticed that among the children from such families, once the less favored child wakes up, his career will be better than that of the favored child?" Su Xiaoluo asked.
Yan Zhi thought about the cases she had interviewed and said, "It is true that some people who escaped will have better careers and families than the favored ones. But a large number of them are still very painful and confused, deeply trapped in that relationship, suffering and frustrated."
Su Xiaoluo smiled and said: "Once they realize it, they can regain their own lives and live happily ever after."
Yan Zhi sighed and said, "In my opinion, even if I was given money, I would not be willing to leave my parents. Fortunately, your second brother is good, and he is good to me and my family."
Su Xiaoluo said jokingly, "Now you know how good my second brother is?"
Yan Zhi blushed and said, "Your second brother has always been a good person. It's my fault. But it's not too late to turn back, right?"
Su Xiaoluo smiled and said, "It takes a hundred lifetimes to be able to ride the same boat together, and a thousand years to be able to sleep on the same pillow together."
Yan Zhi nodded and said, "Even in the next life, I will be married to your second brother."
Next life.
Su Xiaoluo's expression darkened and he did not answer.
Cheng Ya heard what they said and said, "You still have a long life ahead of you, so cherish this life and the next one!"
"My mother is right. This life is the most important." Su Xiaoluo raised his thumb and said with a smile, "No wonder I have such a talent for Taoism. I must have inherited it from my mother."
Cheng Ya was so amused by her words that she suddenly felt better. Seeing Song Lili, who had experienced a similar situation, she was also reminded of her sadness.
She said, "Prepare for your wedding and see if you need anything. Don't buy it when the time comes."
"I know!" Su Xiaoluo responded.
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On the afternoon of the second day, Aunt Cheng came to Su's house and shouted at the top of her voice, "Song Lili, get down here!"
Song Lili huddled in the room and refused to go down.
Cheng Ya was standing there, and Aunt Cheng didn't look happy. She even yelled, "Cheng Ya, what are you thinking? Are you jealous of my family?"
Cheng Ya asked, "Big sister, didn't you see how Lili was beaten up? She was so pitiful."
"What does that have to do with you? What does their business have to do with you? Did I let you get involved?" Aunt Cheng came up and couldn't help but blame.
"Lili is your daughter. Are you going to watch her being bullied?" Cheng Ya was also a little angry.
"That's my family's business, how can it be your turn to intervene?" Aunt Cheng didn't appreciate it at all. "Lili is married, she is no longer a member of the old Ma family. People give her food and drink, but she turns her face away when she is criticized. It's my fault for not educating her well. It's understandable that Guolong taught her a lesson."
Cheng Ya was stunned. She said, "Sister, what kind of life did we live? Do you want your child to repeat the same thing?"
Aunt Cheng said nonchalantly, "What's the big deal? I went through the same thing when I was young. I didn't say I wanted to go back to my parents' home or get a divorce!"
Aunt Cheng married the son of the village chief, who beat her up both ways, but she managed to endure it. After the child was born, her condition gradually got better.
She didn't see any problem.
"Sister, that's domestic violence!" Cheng Ya was speechless.
"How can a couple not quarrel?" Aunt Cheng snorted and said, "Do you think everyone is as lucky as you to encounter the Soviet Weijun?"
"I heard from the child that this is not the first time she has been beaten. We are Lili's family, why don't we support her?" Cheng Ya found it hard to imagine how the child would be bullied if she had no one to rely on.
"It was our Lili's fault first! She lost her body first, and then I accepted so much dowry from her." Aunt Cheng said in a low voice.
Originally, family disgrace should not be made public, but now all relatives know about it.
Aunt Cheng was deeply embarrassed.
Cheng Ya said: "Then you should return the betrothal gift to the child."
"Cheng Ya, I see you are talking without any concern. My family has the same conditions as yours. You have the ability to find a wife for your child, but my family doesn't. Return the betrothal gift, and find a wife for my son!" Aunt Cheng said angrily.
"Then is your son living a good life with the money from his sister's prostitution?" Su Xiaoluo crossed his arms over his chest. He had been listening for a while and the more he listened, the more weird it seemed to him.
"What do you mean by selling your body for money? I raised Lili very carefully! You can ask around in the village. We eat meat every other day, but have we given her any money? We paid for her education, but she herself couldn't go on to study. How much money did we spend just to raise her?" Aunt Cheng said in her defense.
Song Lili was listening to what her mother said upstairs and clenched her fists in anger.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, there are clues to follow.
Aunt Cheng taught Song Lili since she was a child that it was useless for girls to study and they should also maintain a slim figure.
Therefore, she couldn't eat too much meat, and she couldn't read books even if she wanted to.
Now that I think about it, learning can make people more cunning. Her mother was afraid that she would be too cunning and she would not be able to control her in the future.