Chapter 106 Parenting
Rong Ye saw that Rong Chi loved to act like a spoiled child and didn't have any of his aura at all. How could the future leader of the northern border be like this?
He said in a deep voice: "Chi'er, you are already five years old, you can't always act like a spoiled child."
Since Rong Chi started living with Xie Shuangbai, Rong Ye rarely bullied him. He was a little stunned when Rong Ye suddenly bullied him.
Rong Chi stood beside Xie Shuangbai and looked at Rong Ye helplessly.
Xie Shuangbai touched the child's face and said, "Why are you so serious about a five-year-old child?"
Then he picked up Rong Chi and said, "Chi'er, ignore your father, he is jealous of you!"
Rong Chi was still a little scared, and he huddled in Xie Shuangbai's arms, not daring to move.
Qin Yibao was also a little scared.
Xie Shuangbai ignored Rong Ye, holding Rong Chi and holding Qin Yibao: "Let's go and have dinner with uncle."
Rong Ye saw Xie Shuangbai taking the child away and ignoring him. His face became even colder, but he felt very aggrieved in his heart and could only follow him silently.
Xiaochun and Xiaoxia had already served the dishes. Seeing their master coming over with the young master in his arms, they stepped forward to take the young master.
In the evening we make simple home-cooked meals.
Ever since Xie Shuangbai discovered that Xiaoqiu had a talent for cooking, he started letting him cook in the small kitchen.
He made the three fresh vegetables and boiled pork slices in the evening.
"Yibao, what do you like to eat? Uncle will pick it up for you."
Qin Yibao looked at the spicy boiled meat and swallowed curiously.
Seeing his expression, Xie Shuangbai smiled, picked up a piece of meat for him, and warned: "This dish is very spicy, be careful not to get too spicy."
Sure enough, after one bite, it was too stimulating for Qin Yibao, a kid who rarely eats spicy food.
“Cough cough cough!”
Xie Shuangbai quickly brought him some soup: "Hurry, have a bowl of sweet soup!"
Qin Yibao, whose face turned red from the spiciness, drank the sweet pumpkin soup in one breath.
Xie Shuangbai didn't dare to give him spicy food anymore, so he picked up some fresh vegetables for him. The potatoes were cooked very soft and glutinous, so it was easy for children to eat.
The meal was a little quiet. Xie Shuangbai was taking care of the two children. Rong Chi seemed listless after being scolded by Rong Ye. Xie Shuangbai coaxed him for a long time before the child became more energetic.
After playing for a while, Xiaochun sent them back to Rongchi's yard.
The little ones were still reluctant to leave, so Xie Shuangbai agreed with them to come back and play tomorrow.
As soon as the children left, Xie Shuangbai walked into the inner room and still ignored Rong Ye.
Xiaochun and the others were tactful enough to close the door and leave.
Rong Ye followed closely behind him. Xie Shuangbai saw that he was always circling behind him and asked with a raised eyebrow, "Why do you always follow me?"
Rong Ye pulled at the corner of his clothes: "Why are you ignoring me?"
"Do you feel uncomfortable, sad, or aggrieved? Your originally good mood has suddenly become unhappy.
You just did the same thing to Chi'er. He was happily coming to play with his friends, and you said that to him in front of his friends. Do you think he'd be happy?"
Rong Ye looked at Xie Shuangbai without saying anything. He couldn't understand it for a moment. He felt that it was natural for a father to control his son.
Xie Shuangbai knew it from his expression.
"Do you think I'm weird and incomprehensible?"
Xie Shuangbai pulled Rong Ye to sit on the couch, "You have to think about the child too. He lost his mother when he was young, and he lacks love and security in his heart.
Now that he's finally not so afraid of you anymore, you shouldn't be so aggressive all the time. It's easy to destroy a relationship, but it's hard to build one. Do you understand what I'm saying?"
After learning about Rong Chi, Xie Shuangbai felt sorry for him. He hoped that Rong Chi could live a happy and loving life.
Rong Ye hugged him, stroked his fingers, and said lightly: "I'm just afraid that you'll spoil him too much and leave him without any responsibility. The North will rely on him in the future."
Xie Shuangbai said, "Rongye, Chi'er is still young and no one can predict his future. All we can do is give him enough love. Since his mother is gone, we must give him more fatherly love."
"I don't believe that someone who has lived in the sunshine since childhood would be without a sense of responsibility and love. You also don't want the people of the North to live under a ruler who lacks emotion, has a cold heart, and doesn't understand love."
"You don't need to be too strict with your child when he's young. As long as he has love and a sense of responsibility, there will be many excellent people around him to help him in the future.
The most important thing for a superior is to rely on his personal charm to attract countless talented people to help him.
A narrow-minded person will never be able to gain the support of wise officials and famous people. Do you want Chi'er to be like this?"
Rong Ye hummed softly, "You can only tell me what you said today, and don't let anyone else know!"
Xie Shuangbai nestled in his arms and smiled: "Who should I pass it on to? We were just discussing how to raise children, we didn't say anything else."
Rong Ye chuckled: "If someone with ulterior motives knew what we were saying, they might think I was going to rebel."
Xie Shuangbai was stunned. "The cost of rebellion is too low. Just talking about parenting is enough to start a rebellion?"
He was speechless. Anything he said was considered a rebellion. He was just saying a few words about the children's education, but it was considered a rebellion!
Rong Ye saw that he was a little angry, so he said with a smile: "It's okay if we talk about it between the two of us, but don't be careless in front of outsiders."
Xie Shuangbai nodded: "I understand, I'm not stupid. There must be a lot of people watching you, and I won't give them the opportunity to slander you!"
He thought about it and said:
"Then can you promise me that if Chi'er does something wrong in the future, you will talk to him alone and not be mean to him in front of his friends.
He's still young now, and he'll have a stronger sense of self-esteem in the future. I'm afraid this will create another rift between you two. I don't want to see you two get unhappy!"
Rong Ye seemed to have heard what he had said, and he said softly, "Okay, there's one more thing. I'm going to Fencheng in the middle of the month. You and Chi'er shouldn't go with me this time. It's bitterly cold there. I'll be back before the New Year to celebrate the New Year with you."
Xie Shuangbai calculated the date. Rongye would go to Fencheng on January 10th and celebrate the Chinese New Year on February 10th, so he would be away for a month.
"You don't want me to go because you're worried that you'll have to distract yourself from taking care of me. I don't need you to take care of me. Just go ahead and do your own thing and don't worry about me."
Rong Ye explained:
"I want you to go more than anyone else, but Fencheng is cold in winter, and it will be even more deserted than Bincheng. I don't want you to suffer."
Xie Shuangbai was unconvinced and said, "If you can go, why can't I? You can endure hardship, but I can't. I can do it even if we're both men!"
Rong Ye pulled Xie Shuangbai away from his arms and looked at him: "I'm not looking down on you, but with your physique, it's very dangerous to be at the border."
Xie Shuangbai was furious this time. "What are you saying? Don't you have any accompanying documents when you go to war? Are the think tanks in the Strategy Group as powerful as General Qin?"
Rong Ye was speechless when asked.
He lowered his eyes and thought for a moment: "You go... It's not impossible, let me think about it."
When Xie Shuangbai heard this, his eyes lit up, like a little fox who had succeeded!
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