"First, after marriage, both the husband and wife should be financially independent.
I myself am a typical example.
I was willing to be a househusband, so I didn't work hard to develop my entertainment career and was an insignificant nobody in the entertainment industry.
As a result, my ex-wife, her former agent, and most of her fans all think that I am a gigolo and a blood-sucking parasite that clings to her.
Love is a beautiful fantasy, marriage is ordinary life.
The marriage of most people is not an idol drama with a perfect ending.
Your significant other may say "I will support you" before marriage, but after marriage, all the expenses for food, clothing, housing and social interactions are paid by your significant other. So what does it matter if you put more effort into housework?
In the eyes of your significant other, you will inevitably become cheaper and cheaper.
Become a 'home nanny'.
Only when you are financially independent can you have the power to make decisions on all matters big and small in your family, rather than just being a bystander.
Marriage requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
If you don't have financial independence, how can you have decision-making power?"
The director questioned, "But in real life, many couples only have one person working and the other taking care of the household. They haven't achieved financial independence, have they?"
“You are right, but that doesn’t mean it is completely correct.
Let’s take Sister Luo’s family as an example.
If this Ai Luo breakfast shop has always been run by Brother Lin, and Sister Luo has always been at home taking care of the elderly and children.
If something happens to Brother Lin, who can shoulder the burden of this family in a short period of time?
Is it his frail old mother, his elderly father-in-law, or his older daughter who is still studying? You wouldn't expect his younger son who is still in elementary school, would you?
The same goes for other families.
Why do many middle-aged men still dare not resign when faced with challenges and pay cuts from their superiors?
It's because he shoulders the burden of the family.
Mortgage, car loan, living expenses for wife and children, and retirement issues.
As long as he falls, the family may not break up, but it will definitely be difficult.
The ability to resist risks is not strong.”
After hearing what Gu Mo said, the director remained silent.
"Secondly, I think Sister Luo and her husband have done a very good job.
If you want your marriage to last, you must learn to coordinate with each other, think from each other's perspective, and communicate in a timely manner.
She said that even though her husband Lin Zetao and she both have good tempers, they still cannot avoid quarreling in life.
But even though they quarreled, the two never fought, never tried to use force to resolve their conflicts, and never mentioned the sensitive word "divorce".
Don't let arguments last overnight. Communicate promptly when problems arise, and consider the other person's perspective."
Gu Mo knew that this kind of husband-wife relationship was rare and a bit idealistic.
After all, human nature is selfish and self-interested.
It's even more double standard.
I hope you can stand in my shoes and consider it for me.
Instead, I am willing to stand in your shoes and consider it for you.
It was as if Ren Ya wanted Gu Mo to stand in her shoes and consider things for her.
Just because fans and former agents think Gu Mo is not good enough, she hopes that Gu Mo will become famous and match her in fame. Instead of proudly telling fans that my husband Gu Mo cares more about the family and likes to be a househusband.
She never considered Gu Mo's feelings and thoughts, nor did she care.
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"Third, marriage requires effort and dedication.
A happy marriage requires energy and time to maintain.
Work is important, but life is not centered around work.
In your free time, go shopping, take a walk or take a short trip together, and try to bring freshness and surprises to your partner.
You give her flowers and bags, and she gives her watches and graphics cards.
Giving gifts is one of the benefits of financial independence between couples.
You can't expect to use your significant other's money to buy gifts and surprise them, right? "
When Gu Mo said this, he thought of the jokes that he often saw on the Internet.
The husband gives all his monthly salary to his wife, and the money in his pocket is not enough to buy a pack of cigarettes, let alone treat his friends to drinks and dinner.
Men hiding their "secret money" after marriage has gone from a funny joke to a reality.
The fabricated story eventually turned into an accident!
In fact, Gu Mo didn't really want to answer this kind of question. He knew that this topic would definitely cause huge controversy.
Maybe someone would scold him and ask how a divorced man could have the qualifications to talk about marriage.
Then Gu Mo could only say that he drew his conclusion based on his own failure case and the success case of Luo Xia and her husband.
With few reference samples, the conclusions may not be valid!
Please don’t take it personally and don’t delve into it!
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The other side.
The three female guests of "We Are Divorced" were treated much better.
They didn't have to wake up at 4 a.m. or work as temporary workers at a breakfast shop. Instead, they skipped the labor and went directly to the villa of a celebrity couple.
Putting aside their ability to make money, the social status of ordinary internet celebrities is obviously lower than that of celebrity actors.
The reason why I emphasize "ordinary" is because some individual examples are not ordinary!
Some highly respected experts and professors are also Internet celebrities, including some phenomenal Internet celebrities in the field of traditional culture.
However, this couple of internet celebrities are just ordinary internet celebrities.
The man, Da Fei, became famous for his abstract works, and later became famous for taking pictures of his British shorthair cat at home.
After the British Shorthair cat died of illness, she hooked up with the beauty blogger Linda Zuikemei, and the two of them suddenly became a blogger couple.
In the end, the two got married, and their marriage became a hot topic on major platforms, receiving countless blessings from "enthusiastic" netizens.
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