I'm only offering my humble opinion, but a good marriage isn't a mathematical equation that can be perfectly applied; it requires the joint efforts of both spouses.
I have read many comments from netizens, and I would like to talk about two typical examples here.
A male netizen said that after getting married, his quality of life plummeted.
My wife has been at home taking care of the children. She not only doesn't have a full-time job, but also doesn't have a part-time job to supplement the family income.
He felt so tired because they only knew how to ask him for money.
When he was working in the company, his boss only knew how to ask him for new plans, and he felt so bald.
As soon as the thought of resigning came to mind, it disappeared without a trace.
Because mortgages and car loans are needed to support the family line, and these loans are as heavy as Mount Tai.
Another female netizen said that the endless invisible housework after marriage is more tiring than working like a slave in a company.
There is endless cleaning to do, endless fresh ingredients to buy, and endless daily necessities to buy.
The crying of the child, the complaints of the mother-in-law, the sighs of the husband, all of these sounds tortured her fragile heart.
She wanted to escape, but she couldn't.
I want to say that everyone has their own difficulties.
Husband and wife are one, they can communicate with each other openly and clearly express their respective demands.
If conditions permit, the children can be left with their parents and the couple can earn money to support the family.
If conditions do not allow, then find another way.”
Gu Mo is not a cerebral palsy expert, and he would not say something like "If parents don't help with childcare, they can hire a nanny." Because most people who can afford a nanny definitely earn much more than the average person.
His words did work, and the netizens who were originally arguing with each other stopped.
But Gu Mo also knew that the effect was temporary.
Perhaps in a few days, the conflicts between men and women that have been deliberately exaggerated will come back again.
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